"A FAVOR TO A FRIEND": I thought I had seen it all!

  • HndsmKansan

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    May 27, 2012 4:21 PM GMT
    So on Friday, I was talking to a friend of mine, very nice guy, known him for several years and has been in a relationship (as I have) for the last 4 years. He and his partner are having issues, the partner upset about a lack of "passion" in the relationship.

    Of course I was concerned and the friend is close enough that I felt comfortable in asking him questions..... who initates what, boundries (why there are boundries?) and , knowing his is the "aggressor" in the relationship and a top, I was asking about his partner. "This is a two way street", I reminded him.

    I asked him about a number of things... lovemaking in the shower, techniques in bed. He asked me questions and admitted that he and his partner had never made love (and that may or may not actually mean intercourse) in the shower. He seemed stunned about some of the passionate behavior I
    discussed.

    Finally, he asked me to consider a favor, "what if we take a shower together and you show me how its done". I was just a little amazed. "You are certainly welcome to show me your bottoming skills in bed, but if that bothers you, you can just show me how you have done it in the shower with Will".
    (Will being my partner).
    (I was going to ask him what bottoming skills he was talking about!).

    Of course I said, "I think you don't need a coach" and he was genuinely
    disappointed I didn't give his idea any credence. My response: I doubt
    if others' in our lives would appreciate the coaching!
  • HndsmKansan

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    May 28, 2012 1:42 AM GMT
    Kind of funny... he left a message on my VM today and apologiized for the suggestion and told me he had been in a mood .
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    May 28, 2012 2:23 AM GMT
    He was probably just looking at those sexy photos of you and got carried away! icon_wink.gif
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    May 28, 2012 2:27 AM GMT
    You turned down a hot 4way?

    Damn dude, your bf must be super hot.
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    May 28, 2012 2:37 AM GMT
    Oh, I think Handsome is just pretty straight laced. Of course those are the ones that can surprise you...icon_eek.gif
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    May 29, 2012 5:07 AM GMT
    Two hot guys - - -newly single............I don't see any problem whatsoever with a little coaching or comparing notes. If that happens in the shower, well, that's okay with me.