Buddy list bluesss

  • TheBizMan

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    May 29, 2012 4:09 AM GMT
    How serious do you take your buddy list? Is it just an extension of your hot list? Do you feel like you actually know the people in your buddy list? Do you randomly buddy someone? Do you mail them once, have a short convo and buddy them never to speak to them again? Do you mail them everyday? When is the right time to add someone to YOUR list? Why does all this matter?

    I don't really get it.


    I dunno!

    I DUNNNNOOO!?!??!?!!?!!!

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    May 29, 2012 4:16 AM GMT
    The Hot List is all the guys you wanna fuck.
    The Buddy List is all the guys you want to marry.
    The Ignore List is all the guys you want to kill.

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    May 29, 2012 4:17 AM GMT
    TheBizMan saidHow serious do you take your buddy list?
    I can count the number of time I look at it per year on one finger, and still have one finger left.
    My "real" buddies have my phone# (and vice versa) and we call each other fairly regularly.
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    May 29, 2012 4:17 AM GMT
    There's a few guys I still talk to on my buddy list. I could remove most of them and never know the difference.
  • TheBizMan

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    May 29, 2012 4:18 AM GMT
    xrichx saidThe Hot List is all the guys you wanna fuck.
    The Buddy List is all the guys you want to marry.
    The Ignore List is all the guys you want to kill.

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    BAM!

    I don't think anyone could have answered it better.
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    May 29, 2012 4:20 AM GMT
    xrichx said
    The Buddy List is all the guys you want to marry.


    If this is true, I've got some deleting to do.
  • TheBizMan

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    May 29, 2012 4:22 AM GMT
    unfounded7 said
    xrichx said
    The Buddy List is all the guys you want to marry.


    If this is true, I've got some deleting to do.


    Some of the guys on mine are taken already. Damn
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    May 29, 2012 4:23 AM GMT
    buddy list = friendzone
  • TheBizMan

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    May 29, 2012 4:25 AM GMT
    dontknowwhy saidbuddy list = friendzone


    Oh really now?.. cause there's at least one guy on my list that...... yeah icon_redface.gif
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    May 29, 2012 4:34 AM GMT
    There's one guy on your hotlist that I'd like to....yeah.
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    May 29, 2012 4:35 AM GMT
    unfounded7 saidThere's one guy on your hotlist that I'd like to....yeah.
    How do you yeah?
  • TheBizMan

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    May 29, 2012 4:37 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    unfounded7 saidThere's one guy on your hotlist that I'd like to....yeah.
    How do you yeah?


    I think this is may be a new term that all these young wipper snappers are usin
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    May 29, 2012 4:40 AM GMT
    0 on my hotlist, 7 on my buddy list. I am extremely selective.
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    May 29, 2012 4:50 AM GMT
    There's no set rules. Use your lists how you want. I've stopped adding people to my hot list. There are too many hot people on RJ. My buddy list is people that I've talked to more than a few times. It's people that I'd like to keep talking to, although there are more that I haven't added. I usually wait until someone buddy lists me first.
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    May 29, 2012 4:59 AM GMT
    edit my bud list monthly. haven't talked 2 u in a month? guess we're not buds anymore?

    edit: if ur on both my bud and hot list, that means i think ur bf material. hahaha
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    May 29, 2012 5:00 AM GMT
    TheBizMan said
    paulflexes said
    unfounded7 saidThere's one guy on your hotlist that I'd like to....yeah.
    How do you yeah?


    I think this is may be a new term that all these young wipper snappers are usin
    Last time I had a whipper snapper, I used it on a guy who was cuffed to a St. Andrew's cross.
  • TheBizMan

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    May 29, 2012 5:42 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    TheBizMan said
    paulflexes said
    unfounded7 saidThere's one guy on your hotlist that I'd like to....yeah.
    How do you yeah?


    I think this is may be a new term that all these young wipper snappers are usin
    Last time I had a whipper snapper, I used it on a guy who was cuffed to a St. Andrew's cross.


    Ohhh kinkyyy....icon_twisted.gif
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    May 29, 2012 6:18 AM GMT
    Did away with my buddy list. It got to become a source of drama and complication instead of what it's meant to be: an act of vanity.
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    May 29, 2012 8:06 AM GMT
    Ariodante said0 on my hotlist, 7 on my buddy list. I am extremely selective.

    I'm glad I'm a member of that club.
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    May 29, 2012 11:13 AM GMT
    I don't pay that much attention to either. At first I occasionally hot listed guys I found, well, hot. Now I don't generally do it unless someone does it to me and I feel like returning the favor.

    Buddies are friends and guys I've otherwise had some kind of meaningful chat with.
  • turtleneckjoc...

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    May 29, 2012 11:51 AM GMT
    TheBizMan said
    xrichx saidThe Hot List is all the guys you wanna fuck.
    The Buddy List is all the guys you want to marry.
    The Ignore List is all the guys you want to kill.

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    BAM!

    I don't think anyone could have answered it better.


    So very true...What if the guy is on both lists?????? icon_eek.gif
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    May 29, 2012 12:40 PM GMT
    Strictly guys I have developed friendships with, plus my partner ;-)
    Hotlist same way,

    I CANNOT stand being buddylisted by guys I haven't even shared a thought with; double plus when I send a "thanks for that" and then hear nothing back
  • Karl

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    May 29, 2012 12:45 PM GMT
    You click "add to buddy list" because you want to be his friend (maybe his partner icon_cool.gif )
    You click "add to hot list" because you're attracted to his body and all you want to do with him is having sex
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    May 29, 2012 1:02 PM GMT
    Is there dn etiquette for buddylist removals ie guys that added you so you reciprocated and have never / hardly ever spoken?
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    May 29, 2012 1:16 PM GMT

    Everyone has their own reasons for buddylisting.

    There's more than one reason to buddylist someone.

    Sometimes I buddy list someone because I admire what they have to say on the forums.
    Sometimes I buddylist someone because they reached out and gave me or someone else a lift, which is a gift. I admire that in a person.
    Sometimes I buddylist a person who has taken the chance to contact me via email, we have a great conversation, they buddylist me which I consider a compliment so I buddylist them back.

    Some people I buddylist because I know them outside of RJ.

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