My first hook up experience

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    May 27, 2012 12:25 AM GMT
    Hey guys

    I finally hooked up with a guy for the first time. I want to share my experience with the guys who might be thinking about hooking up for the first time.

    I talked to this guy on a4a who had a few headless pictures with his shirt ON. He looked pretty much muscular and like in his late 20s or early 30s. He said he is 34.

    I asked him to show himself on the cam. He did so on manhunt. But he refused to take off his shirt or show his face, bringing excuses. But he looked fine with his shirt on. And I assumed he is just very discrete.

    He asked for my number and when I gave it to him, he texted me through yahoo messenger!! Claiming he is very discrete. We decided to meet on Friday night. He sent me a message and said he has a meeting and he might show up late. He didn't contact me till 2 AM, so i slept.

    The day after, he contacted me and said he had a meeting that took him till 2:30 AM. And finally he called me. And we eventually met at my place.

    Now, he looked like he was in his 50s. In fact he could be 60. But he claimed that he just looks older. His body was not fatty, but completely old-ish.

    Besides this, he was totally respectful and we did it. I honestly didn't enjoy being with him, I think it was for him being old and the fact that he is a stranger.

    Fist he topped me, which made me feel like my rectum is short. And then I topped him. He said he didn't expect to bottom but he is OK to do it. So I topped him. Unfortunately, he was not really clean :S but I figured out that I like to top more. We finished by mutual j/o and he left.

    Conclusions:

    1- Don't hook up without seeing the guy's face and body. I even suggest you meet him BEFORE deciding on having sex.

    2- This was my first anal. I enjoyed the topping part. But it is not like a miracle or something, LOL. Don't expect too much!

    3- I already knew these but you should be careful: to be always safe, not to get disappointed if the guy turned out to be a flake or changed his mind in the last moment, don't trust the pictures and ask to see the guy on the cam (everybody has a webcam! don't buy it when they claim that they don't), don't share your naked pics if you are not comfortable with it (there are lots of freaks who just collect pictures)

    4- I don't think I will hook up again. I always wanted to have sex in a relationship, but since I was very inexperienced, I needed to do this once. It was enough for me. There is a lot of risk in hooking up, repeating it will increase your chances of getting a disease or a dangerous weirdo.

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    May 27, 2012 12:50 AM GMT
    RedwanCh said
    I asked him to show himself on the cam. He did so on manhunt. But he refused to take off his shirt or show his face, bringing excuses. But he looked fine with his shirt on. And I assumed he is just very discrete.


    u sure is dumb.
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    May 27, 2012 10:36 PM GMT
    ChangeofName said
    RedwanCh said
    I asked him to show himself on the cam. He did so on manhunt. But he refused to take off his shirt or show his face, bringing excuses. But he looked fine with his shirt on. And I assumed he is just very discrete.


    u sure is dumb.


    maybe that was dumb of me, but we are in a very conservative area, for example when you open grindr you see just torsos, and some fake face pictures
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    May 27, 2012 11:29 PM GMT
    There was so many warning signs in that story but thanks for sharing anyways. I'm glad you figured out what you want
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    May 28, 2012 12:15 AM GMT
    Jay seems to be on the money here there were a lot of warning signs.

    As for the relationship comment, if you're with someone who cares for you and is aware that you're new to sex then they will help you gain the ropes. That's the best way to experience things, so I'd advise finding yourself a partner if you want to learn more about sex.
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    May 28, 2012 12:31 AM GMT
    50 year old, married with kids, had to find a time to sneak out.


    That is probably who you had sex with.
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    May 28, 2012 12:57 AM GMT
    Being an older guy, I would never....! Why didn't you just tell him to leave? Jeez, don't put youself in a situation like that ever again.
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    May 28, 2012 2:44 AM GMT
    TheBizMan said50 year old, married with kids, had to find a time to sneak out.


    That is probably who you had sex with.


    I guess so too, :-/
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    May 28, 2012 2:46 AM GMT
    Buddyboy938 saidBeing an older guy, I would never....! Why didn't you just tell him to leave? Jeez, don't put youself in a situation like that ever again.


    It was my first time and last time.. I won't
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    May 28, 2012 3:23 AM GMT
    You learn from experience I guess