i am in love with my straight friend.....

  • Amicable

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    May 27, 2012 3:54 AM GMT
    I am in a dilemma , I am in love with one of my best friend and he is straight …..i know its sounds weird and funny but I can’t help…it just happened …I don’t know…how??? entire day I just keep thinking about him…whenever he is near me I just feel heaven….i know noting gonna happen b/w us because I think I cannot tell him about this…and he wont understand this obeviously…I am in a fix…I just want to overcome the situation but the hell I can’t…..has anybody encountered the same situation before….? What should I do ??
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    May 27, 2012 4:39 AM GMT
    Not having a go, but such things are such a wast of time and energy; I've had females have crushes on me, and no matter how deep they may of thought it was, it was a total wast of time, I'm not about to swing for any women and your mate if straight will not swing for any man either.
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    May 27, 2012 5:58 AM GMT
    tru_blu_auzzie saidNot having a go, but such things are such a wast of time and energy; I've had females have crushes on me, and no matter how deep they may of thought it was, it was a total wast of time, I'm not about to swing for any women and your mate if straight will not swing for any man either.


    H-hey!!!!

    Look who showed up!!!!

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    May 27, 2012 6:01 AM GMT
    had the same feeling for a fren but he left to d usa...........didnt go c him off.......
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    May 27, 2012 6:04 AM GMT
    The faster you realize that he's not into you, the faster you can move on.
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    May 27, 2012 6:05 AM GMT
    Looks like a young Robert Mitchum.......icon_biggrin.gif
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    May 27, 2012 6:06 AM GMT
    You should find a hot gay guy, let him bang you or you bang him to forget your straight crush....lol otherwise its just a waste of time...icon_biggrin.gif good luckicon_cool.gif
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    May 27, 2012 6:11 AM GMT
    yep....I know this handsome straight guy at work who is btw married...and we've known each other for about 5 years....but each time we talk...it's like we're looking at each other's eyes...I just can't fully explain it.....
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    May 27, 2012 6:13 AM GMT
    Move on....you will never be able to see him as just a 'friend' and it will eat away at you, trust me! It's best to forget about him all together...
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    May 27, 2012 6:13 AM GMT
    i don't...think....it's gonna work.
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    May 27, 2012 6:15 AM GMT
    Hermes63 saidyep....I know this handsome straight guy at work who is btw married...and we've known each other for about 5 years....but each time we talk...it's like we're looking at each other's eyes...I just can't fully explain it.....
    Are you sure he's straight???LOL...I don't know many 'straight' dudes that keep eye contact!
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    May 27, 2012 6:18 AM GMT
    JPtheBITCH said
    Trollileo saidIs it wearing blush and eye-shadow?

    Yes, the drunken floozy.


    the wee harlot even has lipstick on!
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    May 27, 2012 6:19 AM GMT
    SteelCityMuscle said
    Hermes63 saidyep....I know this handsome straight guy at work who is btw married...and we've known each other for about 5 years....but each time we talk...it's like we're looking at each other's eyes...I just can't fully explain it.....
    Are you sure he's straight???LOL...I don't know many 'straight' dudes that keep eye contact!


    Well..yeah...I mean he's married and has a child.....but there's this eye contact we have each time we talk....he's younger than I am too but I dunno....he even invited me to his wedding but I declined cuz I had no one to go with me...
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    May 27, 2012 6:28 AM GMT
    Hermes63 said
    SteelCityMuscle said
    Hermes63 saidyep....I know this handsome straight guy at work who is btw married...and we've known each other for about 5 years....but each time we talk...it's like we're looking at each other's eyes...I just can't fully explain it.....
    Are you sure he's straight???LOL...I don't know many 'straight' dudes that keep eye contact!


    Well..yeah...I mean he's married and has a child.....but there's this eye contact we have each time we talk....he's younger than I am too but I dunno....he even invited me to his wedding but I declined cuz I had no one to go with me...


    He might still be Bi-Sexual dude, Social pressures,family,religion all these things can pressure a guy into living a 'straight' lifestyle....from my experience straight dudes will just not hold eye contact with another male, I know the look your talking about...I have seen it before!, he knows you are gay or go that way and likes you!but....he can'ticon_sad.gif I would be careful he's married has a kid and you work with him..yikes..!
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    May 27, 2012 6:29 AM GMT
    My advice is try to move on.
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    May 27, 2012 6:33 AM GMT
    SteelCityMuscle said
    Hermes63 said
    SteelCityMuscle said
    Hermes63 saidyep....I know this handsome straight guy at work who is btw married...and we've known each other for about 5 years....but each time we talk...it's like we're looking at each other's eyes...I just can't fully explain it.....
    Are you sure he's straight???LOL...I don't know many 'straight' dudes that keep eye contact!


    Well..yeah...I mean he's married and has a child.....but there's this eye contact we have each time we talk....he's younger than I am too but I dunno....he even invited me to his wedding but I declined cuz I had no one to go with me...


    He might still be Bi-Sexual dude, Social pressures,family,religion all these things can pressure a guy into living a 'straight' lifestyle....from my experience straight dudes will just not hold eye contact with another male, I know the look your talking about...I have seen it before!, he knows you are gay or go that way and likes you!but....he can'ticon_sad.gif I would be careful he's married has a kid and you work with him..yikes..!


    Yeah I know....sighicon_rolleyes.gif
  • Perry123

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    May 27, 2012 7:17 AM GMT
    Amicable saidI am in a dilemma , I am in love with one of my best friend and he is straight …..i know its sounds weird and funny but I can’t help…it just happened …I don’t know…how??? entire day I just keep thinking about him…whenever he is near me I just feel heaven….i know noting gonna happen b/w us because I think I cannot tell him about this…and he wont understand this obeviously…I am in a fix…I just want to overcome the situation but the hell I can’t…..has anybody encountered the same situation before….? What should I do ??


    I was in love with my str8 best friend for 6 years! I looked at it as a blessing to enjoy being around him and excepted what we had and enjoyed each other. I used a lot of mental self control to a point where it wasn't to frustrating. Hope this helps!
  • calibro

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    May 27, 2012 7:20 AM GMT
    read through the (literally) dozens if not hundreds of pages dedicated to this post that's so common we actually parody it to see if anyone has encountered this before.
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    May 27, 2012 7:24 AM GMT
    Jeez this post / topic always comes up on the news feed here! Read some other topics before you post! They all have the same concern and same response from the community!
  • Perry123

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    May 27, 2012 7:25 AM GMT
    Amicable saidI am in a dilemma , I am in love with one of my best friend and he is straight …..i know its sounds weird and funny but I can’t help…it just happened …I don’t know…how??? entire day I just keep thinking about him…whenever he is near me I just feel heaven….i know noting gonna happen b/w us because I think I cannot tell him about this…and he wont understand this obeviously…I am in a fix…I just want to overcome the situation but the hell I can’t…..has anybody encountered the same situation before….? What should I do ??


    I was in love with my str8 best friend for 6 years! I looked at it as a blessing to enjoy being around him and excepted what we had and enjoyed each other. I used a lot of mental self control to a point where it wasn't to frustrating. Hope this helps!

    Just because it's frustrating u move on??? Is that how one deals with adversity? Come on! Where is the mental toughness. Don't u use it as u progress in weightlifting. Or did u guys give up. Hell no! I don't want to hear that it's not the same. Mental toughness is mental toughness no matter what!
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    May 27, 2012 7:26 AM GMT
    This topic seems to come up every couple of days.

    Word of advice: Do A RJ Search For previous threads....there are many of them filled with advice.

    That way we don't have to keep repeating ourselves.




    Infatuation does not equal love.

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    May 27, 2012 8:19 AM GMT
    Let it go, it's never going to happen.
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    May 27, 2012 8:48 AM GMT
    Find a gay guy to channel those feelings of infatuation towards.