What do you think about hook ups?

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    May 27, 2012 12:10 AM GMT
    Is a good thing or a bad thing?
    just asking.. icon_confused.gif
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    May 27, 2012 12:55 AM GMT
    Depends on your level of acceptance of yourself and the chemistry you have with your partners. Also, bidnizz is bidnizz.
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    May 27, 2012 3:36 AM GMT
    Is it ok to contact your hook up partner the very next day? what if he doesnt want to be contact?
  • Shark100

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    May 27, 2012 3:39 AM GMT
    It is a personal decision, if you like informal contact with guys and a bit NSA fun, go ahead. But on the other side if you are susceptible to emotional ups and downs, and your main interest apart from sex is to engage in something more stable or LTR, well ....they are Antonyms, one thing can't be the other simple than that.
  • E_84

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    May 27, 2012 3:58 AM GMT
    They're gross.

    I have too much respect for my body to expose it to others and their possible health issues/hazards.
  • nefficles

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    May 27, 2012 4:00 AM GMT
    i've only done hookups with friends i know i can trust, are clean, and won't be weird about it. Also, my exs are fun if we end on good terms. other than that nope. gotta be a friend for a while or an ex.
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    May 27, 2012 4:02 AM GMT
    mayBbignow said
    ChangeofName saidjust remember to wear protection

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    Those look gross.
    Looks better for my pot pipe than anything else related.
    they look like ballet shoes lol
  • O5vx

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    May 27, 2012 6:11 AM GMT
    My problem with hookup is that it present a negative image for the gay community at large.
  • waccamatt

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    May 27, 2012 6:13 AM GMT
    O5vx saidMy problem with hookup is that it present a negative image for the gay community at large.



    ...since straight people NEVER hookup.
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    May 27, 2012 6:15 AM GMT
    tried them... they're ok.
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    May 27, 2012 6:34 AM GMT
    waccamatt said
    O5vx saidMy problem with hookup is that it present a negative image for the gay community at large.



    ...since straight people NEVER hookup.


    ^This lol. I laugh when people say/think that all gay people ever do is have sex or that our sexual habits are extreme. I personally hear more "dude, I just scored with this chick" stories from my straight friends than "dude, I just scored with this dude" stories from my gay friends.
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    May 27, 2012 6:41 AM GMT
    Also, no. I don't do hook ups.
    I don't judge people who do, just be safe icon_smile.gif. Because sex is good and all, but not worth getting some negative health related issue over, imo. Even if it is curable/manageable.
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    May 27, 2012 6:50 AM GMT
    I've never had a boyfriend. I've only ever hooked up with people. It can be a lot (A LOT) of fun if you're genuinely attracted to the other person. But if you're looking for something more, I'd say it's probably a better idea to wait a little while and get to know him first. That's my inexpert opinion, anyway.
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    May 27, 2012 6:52 AM GMT
    I don't like hu. As much as I may think how hot someone is, I physically cannot get myself to hookup with him. I just don't like using people for sexual desires and besides I think the sex is more fun with someone you feel comfortable with. If the person was random, then no not at all. icon_redface.gif
  • rf_dal

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    May 27, 2012 7:09 AM GMT
    "Relax, it's just sex"
  • ciizer

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    May 27, 2012 7:56 AM GMT
    Meaningless.

    Sex without love is simply meaningless. IMHO
  • Vit_and_Alex

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    May 27, 2012 8:06 AM GMT
    First - sex, then - love (if sex was great) ))))
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    May 27, 2012 12:42 PM GMT
    jerradwolf saidi've only done hookups with friends i know i can trust, are clean, and won't be weird about it. Also, my exs are fun if we end on good terms. other than that nope. gotta be a friend for a while or an ex.


    I like your comment, jerradwolf. I totally agree with you. So the next question is does hook up with a friend or someone you know and can trust even qualify as a "hook up"? I think the original poster is defining a hookup as something like a one night thing with someone you hardly know. I could be wrong. Anybody can chime in here. Good topic.
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    May 27, 2012 1:08 PM GMT
    Hookups probably satisfy on a physical level - and if you're just looking for some exercise with someone fun, its probably all good..

    Doing it all the time is kinda like eating fast food - it keeps you going, but doesn't truly satisfy, you'll need some vitamin supplements...

    Sex + Intimacy on the other hand is like cooking a meal with freinds, satisfies the body and soul.

    Hookups have a place - I'm not anti them, just couldn't survive on em.
  • sbwlguy

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    May 27, 2012 1:36 PM GMT
    I enjoy them. I hook up a lot. There is something about anonymous (to a certain degree at least) sex that turns me on a lot.

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    May 27, 2012 2:28 PM GMT
    Sorry I'm late to the thread. I was busy hooking up. icon_cool.gif
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    May 27, 2012 5:17 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidSorry I'm late to the thread. I was busy hooking up. icon_cool.gif
    What a naughty good looking man lol
  • Koaa2

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    May 27, 2012 10:06 PM GMT
    sbwlguy saidI enjoy them. I hook up a lot. There is something about anonymous (to a certain degree at least) sex that turns me on a lot.



    Yes, anonymous sex is just another variation, and can be hot!
  • O5vx

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    May 27, 2012 11:18 PM GMT
    DPrime said
    waccamatt said
    O5vx saidMy problem with hookup is that it present a negative image for the gay community at large.



    ...since straight people NEVER hookup.


    ^This lol. I laugh when people say/think that all gay people ever do is have sex or that our sexual habits are extreme. I personally hear more "dude, I just scored with this chick" stories from my straight friends than "dude, I just scored with this dude" stories from my gay friends.


    That is not the point. The main perception of the society (including me) is that hooking up is more dangerous health wise than some one you have had time to get to know.
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    May 27, 2012 11:21 PM GMT
    Nothing wrong with hooking up... sex has no moral or emotional value ascribed to it.