A question to all the gays out there.

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    Jul 24, 2008 9:15 PM GMT
    *edit* Since I can't change the subject, a question to some of you gay guys out there.

    What is your FREAKIN PROBLEM with bi guys? icon_evil.gificon_evil.gif
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    Jul 24, 2008 9:18 PM GMT
    here we go again...

    (i love bi guys... i am attracted specifically to them)

    everyone else going to repeat their thoughts on this yet again or is someone going to be intrepid enough to post the links to the other bi threads from last week and the week before?

    anyway... good luck. you've started what will possibly become the latest installment in an ongoing flame war saga.
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    Jul 24, 2008 9:19 PM GMT

    i just don't bi it. icon_lol.gif

    did i say i hate dubai? icon_lol.gificon_lol.gif
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    Jul 24, 2008 9:24 PM GMT
    Two things; first I think many Gay men avoid those identifying themselves as "Bi" because they feel that person is not sincere and comfortable being gay and can change at a moments notice and suddenly not be interested in the guy and even turn mean on them, They don't want to invest time and emotion in a relationship with someone like that.
    2nd; my personal experience has shown me that "Bi" usually means GAY but still trying to hold on to being hetero for religious or peer or family pressure.
    These people make very unstable lovers for either a guy or girl and are rarely happy with either sex.
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    Jul 24, 2008 9:25 PM GMT
    yea, well it's just getting old. like i've said before, they want acceptance, but they can't accept anybody else. and until they can do that, then they are going to keep having the same damn problems.

    sorry if i offend anyone. some people just said the wrong damn things today. they just want to start shit..

    STOP WITH THE DRAMA ALREADY

  • Jul 24, 2008 9:34 PM GMT
    i love bi guys / women....different strokes for different folks

    men are worse than women, so fucking sensative about everythingicon_exclaim.gificon_exclaim.gificon_exclaim.gif

    oy vay. relax alreadyicon_eek.gif
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    Jul 24, 2008 9:42 PM GMT

    Forum Gays have problems with most everything (LOLcats, guys who think they are cute, guys who wonder why they are single, vegans, christians, republicans, guys who change under towels, guys who don't put out in the steam room, guys who don't rack their weights, guys who grunt at the gym, etc) , not JUST bi guys.
    So if you are here to start a fight with the forum gays, take a number.icon_cool.gif
  • Mikeylikesit

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    Jul 24, 2008 9:42 PM GMT
    Nothing against them......As long as they stay away from me....LOL
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    Jul 24, 2008 9:43 PM GMT
    lilmaninsc saidyea, well it's just getting old. like i've said before, they want acceptance, but they can't accept anybody else. and until they can do that, then they are going to keep having the same damn problems.

    sorry if i offend anyone. some people just said the wrong damn things today. they just want to start shit..

    STOP WITH THE DRAMA ALREADY


    I agree. Who gives a crap? I have no problem with bi guys.
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    Jul 24, 2008 9:44 PM GMT
    lilmaninsc saidyea, well it's just getting old. like i've said before, they want acceptance, but they can't accept anybody else. and until they can do that, then they are going to keep having the same damn problems.

    sorry if i offend anyone. some people just said the wrong damn things today. they just want to start shit..

    STOP WITH THE DRAMA ALREADY


    What Drama?

    By the way, "Be the change you want to see in the world." are good words to live by.


    I hope you can understand why some people don't trust or feel good about being with Bi guys... it's not a question of acceptance but more of uneasiness,
  • dhinkansas

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    Jul 24, 2008 9:46 PM GMT
    What about bi guys who wear their jock in the shower at the gym? Should they do that?
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    Jul 24, 2008 9:52 PM GMT
    Mmmmm...bi guys. Best thing about them...they're usually taken by a woman which means zero commitment; it's all fun and games. ;-)
  • Tyinstl

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    Jul 24, 2008 9:56 PM GMT
    Never trust em, I say! They're sleeping with the enemy!
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    Jul 24, 2008 9:56 PM GMT

    1. The typical bisexual perspective of yeah I enjoy the gay sex but at the end of the day I plan to settle down and have a meaningful relationship with a women makes us think we are simply being used as sex objects and you never view us as a partner you could build a relationship with. This also implies that a relationship between two men is some how inferior to that of an opposite sex couple.

    2. Partaking of gay sex yet trying to distance yourself being from labeled as gay implies you feeling being gay is something we ought to be ashamed of.


    3. Being gay and insisting your not, trying to distance your self from being associated as gay and implying it's something to be ashamed of makes you a hypocrite, nobody likes a hypocrite plain and simple.
  • EricLA

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    Jul 24, 2008 9:57 PM GMT
    I don't get it either. I'm fine with bi guys, but prefer the bi guys who are open about it. If they're in the closet about being bi (e.g. their friends don't know or they can't be seen publicly with another guy), then I'm probably not a fit for their life. But the same would go for closeted gay guys.

    But on the not-so-serious side, I sometimes joke that I'm bi -- that I like gay and straight men. Of course, I add bi guys too. Which means I'm tri. Like "try" any guy.
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    Jul 24, 2008 9:59 PM GMT
    lilmaninsc saidsorry if i offend anyone. some people just said the wrong damn things today. they just want to start shit..

    STOP WITH THE DRAMA ALREADY

    Ok, I am confused. ...Who started this thread?
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    Jul 24, 2008 10:03 PM GMT
    My problem with bi guys is really a problem with myself.

    You see, unfortunately I don't have all the equipment they enjoy. I only have some of the equipment they enjoy.

    Where will they go to enjoy the equipment I don't have? This is where I get insecure and worried that they'll go off looking for that equipment.

    Yes, the problem I have with bi guys comes from me. They make me feel inadequate.

    If a bi guy cannot understand this, then he needs to learn a handy little skill called empathy. If he is incapable of empathy, then I'm not attracted to him anyway.
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    Jul 24, 2008 10:08 PM GMT
    Just wear falsies, Rugger. It'll be fine
  • mtnjock

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    Jul 24, 2008 10:11 PM GMT
    Maybe if people would stop putting labels on everything, including sexuality, there wouldn't be this issue. People are what we are- we cannot help who or what we are attracted to. Those familiar with the French philosopher Michel Foucault understand that humans have to give an identity to everything, so even though we don't have a true identity, people must give us identities simply so we can identify with one another. Labeling someone is ridiculous. And people getting upset over that label are also ridiculous. Be secure in who you are and stop judging others, and you'll see in the end it really doesn't matter what people call you.
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    Jul 24, 2008 10:12 PM GMT
    No problem here. icon_wink.gif
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    Jul 24, 2008 10:20 PM GMT
    Chumps,you actually believe in Bi Guys??!!

    Oh-oh, now I've done mightily pissed off the Easter Rabbit. Or is it Donnie Dark's plush pal? In either case, he's going on and on about how HE'S a bi guy. Gotta dash.

    pssst... The Matrix is real though, just don't ask me how I came to find out.
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    Jul 24, 2008 10:21 PM GMT
    Yea, some bi guys just want the best of both worlds. But my point is that I don't care if you have a penis or a vagina. That's not what I'm attracted to, sex has nothing to do with it. It's the person, their mind. That's all. Why is there something wrong with that? Why do I have to just like women, or just like men?
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    Jul 24, 2008 10:25 PM GMT
    ain't no lie, baby bi bi bi!
  • mcwclewis

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    Jul 24, 2008 10:26 PM GMT
    If I have to read another post about "Why dont ____ guys like ____ guys?" Im going to vommit my brains out.


  • GQjock

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    Jul 24, 2008 10:30 PM GMT
    lilmaninsc saidWhat is your FUCKING PROBLEM with bi guys? icon_evil.gificon_evil.gif


    It's not a Fucking problem...
    because I think most bi guys fuck just as well as gay guys
    .... at least so I've heard icon_wink.gif