Is your bf your best friend also??

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    Jul 24, 2008 8:59 PM GMT
    I can say my bf is my best friend. Even if I wasnt in love with him I would love doing all the things we do together...bike riding, swimming and working on stuff. He is a great guy.

    I have other best friends but I actually dont have as much in common with them as I do my bf...guess thats why hes my bf, haha. duh.
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    Jul 24, 2008 9:08 PM GMT
    My ex is my best friend. Ex-wife, that is. icon_cool.gif
  • UncleverName

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    Jul 24, 2008 11:47 PM GMT
    I would describe my partner as my best friend, but that doesn't mean too much. I don't get everything I need from my partner; my other friends fill in the missing gaps. The same goes for him; I know I'm not everything he needs, nor do I want to be. I want to be me icon_smile.gif
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    Jul 25, 2008 12:55 AM GMT
    zdrew saidMy ex is my best friend. icon_cool.gif

    Yep. Me too. We were a couple for 17 years and we've been "divorced" for 7, but I still talk to him all the time and he's really the only person I can totally open up to.
    Anytime something bad or good happens in my life, the very first person I call is my X...I'm fairly certain he feels and does the same thing....he's here on RealJock too.icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 25, 2008 12:57 AM GMT
    Absolutely.
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    Jul 25, 2008 12:59 AM GMT
    I've known my BF for 5 months and my best friend for 20 years.
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    Jul 25, 2008 1:02 AM GMT
    Mine is and basically is my only real friend to be honest. I usually do everything with him and every once and a while I will hang out with others but generally I would rather be with him as often as possible..... for now at least lol. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 25, 2008 1:17 AM GMT
    UncleverName saidI would describe my partner as my best friend, but that doesn't mean too much. I don't get everything I need from my partner; my other friends fill in the missing gaps. The same goes for him; I know I'm not everything he needs, nor do I want to be. I want to be me icon_smile.gif


    I wonder if anyone feels that they can get everything from one person? My bf and I tell each other that we are each others everything and if he were the only person I had to see for the rest of my life I would be completely happy. But it does help to have others to talk to and do things with.

    Sometimes its good to get advice from someone thats not emotionally involved in situations. (enters RJ, haha) And it helps you grow as a person to have others in your life I think.

    I can tell that he acts a little different around his friends as well as I do...but I think its because we know we can really be ourselves with each other and we'll still love each other anyway, hahaha.
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    Jul 25, 2008 1:32 AM GMT
    Yes, he is.

    But that doesn't mean that we don't both have other very close friends who fulfill us in different ways.
  • VinBaltimore

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    Jul 25, 2008 1:44 AM GMT
    Well, we're working on becoming best friends. That sounds terrible doesn't it? But it's like USM said earlier. I've been with my boyfriend for six years and there are friends I've had since I was 17 (in other words, before some of you were born!).

    I have to work on opening up to my boyfriend more. There are definitely things I would tell my friends that I would have trouble telling my BF. It comes down to not wanting him to change how he sees me.
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    Jul 25, 2008 2:02 AM GMT
    What what a question. Let's see if I can get through this without too many tears.

    Dear God, Kelly is most certainly my best friend. The two of us have been through so much together in only five years. In 2005, I lost everything... first my job, then my house, then my health, and finally, I lost him. I was quite the selfish liar back then. He had good reason to throw me out.

    I was in a downward spiral and every night before I went to bed, I would pray for him to forgive and love me again. It took a year, but he eventually did.

    A job opened up in my field again- an even better job than I had- but it was 300 miles away from Dallas, here in Beaumont. It was hard, but I went ahead and moved, and we visited each other every weekend. He had a good job and couldn't move.

    One day, he got fed up with that job. He quit and decided to move and be with me. There was initially no job for him here, but once he moved, a new opportunity appeared in only a few months. He doesn't make as much as he did in Dallas, but the job is satisfying.

    Most of all, we get to be together here. We workout together, we have dinner together, we wake up together everyday. He made a big sacrifice to move to a small town, but it has made our lives together so much better.

    I tell him everything, who I lust, who I'd like to share with him, what I want from him, what my worst fears are. He knows everything about me.

    He is without any doubt my very best friend.

    I love you Kelly (krmdallas)
  • VinBaltimore

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    Jul 25, 2008 2:09 AM GMT
    BigSETXjock saidI tell him everything, who I lust, who I'd like to share with him, what I want from him, what my worst fears are. He knows everything about me.

    He is without any doubt my very best friend.


    Man oh man do I have some work to do!
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    Jul 25, 2008 2:10 AM GMT
    In a word, yes. We do everything together. He is my soul mate and my love, but he is also my bff.
  • docmarvy

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    Jul 25, 2008 2:41 AM GMT
    Without question, my partner is my best friend.

    My partner, best friend, love of my life.

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    Jul 25, 2008 3:08 AM GMT
    I have a few best friends and yes my boyfriend is one of them. He knows everything about me and I talk to him a couple times a day.
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    Jul 25, 2008 5:29 AM GMT

    Yup.

    Ditto.

    -Doug and Bill
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    Jul 25, 2008 6:03 AM GMT
    I think my bf is one of my best friends. Right now my world does revolve around him, and I definitely couldn't imagine being without him. But I feel that we're still in the new relationship mode (we'll be together one year on Sunday). We still have things to learn about each other.

    Plus if he's my only best friend who am I going to vent to when he pisses me off? icon_evil.gificon_lol.gif

    I have to say that posts like BigSETXjock's give me something to look forward too.
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    Jul 25, 2008 6:24 AM GMT
    Having not seen much of him due distance I feel yes he is becoming more of a best friend than a Lover boo hoo hooicon_sad.gif
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    Jul 25, 2008 7:43 AM GMT
    yes, my bf is my best friend ...

    we talk on the phone everyday ... and we talk about everything ... about our lives ...

    we send emails (including love letters) to each other everyday ...

    i tell my bf everything about me which my other friends does not know ...

    when i got sick last may 2008 of flu ... my boyfriend thought that i would die ... because he saw me being very miserable and was suffering like hell ...

    he brought me to the hospital because he was worried about why i was having a flu for almost one week already ... and he took care of me preparing food and reminding me to take my medicines ...

    since we are both working full-time on weekdays and busy with work and with our respective workout routines, we look forward of seeing each other every weekend ...

    so on weekends, i would go to his place and stay/sleep with him ... of course we always have sex ... since my bf is very naughty and he always attacks me ... lol ...

    we always have fun when we are together ... we are also romantic to each other ...

    i always drive him anywhere he goes ... to the grocery stores ... when he does his errands ... when we watch movies ... when we eat in restaurants ... when we go to his parents in irvine ... when we visit his friends ...

    my bf is very special to me ... he's my priority because he's my dream come true ... i love him with every beat of my heart ... he makes me happy and he inspires me everyday ...

    i believe i could not live in this world without my bf ...

    dong
  • GQjock

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    Jul 25, 2008 9:41 AM GMT
    Absolutely...
    My BF's have always been my best friends
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    Jul 25, 2008 11:53 AM GMT
    My bf is my best friend. We have so much in common; interests, outlooks, and beliefs, it would be difficult to think of him otherwise. My sister runs a very close second.
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    Jul 25, 2008 2:23 PM GMT
    I have some great friends that have been around a long long time. I have been with my bf for 7 months now, and he has become the person I see the most and do most things with. Its hard to say whether he is my best friend, but he is the one I do everything with and see the most of.
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    Jul 25, 2008 2:39 PM GMT
    I can say with all certainty that my bf is also my best friend. He's wonderful. I also have another best friend who happens to be my last girlfriend from ages ago.

  • mrpandora

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    Jul 25, 2008 2:47 PM GMT
    hmm tough cookie...
    I have been blessed with a three beautifull people around me who know me inside and out for many years now. and i consider them my best friends.

    My BF means the world to me and I feel very lucky he has found me. He knows me on levels my best friends don't.

    But I wouldnt call him my best friend, as he is my partner and my love.

    I think he would like that much more cause that means he's best friend with benefits !
  • Regina_Guy

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    Jul 25, 2008 2:53 PM GMT
    Chizzad saidMine is and basically is my only real friend to be honest. I usually do everything with him and every once and a while I will hang out with others but generally I would rather be with him as often as possible..... for now at least lol. icon_biggrin.gif


    I'm in the same boat as you. My BF is pretty much my only friend, but that doesn't really bother me too much. We have been together for 11 years, and do pretty much everything together.