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So guys, How old were you when you first got that cock in the ass or shoved yours up another guy's? Give details if ya like. I'm just curious to know, thats all. Greatly appreciate those who reply!




By the way for those of you who are curious, I am still a virgin. I think (as horny as I am!!) that I will know when the time is right. As for now, I have my right hand

I lost my virginity at 17. Well, half of it. As gay men I guess we have the opportunity to lose our virginity twice if you know what I mean ;)

Approximately 22 years and 5 months now... and counting!

I was 20 when I lost my virginity. It happened on my first visit a gay bar. I ended up going by myself and to make a long story short, a very nice couple invited me back to their condo. Needless to say, I had the time of my life! The three of us ended up being close friends for quite some time.

20 years and counting...

I lost my virginity to a man at the age of 28. 28 loooong years of watching porn, constantly masterbating and just being alone. It sucked.

22 or 23 I think.

Maybe there should be a coming of age movie called Never been Phucked. Or is that for G0y pride?

Oops =)


About 18 or so for topping...not much longer after for the other.

21, it was lovely but rather rushed on his part

colt358 saidSo guys, How old were you when you first got that cock in the ass or shoved yours up another guy's? Give details if ya like. I'm just curious to know, thats all. Greatly appreciate those who reply!




By the way for those of you who are curious, I am still a virgin. I think (as horny as I am!!) that I will know when the time is right. As for now, I have my right hand

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MuscleBudSea saidWhy is it posters love to start threads, but never include their OWN answers?

colt358 saidBy the way for those of you who are curious, I am still a virgin.

Reading is good.

Eleven, it was great. Still is.

Can't remember. 16? 17? 18?

Pick and mix, one of them will be right.

John43620 saidEleven, it was great. Still is.

wow,thst young? really?

i was 25 for toping never been topped myself. so i got half of my virginity left.

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closetsinger saidMaybe there should be a coming of age movie called Never been Phucked. Or is that for G0y pride?

Wow...some of you guys and this g0y shtick is pretty hilarious. I'm just glad to see it getting around.


Also, you can't really post the concept of virginity to a man, as it has a specific meaning intended to be posed with a woman. (Ever popped a "cherry"? I haven't) What men DO have is a spermarche. Spermarche is a male's first ejaculation. It is usually experienced between the ages of 10 and 14.

Just a different line of thought...

I lose my virginity (against my will) at 19. Start topping when I was 27 and willingly bottom at 42.

18 years and 4 months...still counting...

haha

at 14 and I was dying to lose it, i thought i was never gonna!

RyanReBoRn said

closetsinger saidMaybe there should be a coming of age movie called Never been Phucked. Or is that for G0y pride?

Wow...some of you guys and this g0y shtick is pretty hilarious. I'm just glad to see it getting around.


Also, you can't really post the concept of virginity to a man, as it has a specific meaning intended to be posed with a woman. (Ever popped a "cherry"? I haven't) What men DO have is a spermarche. Spermarche is a male's first ejaculation. It is usually experienced between the ages of 10 and 14.

Just a different line of thought...

Um...last I heard, men can also be considered virgins too (at least in the modern world). The term is meant to refer to someone who hasn't had sexual intercourse (which, sorry to tell all you g0ys, also can include anal intercourse when talking about gay men -- however, you could further categorize it & say I'm a top virgin, a bottom virgin, or both) Further more "spermarche" doesn't really mean the same -- it would be the same as when a girl first gets her period.

Know you didn't ask but lost my virginity to a girl at the age of 23 and then to a guy five years later at 28. Losing it to a guy was much better than a girl. I will never forget the feeling of having someone shoot inside me. Yes was BB the first time and loved it.

I was 21.

It was downhill whoredom ever since.

First woman 20

First man 24

WOW! I was so naive back in those days, kinda nice actually, because I enjoyed both experiences very much. Eye openers, both.

16 and 18

By the definition given some gay men who have had sex thousands of times with other men will remain virgins!

I don't know what age I was, 30 maybe? I have never kept a diary.

I would say 23 when I first topped. Was with my ex over at one of the bath houses (Steamworks to be exact) in which I topped. The other half happened while I was in FL with one person. That wasn't that memorable since he was a user.

18 for both experiences. Although they were 6 months apart. My first bf was an exclusive top. (for the record, its a good idea NOT to go for an exclusive top as a first time. They might know what they're doing with an experienced bottom, but they don't necessarily understand what's involved in the first few times)

My second bf was versatile, and topping was nice.

at 23 (this year), I got circumcised, and had my first time topping as a cut guy. That was when I understood why guys liked topping. It was awesome!

I was 21 or 22 - it was my sophomore year of college.

gymguy1 saidI lost my virginity to a man at the age of 28. 28 loooong years of watching porn, constantly masterbating and just being alone. It sucked.

^_^

im 24 and still a virgin.... ill let u know when it happens. Its a bitch but it will happen when the time is right.... please tell me it will, PLEASE!!!

Don't be so eager to give it up. Make it special. You've waited this long to make sure you do it right.

I haven't had sex in roughly 9 months going on 10 very soon. I don't miss it. It's nice to take a break.

I'm kind of shy so I'm still waiting. Don't meet a lot of guys so only tend to recognise the opportunity long after it's gone!

i just lost mine one week ago today, im 21 and ive been dating my boyfriend for 1 year. it was protected sex ofcourse.

28 and still got my V. Card.

wow im surprised! and i thought i was a late bloomer (in terms of coming out and doing gay stuff)

lost it when i was 21, to me that's losing your virginity don't care about the 'other half'. it's a one way street for me

helium saidI would say 23 when I first topped. Was with my ex over at one of the bath houses (Steamworks to be exact) in which I topped. The other half happened while I was in FL with one person. That wasn't that memorable since he was a user.

steamworks is on of the better places in chicago out of the 3 or 4 that were in business when i lived there.

in regards to when i lost my virginity initially it was 12 or 13 and to the girl next door. Now my first time with a guy was 20.

I lost "both" viriginities at 15... I was young and docile which didn't lead to making the right choice in this regard. I commend those who are in their twenties and still waiting. You won't regret it.

i may be the youngest

i tried top and bottom when i was 13 with a 23 year old guy i hated being bottom but i loved bein top

first woman: 14
first man (either way): 15

First man: 23

First woman: yet to happen.

topped: 17
bottomed: 18 never went back to topping
girl: 18 never back to girls ew.. I smelled puss on my hands for two days gross!! but we're still best friends (what a gay thing to do!)

muscletroy saidFirst man: 23

First woman: yet to happen.

Troy, I cant believe ur airing our dirty laundry in the street! gosh next ur gonna tell them i give bad blowjobs! which i dont btw, lol!

nbsac84 saidim 24 and still a virgin.... ill let u know when it happens. Its a bitch but it will happen when the time is right.... please tell me it will, PLEASE!!!

It will happen, when the time is right We virgins have to support each other

Lost my virginity at 19. I've only ever bottomed, and I've yet to top someone else, man or woman.

Top was 18, bottom was 25. Should have bottomed sooner! Never with a girl

Ahh I was 14 and I was the aggressor even though I was the bottom

not long at all.....

I was 24 when i lost mine.It was so damn painful. My boyfriend had a huge cock bigger that me and I'm black lol I dated my guy for 6 months. I was just so scared to catch an std.

I was drunk and he was begging so I let him.

I still have my V-Card, I live in rural ND and I have maybe meet two gay men in passing here in all my life. So it is kind of hard to lose my virginity to a guy when there aren't any...

Girls on the other hand, I tried to do it with three different girls. Each time the girl was naked on the bed with her legs spread wide open and I had a condom on, but I just couldn't do the deed with a girl... After the third time of not being able to bring myself to do it, I figured I should just give it a rest and wait for a guy. I imagine I will be waiting for a long time...

I was a virgin for too long......maybe I still am...I'm not sure.....How can I make sure I am not?

(setting myself up for a dissin).

Hi, Colt, ol' buddy. How's Elmira?

To a man, I lost my virginity at age 52. To a woman, at age 25.

It's never the same for anyone. The timing and the chemistry have to be right.

Steve

I lost my virginity last october, at the age of 21 right after breaking up with my bf. Got frustrated and just did it while thinking about him. Guess he didn't love me the same way I loved him. No, I'm not proud of what I did.

I still feel like a virgin.

21, a few months ago. Did it for someone else's sake. It wasn't a bad experience, but it wasn't what it should have been. To any uncertain virgins, definitely wait for the right time. Proud of yas.

I was 22 the first time I had sex with a guy. It took me a while to realize I liked guys more than girls.
As for girls, I was 12 when I first had sex with my first girlfriend. She was more mature than me, so I just followed her lead.

20 yrs

I too am still a virgin. Go me.

I remember having this discussion a lot at college - I was working as an undercover agent gathering information about str8 ppl to use when we overthrow them in our eventual revolution.

Generally the average age that the str8 guys lost their virginity was 18 or 19, but there were always a couple who lost it at 12 or 13. It's interesting reading people's experiences here and seeing that it compares quite similarly.

For the guys here who are still waiting, is that out of choice or lack of opportunity? I used to think I was saving the time for "Mr Right" but as the years passed I started worrying more about being an inexperienced lover.

21. It was terrible, terrible. Can't believe i'm still into men.

Lost it about 3 weeks ago..

The detail, it was quite painful in the first penetration, but it became very pleasant after awhile, and I just liked it.. even though I was bleeding (pretty bad)

I lost mine 3 weeks after i moved off to college.. so 18.. well for topping... 19 for bottoming...:-)

nbsac84 saidim 24 and still a virgin.... ill let u know when it happens. Its a bitch but it will happen when the time is right.... please tell me it will, PLEASE!!!

Yeah.. it will.. I wonder how can you still a virgin after all, haven't you tried something with a guy ?

With a girl 17

with a guy still a virgin

hoping my time will come soon

Although I came out and started dating at 17, I waited until I was love - and that took until I was 19. We were both virgins in fact so it didn't go so well!

15, I was with a guy in High school.

umm well i started messing around @ 14 with OLDER ( 23? ) guys from the net and then i went all the way @ 16. still haven't been bottomed by guy ( cause what queen doesn't have toys). so i'm still waiting for prince charming to bottom me..lol ANYWAY lol

My first time was at 18 - and I actually remember the date, despite it being terrible. He caught me at a very vulnerable moment... the early morning hours after the '04 election when I was starting to realize there were 4 more years of Dubya.

Those of you have still have the V card, try to keep it classy. Make sure it is your choice and not something you get talked into. And have fun!

First time with a Girl: 17
First time with a guy: 19 (top and btm)
last time with a girl:20

First with a guy: 13 (top)
First with a guy: 15 (bottom)
First with a girl: 17

maximumrisk saidFirst with a guy: 13 (top)
First with a guy: 15 (bottom)
First with a girl: 17

Nice interval...

first with a guy : 18 (top & bottom)

And it wasn't planned .. I regret it sometimes ...

nautilie7 said

maximumrisk saidFirst with a guy: 13 (top)
First with a guy: 15 (bottom)
First with a girl: 17

Nice interval...

It wasn't planned that way and the list should stop after get bottomed since I knew then 100% I was gay. Just tried it then with 17 with a girl so my friends would shut up that I don't know what I am missing.

Dude... where's my virginity?




Oh wait, nm.

Move along.

Uhhh, wow. Everyones lost at like 20 something. I lost mine at 15 LOL.

I lost my virginty at 14 to a girl never go there again!
think thats hwat turned me gay

Until I was 45 as a gay virgin, but I'd had straight sex before then, when I was in deep denial and trying to tell myself I was straight.

I let the guy think I was experienced, and he gave me a BJ first. It was the best sex of my life, and I came for like a minute, again and again and again. I then gave him one, trying to copy what he'd done, combined with things I liked for myself. Afterwards he was very complimentary of my technique, which made me really proud of myself for my first time.

I then went into a super horny period for over 6 months, I think a rebound effect from having missed a similar period during my teen years. But those are stories for another thread.

13 with girls/women..She was 16.
43 with a guy..bottomed first time, since I am a total bottom mostly with guys.

11 started fooling around
19 too a girl
20 b&t

16 to a girl
17 with a guy ( bottom)
haven't top a man yet but i will soon

I'm an unspoiled apple pie. Mmm, pie.

I basically did the Mysterious Skin thing. Fucked when I was around 5. Convinced guys and girls to fuck around with me from 5yrs old to 11yrs old. Went through I dry spell in high school. Found the internet when i was 18. Racked 7 guys. Left town, found the abs. I lost count around 150.

If you still have your virginity, I can't emphasize enough to make sure you keep it till you meet someone EXTREMELY fucking special.

Well people look at me crazy and really don't belive me when I say I lost my virginity at the age of 20. Yeah ok it does seem kind of crazy but I would rather wait that long to be safe than to rush into it and step out with all kind of diseases..

colt358 saidSo guys, How old were you when you first got that cock in the ass or shoved yours up another guy's? Give details if ya like. I'm just curious to know, thats all. Greatly appreciate those who reply!

Perma-Virgin! =D

First time with a girl.........13
Last time with a girl..........34
First time with a guy (i top)..........17
First time with a guy (i bottum)........42
Last time with a guy (i top)..........1 month ago
Last time with a guy (I bottum).....1 year ago.

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dude, well dont rush, just wait for the right one i guess.

myself... well:

first time with a girl 19
first time with a guy 21

last time with a girl 19
last time with a guy last month

22 years and counting!

With Girl: 19
With Guy (me top): 25
With Guy (as bottom): 26, 11 months and counting...

Long enough to the know the time was right.

still am; both sexes

Oral doesn't count, right? Otherwise I'm still a virgin. Lol.

It's so cute when people choose to wait for the right moment

it's like a flower
that will bloom
only to die

I wish the best for everyone. It makes me feel all warm and tingly inside with the thought of everyone in a relationship and losing it to love and not cheap empty lust. How wonderful that people have values.

isn't it a strange world?

i'm still a virgin by the way

with a girl: 17

with a man: 18

It didn't take me long to realize that I wasn't into pussy.

This is going to make the king of the sluts, but my first woman I was 13, my first man, (bottoming) I was 13 and me first man topping I was 16.

18, actually just a few months ago and I've toped ever since.

I'm saving bottoming till I find that right guy.. if that ever happens.

My first time was when i was 19, okay it was two months before I turned 20

I was the top and we were on my water bed (not a good idea)

I didn't know what I was doing, thought it would be easy to stick it in. He didnt help me at all, just laid there.

So it happened and only lasted two minutes, I was so turned on that I came that quick. To bad my first time having sex gave me an infection in my peepee. It was nothing like gonorhea. Lol the doc says, stuff like this happens when you do a butt with out a rubber.

After that I didnt have sex for a year.

Then once I started liking a guy, I let him do me, his thing was so small I felt like a finger was up there. I didn't care though, the guy was nice. When I did him, omg I pulled out a fudge pop. Shit happens when you do an ass, but seriously this was way to much. After that I dated here any there and had sex a few more times. Lets just say the guys were all crazy and none wanted something serious. They just wanted a muscle guy to bang them.
So its been two years of waiting for the right guy, when I found him he cheated on me. I get mad then break things off and get with some one random. I waste two years only to do it (though i stopped) to have sex with a random person rather then my love.

Man (top and bottom) = 18
Woman = 18
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That's right I actually lost my virginity in a threeway. Gee I used to be pretty wild.

I don't really remember a lot about it. Also, I never really thought guys had virginity to lose except symbolically. I mean women break their hymen the first time they get fucked but nothing physically changes in a dude. It's just a question of experience for men I think.

I was 16. I topped my best friend in the back seat of my parents car.

28 years.