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How Long were you a virgin?
colt358 Posts: 14
Jul 25, 2008 5:06 AM GMT
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So guys, How old were you when you first got that cock in the ass or shoved yours up another guy's? Give details if ya like. I'm just curious to know, thats all. Greatly appreciate those who reply!




By the way for those of you who are curious, I am still a virgin. I think (as horny as I am!!) that I will know when the time is right. As for now, I have my right hand
checkthefridg... Posts: 16
Jul 25, 2008 6:13 AM GMT
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I lost my virginity at 17. Well, half of it. As gay men I guess we have the opportunity to lose our virginity twice if you know what I mean ;)
Sedative Posts: 5570
Jul 25, 2008 2:19 PM GMT
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Approximately 22 years and 5 months now... and counting!
Regina_Guy Posts: 13
Jul 25, 2008 3:09 PM GMT
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I was 20 when I lost my virginity. It happened on my first visit a gay bar. I ended up going by myself and to make a long story short, a very nice couple invited me back to their condo. Needless to say, I had the time of my life! The three of us ended up being close friends for quite some time.
blink777 Posts: 499
Jul 25, 2008 3:14 PM GMT
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20 years and counting...
gymguy1 Posts: 1012
Jul 25, 2008 4:31 PM GMT
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I lost my virginity to a man at the age of 28. 28 loooong years of watching porn, constantly masterbating and just being alone. It sucked.
BlackJock79 Posts: 436
Jul 25, 2008 5:02 PM GMT
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22 or 23 I think.
closetsinger Posts: 78
Jul 25, 2008 5:09 PM GMT
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Maybe there should be a coming of age movie called Never been Phucked. Or is that for G0y pride?
Fun_n_fit76 Posts: 263
Jul 25, 2008 6:08 PM GMT
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Oops =)


About 18 or so for topping...not much longer after for the other.
Blondeonblond... Posts: 101
Jul 25, 2008 6:33 PM GMT
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21, it was lovely but rather rushed on his part

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Jul 25, 2008 7:13 PM GMT
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colt358 saidSo guys, How old were you when you first got that cock in the ass or shoved yours up another guy's? Give details if ya like. I'm just curious to know, thats all. Greatly appreciate those who reply!




By the way for those of you who are curious, I am still a virgin. I think (as horny as I am!!) that I will know when the time is right. As for now, I have my right hand


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blink777 Posts: 499
Jul 25, 2008 7:16 PM GMT
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MuscleBudSea saidWhy is it posters love to start threads, but never include their OWN answers?

colt358 saidBy the way for those of you who are curious, I am still a virgin.

Reading is good.
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Jul 25, 2008 9:24 PM GMT
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Eleven, it was great. Still is.

Ghen Posts: 493
Jul 26, 2008 12:00 AM GMT
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Can't remember. 16? 17? 18?

Pick and mix, one of them will be right.
colt358 Posts: 14
Jul 26, 2008 4:35 PM GMT
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John43620 saidEleven, it was great. Still is.




wow,thst young? really?
phill Posts: 105
Jul 26, 2008 6:44 PM GMT
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i was 25 for toping never been topped myself. so i got half of my virginity left.
clarksdale97 Posts: 18
Jul 28, 2008 2:22 AM GMT
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25
RyanReBoRn Posts: 612
Jul 28, 2008 9:34 AM GMT
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closetsinger saidMaybe there should be a coming of age movie called Never been Phucked. Or is that for G0y pride?


Wow...some of you guys and this g0y shtick is pretty hilarious. I'm just glad to see it getting around.


Also, you can't really post the concept of virginity to a man, as it has a specific meaning intended to be posed with a woman. (Ever popped a "cherry"? I haven't) What men DO have is a spermarche. Spermarche is a male's first ejaculation. It is usually experienced between the ages of 10 and 14.

Just a different line of thought...
zakariahzol Posts: 833
Jul 28, 2008 11:57 AM GMT
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I lose my virginity (against my will) at 19. Start topping when I was 27 and willingly bottom at 42.
Paragonal17 Posts: 10
Jul 28, 2008 5:14 PM GMT
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18 years and 4 months...still counting...

haha
deutschlaende... Posts: 14
Jul 30, 2008 7:10 PM GMT
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at 14 and I was dying to lose it, i thought i was never gonna!
xanadude Posts: 151
Jul 30, 2008 7:46 PM GMT
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RyanReBoRn said
closetsinger saidMaybe there should be a coming of age movie called Never been Phucked. Or is that for G0y pride?


Wow...some of you guys and this g0y shtick is pretty hilarious. I'm just glad to see it getting around.


Also, you can't really post the concept of virginity to a man, as it has a specific meaning intended to be posed with a woman. (Ever popped a "cherry"? I haven't) What men DO have is a spermarche. Spermarche is a male's first ejaculation. It is usually experienced between the ages of 10 and 14.

Just a different line of thought...




Um...last I heard, men can also be considered virgins too (at least in the modern world). The term is meant to refer to someone who hasn't had sexual intercourse (which, sorry to tell all you g0ys, also can include anal intercourse when talking about gay men -- however, you could further categorize it & say I'm a top virgin, a bottom virgin, or both) Further more "spermarche" doesn't really mean the same -- it would be the same as when a girl first gets her period.
Reggieaggie Posts: 25
Jul 31, 2008 2:50 AM GMT
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Know you didn't ask but lost my virginity to a girl at the age of 23 and then to a guy five years later at 28. Losing it to a guy was much better than a girl. I will never forget the feeling of having someone shoot inside me. Yes was BB the first time and loved it.
muchmorethanm... Posts: 2815
Jul 31, 2008 3:14 AM GMT
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I was 21.

It was downhill whoredom ever since.
alexander7 Posts: 641
Jul 31, 2008 7:00 AM GMT
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First woman 20

First man 24

WOW! I was so naive back in those days, kinda nice actually, because I enjoyed both experiences very much. Eye openers, both.
kinetic Posts: 685
Jul 31, 2008 8:27 AM GMT
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16 and 18
SurrealLife Posts: 4496
Jul 31, 2008 10:25 AM GMT
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By the definition given some gay men who have had sex thousands of times with other men will remain virgins!

I don't know what age I was, 30 maybe? I have never kept a diary.
helium Posts: 278
Jul 31, 2008 12:22 PM GMT
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I would say 23 when I first topped. Was with my ex over at one of the bath houses (Steamworks to be exact) in which I topped. The other half happened while I was in FL with one person. That wasn't that memorable since he was a user.
dcarm Posts: 291
Aug 03, 2008 12:08 AM GMT
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18 for both experiences. Although they were 6 months apart. My first bf was an exclusive top. (for the record, its a good idea NOT to go for an exclusive top as a first time. They might know what they're doing with an experienced bottom, but they don't necessarily understand what's involved in the first few times)

My second bf was versatile, and topping was nice.

at 23 (this year), I got circumcised, and had my first time topping as a cut guy. That was when I understood why guys liked topping. It was awesome!
DanBasil Posts: 79
Aug 03, 2008 12:28 AM GMT
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I was 21 or 22 - it was my sophomore year of college.
sai0201 Posts: 31
Aug 03, 2008 1:52 AM GMT
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gymguy1 saidI lost my virginity to a man at the age of 28. 28 loooong years of watching porn, constantly masterbating and just being alone. It sucked.


^_^

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Aug 03, 2008 3:55 AM GMT
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im 24 and still a virgin.... ill let u know when it happens. Its a bitch but it will happen when the time is right.... please tell me it will, PLEASE!!!
muchmorethanm... Posts: 2815
Aug 03, 2008 6:44 AM GMT
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Don't be so eager to give it up. Make it special. You've waited this long to make sure you do it right.

I haven't had sex in roughly 9 months going on 10 very soon. I don't miss it. It's nice to take a break.
wc2boy Posts: 35
Aug 04, 2008 6:01 PM GMT
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I'm kind of shy so I'm still waiting. Don't meet a lot of guys so only tend to recognise the opportunity long after it's gone!
Nautical Posts: 162
Aug 04, 2008 7:25 PM GMT
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i just lost mine one week ago today, im 21 and ive been dating my boyfriend for 1 year. it was protected sex ofcourse.

Freakyninjamo... Posts: 732
Aug 05, 2008 5:08 PM GMT
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28 and still got my V. Card.

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Aug 06, 2008 7:53 AM GMT
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wow im surprised! and i thought i was a late bloomer (in terms of coming out and doing gay stuff)

lost it when i was 21, to me that's losing your virginity don't care about the 'other half'. it's a one way street for me
tonyp321 Posts: 204
Aug 06, 2008 4:28 PM GMT
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helium saidI would say 23 when I first topped. Was with my ex over at one of the bath houses (Steamworks to be exact) in which I topped. The other half happened while I was in FL with one person. That wasn't that memorable since he was a user.


steamworks is on of the better places in chicago out of the 3 or 4 that were in business when i lived there.

in regards to when i lost my virginity initially it was 12 or 13 and to the girl next door. Now my first time with a guy was 20.
DenverClimber... Posts: 78
Aug 06, 2008 5:07 PM GMT
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I lost "both" viriginities at 15... I was young and docile which didn't lead to making the right choice in this regard. I commend those who are in their twenties and still waiting. You won't regret it.
blisss Posts: 76
Aug 06, 2008 6:12 PM GMT
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i may be the youngest

i tried top and bottom when i was 13 with a 23 year old guy i hated being bottom but i loved bein top

jhnjhn Posts: 39
Aug 06, 2008 11:50 PM GMT
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first woman: 14
first man (either way): 15
muscletroy Posts: 150
Aug 07, 2008 2:42 AM GMT
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First man: 23

First woman: yet to happen.
Danrennt98 Posts: 13
Aug 07, 2008 3:42 AM GMT
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topped: 17
bottomed: 18 never went back to topping
girl: 18 never back to girls ew.. I smelled puss on my hands for two days gross!! but we're still best friends (what a gay thing to do!)
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Aug 10, 2008 8:44 AM GMT
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muscletroy saidFirst man: 23

First woman: yet to happen.

Troy, I cant believe ur airing our dirty laundry in the street! gosh next ur gonna tell them i give bad blowjobs! which i dont btw, lol!
fulldelight Posts: 131
Aug 10, 2008 2:31 PM GMT
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nbsac84 saidim 24 and still a virgin.... ill let u know when it happens. Its a bitch but it will happen when the time is right.... please tell me it will, PLEASE!!!

It will happen, when the time is right We virgins have to support each other
jeffy87 Posts: 7
Aug 10, 2008 11:59 PM GMT
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Lost my virginity at 19. I've only ever bottomed, and I've yet to top someone else, man or woman.
chillz4thrill... Posts: 57
Aug 11, 2008 3:54 PM GMT
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Top was 18, bottom was 25. Should have bottomed sooner! Never with a girl
Arkguy84 Posts: 32
Aug 16, 2008 6:05 AM GMT
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Ahh I was 14 and I was the aggressor even though I was the bottom
MikemikeMike Posts: 1097
Aug 16, 2008 7:15 AM GMT
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not long at all.....
dreamdrop Posts: 420
Aug 16, 2008 9:09 AM GMT
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I was 24 when i lost mine.It was so damn painful. My boyfriend had a huge cock bigger that me and I'm black lol I dated my guy for 6 months. I was just so scared to catch an std.

I was drunk and he was begging so I let him.
FarmBoytg Posts: 17
Aug 19, 2008 4:57 PM GMT
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I still have my V-Card, I live in rural ND and I have maybe meet two gay men in passing here in all my life. So it is kind of hard to lose my virginity to a guy when there aren't any...

Girls on the other hand, I tried to do it with three different girls. Each time the girl was naked on the bed with her legs spread wide open and I had a condom on, but I just couldn't do the deed with a girl... After the third time of not being able to bring myself to do it, I figured I should just give it a rest and wait for a guy. I imagine I will be waiting for a long time...
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Aug 19, 2008 5:33 PM GMT
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I was a virgin for too long......maybe I still am...I'm not sure.....How can I make sure I am not?

(setting myself up for a dissin).
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Aug 19, 2008 6:13 PM GMT
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Hi, Colt, ol' buddy. How's Elmira?

To a man, I lost my virginity at age 52. To a woman, at age 25.

It's never the same for anyone. The timing and the chemistry have to be right.

Steve
superbad Posts: 33
Aug 19, 2008 10:48 PM GMT
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I lost my virginity last october, at the age of 21 right after breaking up with my bf. Got frustrated and just did it while thinking about him. Guess he didn't love me the same way I loved him. No, I'm not proud of what I did.

I still feel like a virgin.
gumbosolo Posts: 105
Aug 20, 2008 5:23 PM GMT
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21, a few months ago. Did it for someone else's sake. It wasn't a bad experience, but it wasn't what it should have been. To any uncertain virgins, definitely wait for the right time. Proud of yas.
SFTraveler Posts: 70
Aug 21, 2008 2:20 AM GMT
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I was 22 the first time I had sex with a guy. It took me a while to realize I liked guys more than girls.
As for girls, I was 12 when I first had sex with my first girlfriend. She was more mature than me, so I just followed her lead.
GobB Posts: 779
Aug 21, 2008 3:40 AM GMT
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20 yrs
countercultur... Posts: 108
Aug 24, 2008 8:38 PM GMT
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I too am still a virgin. Go me.
wc2boy Posts: 35
Aug 26, 2008 10:43 PM GMT
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I remember having this discussion a lot at college - I was working as an undercover agent gathering information about str8 ppl to use when we overthrow them in our eventual revolution.

Generally the average age that the str8 guys lost their virginity was 18 or 19, but there were always a couple who lost it at 12 or 13. It's interesting reading people's experiences here and seeing that it compares quite similarly.

For the guys here who are still waiting, is that out of choice or lack of opportunity? I used to think I was saving the time for "Mr Right" but as the years passed I started worrying more about being an inexperienced lover.
Duck4life Posts: 51
Aug 27, 2008 10:37 PM GMT
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21. It was terrible, terrible. Can't believe i'm still into men.
nautilie7 Posts: 101
Aug 29, 2008 5:56 AM GMT
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Lost it about 3 weeks ago..

The detail, it was quite painful in the first penetration, but it became very pleasant after awhile, and I just liked it.. even though I was bleeding (pretty bad)
Jacob_dane Posts: 22
Aug 30, 2008 2:02 AM GMT
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I lost mine 3 weeks after i moved off to college.. so 18.. well for topping... 19 for bottoming...:-)
nautilie7 Posts: 101
Aug 30, 2008 8:30 PM GMT
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nbsac84 saidim 24 and still a virgin.... ill let u know when it happens. Its a bitch but it will happen when the time is right.... please tell me it will, PLEASE!!!


Yeah.. it will.. I wonder how can you still a virgin after all, haven't you tried something with a guy ?
WIDEOPEN Posts: 2
Aug 30, 2008 9:09 PM GMT
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With a girl 17

with a guy still a virgin

hoping my time will come soon
afkaway Posts: 5
Aug 30, 2008 10:25 PM GMT
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Although I came out and started dating at 17, I waited until I was love - and that took until I was 19. We were both virgins in fact so it didn't go so well!
LutherGooch Posts: 279
Aug 31, 2008 1:12 PM GMT
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15, I was with a guy in High school.
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Aug 31, 2008 6:18 PM GMT
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umm well i started messing around @ 14 with OLDER ( 23? ) guys from the net and then i went all the way @ 16. still haven't been bottomed by guy ( cause what queen doesn't have toys). so i'm still waiting for prince charming to bottom me..lol ANYWAY lol




lsutiger08 Posts: 5
Sep 01, 2008 2:51 AM GMT
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My first time was at 18 - and I actually remember the date, despite it being terrible. He caught me at a very vulnerable moment... the early morning hours after the '04 election when I was starting to realize there were 4 more years of Dubya.

Those of you have still have the V card, try to keep it classy. Make sure it is your choice and not something you get talked into. And have fun!
mattyrec Posts: 29
Sep 01, 2008 2:58 PM GMT
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First time with a Girl: 17
First time with a guy: 19 (top and btm)
last time with a girl:20
maximumrisk Posts: 422
Sep 01, 2008 3:22 PM GMT
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First with a guy: 13 (top)
First with a guy: 15 (bottom)
First with a girl: 17
nautilie7 Posts: 101
Sep 01, 2008 7:54 PM GMT
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maximumrisk saidFirst with a guy: 13 (top)
First with a guy: 15 (bottom)
First with a girl: 17


Nice interval...
GHoSTa Posts: 585
Sep 01, 2008 8:23 PM GMT
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first with a guy : 18 (top & bottom)

And it wasn't planned .. I regret it sometimes ...

maximumrisk Posts: 422
Sep 01, 2008 9:02 PM GMT
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nautilie7 said
maximumrisk saidFirst with a guy: 13 (top)
First with a guy: 15 (bottom)
First with a girl: 17


Nice interval...


It wasn't planned that way and the list should stop after get bottomed since I knew then 100% I was gay. Just tried it then with 17 with a girl so my friends would shut up that I don't know what I am missing.
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Sep 02, 2008 10:45 PM GMT
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Dude... where's my virginity?




Oh wait, nm.

Move along.
ChangeofPace Posts: 26
Sep 03, 2008 1:27 AM GMT
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Uhhh, wow. Everyones lost at like 20 something. I lost mine at 15 LOL.
ianbrown Posts: 2
Sep 03, 2008 3:23 PM GMT
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I lost my virginty at 14 to a girl never go there again!
think thats hwat turned me gay
Red_Vespa Posts: 1595
Sep 12, 2008 6:55 PM GMT
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Until I was 45 as a gay virgin, but I'd had straight sex before then, when I was in deep denial and trying to tell myself I was straight.

I let the guy think I was experienced, and he gave me a BJ first. It was the best sex of my life, and I came for like a minute, again and again and again. I then gave him one, trying to copy what he'd done, combined with things I liked for myself. Afterwards he was very complimentary of my technique, which made me really proud of myself for my first time.

I then went into a super horny period for over 6 months, I think a rebound effect from having missed a similar period during my teen years. But those are stories for another thread.
plowmyground Posts: 25
Sep 14, 2008 1:37 AM GMT
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13 with girls/women..She was 16.
43 with a guy..bottomed first time, since I am a total bottom mostly with guys.
c0nz Posts: 10
Sep 15, 2008 3:44 AM GMT
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11 started fooling around
19 too a girl
20 b&t
adamc Posts: 6
Sep 20, 2008 1:09 PM GMT
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16 to a girl
17 with a guy ( bottom)
haven't top a man yet but i will soon
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Sep 21, 2008 7:21 AM GMT
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I'm an unspoiled apple pie. Mmm, pie.
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Sep 21, 2008 6:49 PM GMT
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I basically did the Mysterious Skin thing. Fucked when I was around 5. Convinced guys and girls to fuck around with me from 5yrs old to 11yrs old. Went through I dry spell in high school. Found the internet when i was 18. Racked 7 guys. Left town, found the abs. I lost count around 150.

If you still have your virginity, I can't emphasize enough to make sure you keep it till you meet someone EXTREMELY fucking special.
Drobb038 Posts: 1
Sep 21, 2008 7:49 PM GMT
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Well people look at me crazy and really don't belive me when I say I lost my virginity at the age of 20. Yeah ok it does seem kind of crazy but I would rather wait that long to be safe than to rush into it and step out with all kind of diseases..
RyanReBoRn Posts: 612
Sep 21, 2008 7:58 PM GMT
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colt358 saidSo guys, How old were you when you first got that cock in the ass or shoved yours up another guy's? Give details if ya like. I'm just curious to know, thats all. Greatly appreciate those who reply!








Perma-Virgin! =D
KissingPro Posts: 396
Sep 21, 2008 8:12 PM GMT
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First time with a girl.........13
Last time with a girl..........34
First time with a guy (i top)..........17
First time with a guy (i bottum)........42
Last time with a guy (i top)..........1 month ago
Last time with a guy (I bottum).....1 year ago.
cjcscuba1984 Posts: 255
Sep 23, 2008 6:26 PM GMT
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23 years
348 days
14 hours
26 mins
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40secs

41

42

43

44

45

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charlitos Posts: 473
Oct 05, 2008 10:30 AM GMT
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cjcscuba1984 said23 years
348 days
14 hours
26 mins
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40secs

41

42

43

44

45

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dude, well dont rush, just wait for the right one i guess.

myself... well:

first time with a girl 19
first time with a guy 21

last time with a girl 19
last time with a guy last month

Delivis Posts: 405
Oct 08, 2008 1:21 AM GMT
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22 years and counting!
DCEric Posts: 395
Oct 08, 2008 2:59 AM GMT
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With Girl: 19
With Guy (me top): 25
With Guy (as bottom): 26, 11 months and counting...
26mileman Posts: 606
Oct 08, 2008 4:41 AM GMT
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Long enough to the know the time was right.
Tom_milehigh Posts: 38
Oct 08, 2008 7:05 PM GMT
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still am; both sexes
bootstate86 Posts: 54
Nov 19, 2008 7:47 AM GMT
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Oral doesn't count, right? Otherwise I'm still a virgin. Lol.
Miasma Posts: 94
Nov 19, 2008 10:24 AM GMT
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It's so cute when people choose to wait for the right moment

it's like a flower
that will bloom
only to die

I wish the best for everyone. It makes me feel all warm and tingly inside with the thought of everyone in a relationship and losing it to love and not cheap empty lust. How wonderful that people have values.

isn't it a strange world?

i'm still a virgin by the way
catfish5 Posts: 35
Nov 19, 2008 10:26 PM GMT
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with a girl: 17

with a man: 18

It didn't take me long to realize that I wasn't into pussy.
Jewassicpark Posts: 9
Nov 20, 2008 1:48 AM GMT
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This is going to make the king of the sluts, but my first woman I was 13, my first man, (bottoming) I was 13 and me first man topping I was 16.
BoardRider53 Posts: 136
Nov 21, 2008 12:11 AM GMT
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18, actually just a few months ago and I've toped ever since.

I'm saving bottoming till I find that right guy.. if that ever happens.
onslaught Posts: 349
Nov 22, 2008 7:52 AM GMT
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My first time was when i was 19, okay it was two months before I turned 20

I was the top and we were on my water bed (not a good idea)

I didn't know what I was doing, thought it would be easy to stick it in. He didnt help me at all, just laid there.

So it happened and only lasted two minutes, I was so turned on that I came that quick. To bad my first time having sex gave me an infection in my peepee. It was nothing like gonorhea. Lol the doc says, stuff like this happens when you do a butt with out a rubber.

After that I didnt have sex for a year.

Then once I started liking a guy, I let him do me, his thing was so small I felt like a finger was up there. I didn't care though, the guy was nice. When I did him, omg I pulled out a fudge pop. Shit happens when you do an ass, but seriously this was way to much. After that I dated here any there and had sex a few more times. Lets just say the guys were all crazy and none wanted something serious. They just wanted a muscle guy to bang them.
So its been two years of waiting for the right guy, when I found him he cheated on me. I get mad then break things off and get with some one random. I waste two years only to do it (though i stopped) to have sex with a random person rather then my love.
Pedrosxxx Posts: 77
Nov 26, 2008 7:48 AM GMT
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Man (top and bottom) = 18
Woman = 18
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That's right I actually lost my virginity in a threeway. Gee I used to be pretty wild.

I don't really remember a lot about it. Also, I never really thought guys had virginity to lose except symbolically. I mean women break their hymen the first time they get fucked but nothing physically changes in a dude. It's just a question of experience for men I think.
kscott6671 Posts: 44
Nov 30, 2008 4:56 PM GMT
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I was 16. I topped my best friend in the back seat of my parents car.
RunintheCity Posts: 1503
Dec 03, 2008 6:52 PM GMT
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28 years.
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