Is it possible to be attracted to someone without liking their personality?

  • O5vx

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    May 27, 2012 7:13 PM GMT
    I had a guy in my English class last year that I think I might have been attracted to, but his personality just does not seem to comply with mine.
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    May 27, 2012 7:38 PM GMT
    Yeah, you just want to use his body. Nothing new under the sun in that regard.
  • DanOmatic

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    May 27, 2012 7:47 PM GMT
    Sometimes people who might seem off-putting initially turn out to be the ones you fall in love with.

    Has never happened to me, but I've heard lots of other people tell me that their initial reaction to their eventual partner/spouse was less than favorable.
  • O5vx

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    May 27, 2012 8:06 PM GMT
    I was pretty sure that my main intention was not to just use him for my pleasure, there seems to be more to it than that, but the personality
    seems different from what I would normally be looking for. Perhaps, that's what set it apart from other relationship? The fact that I was not expecting it to be such type of a person?
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    May 27, 2012 9:13 PM GMT
    You're still learning what attracts you?

    You don't think you deserve a guy whose personality is more attractive to you?
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    May 27, 2012 9:53 PM GMT
    AKA Fuckbuddy?
  • O5vx

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    May 27, 2012 10:21 PM GMT
    MolaMola saidYou're still learning what attracts you?

    You don't think you deserve a guy whose personality is more attractive to you?


    I know in most situation, personality is the main determinant factor, but I am just wondering if there are those rear occasions where personality might not be a determinant factor in the overall impression of the person.
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    May 27, 2012 11:28 PM GMT
    mizzouguy10 saidThis is called wanting to fuck someone.
    ^this
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    May 27, 2012 11:43 PM GMT
    Yup, happens to me frequently. I start crushing on someone, realize he's a complete dick, and then I'm like, "Yeahhhhh... but he's still hot...."
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    May 28, 2012 1:48 AM GMT
    It depends on your intentions and what you're looking for. If you want more than a hookup, then personality definitely matters.
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    May 28, 2012 3:16 AM GMT
    I dunno about the rest of you, but a worm inside the apple means I'm not biting it, no matter how shiny and red it appears.
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    May 28, 2012 3:23 AM GMT
    SkinnyBitch saidI dunno about the rest of you, but a worm inside the apple means I'm not biting it, no matter how shiny and red it appears.
    I thought biting the worm was the whole point.
  • O5vx

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    May 28, 2012 3:24 AM GMT
    He is not a bad person, im just not personally a fan of some of the things he does.
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    May 28, 2012 3:28 AM GMT
    Yeah of course it is possible. Just get with him have a safe fling and move on. He isn't husband material anyway!