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So I had my first sexual experience with a guy and the condom broke. I was a top but I don't think I came inside of him since there really was no trace of semen. There didn't seem to be any blood either. He said he was HIV negative and I know I am since I was tested. Just got tested today but the anxiety is killing me. Thoughts? Should I be worrying?

It's like rain on your wedding day
It's a free ride when you've already paid
It's the good advice that you just didn't take
Who would've thought, it figures

Mr. Playitsafe, was afraid to fly
Packed his suitcase, and kissed his kids goodbye

OHMYGOSH what if you got him preggers!

Do you know him well enough to trust his word? If so, I wouldn't worry.

A traffic jam when you're already late;
A no-smoking sign on your cigarette break;
It's like ten thousand spoons when all you need is a knife...

Coach_Mike saidIt's like rain on your wedding day
It's a free ride when you've already paid
It's the good advice that you just didn't take
Who would've thought, it figures

and as the plane crashed down he thought well isn't this nice

Worry and anxiety can be debilitating, focus on being aware and informed. Keep getting tested often because there is more out there than HIV.

Now I feel bad that everybody's posting Alannis lyrics. But it is ironic, don't you think? Somebody give the poor guy some advice.

You're fine, I wouldn't worry. You're gonna need kryptonite condoms for that super sperm though.

Coach_Mike saidNow I feel bad that everybody's posting Alannis lyrics. But it is ironic, don't you think? Somebody give the poor guy some advice.

If you insist.


Honey, chill. You're tested, and even if you contract HIV it's not the end of the world.

you are fine
get tested to ease your mind
then again in 3 months

then buy better condoms...

This is probably a troll/sock account, but whatever. The risk is much greater to the person who is on the receiving end. You should always get tested, but the odds that you've contracted anything are extremely slim.

OMG... stop the presses! Faceless sock account has an important question that, were it real, he should be discussing with a health professional.

intensity69 saidOMG... stop the presses! Faceless sock account has an important question that, were it real, he should be discussing with a health professional.

thats what RJ is for right?

Runner223355 saidSo I had my first sexual experience with a guy and the condom broke. I was a top but I don't think I came inside of him since there really was no trace of semen. There didn't seem to be any blood either. He said he was HIV negative and I know I am since I was tested. Just got tested today but the anxiety is killing me. Thoughts? Should I be worrying?

You are fine. I wouldn't worry about it all. If you've had no sexual history, you are negative. The only worry is for other things if there were to be blood involved - hepatitis. You should make sure you get your vaccinations for Hepatitis A, B, and I think there is one for C. HIV is certainly the big STD on everyone's minds. Bottom line: trust no one when it comes to HIV. Treat everyone as if they are HIV positive. As long as you practice safer sex, you will be fine.

Runner, It happended to me also and I did the same as you and got tested and made sure he was also. Told him I would feel better and he did for me. Good luck to you and do what i did and get better condoms or bigger ones if needed.

Thanks for the positive comments. Just to let everyone know I am a real person and I used to be member on this site with a real profile. In terms of dating and meeting ppl, real jock didn't work for me however I still like reading the forum posts. I created a temp profile to get advice from all of you regarding my situation.

go get tested together, it could be a date or something lol

This post and thread are too funny. If you got anything from this experience then the good lord must have made your dick an aids magnet. You're fine. He's fine. Chill.

I am not a doctor. But, something similar has happened that freaked me out. That day, my GP had three guys with the same panic story on his schedule. Not going to bother telling you about your risk. I wanted verification after it happened to me. So...

You can't afford to ignore the risk of possibly being exposed to Hep and Herpes. There is a vaccine for Hep A and B you should consider.

There's a 4-th generation ELISA test that tests for P24 antigen and HIV 1/2 antibodies in the blood.
http://hivinsite.ucsf.edu/InSite?page=kb-02-02-01#S3X

Public health departments may prefer this test to the more expensive but more accurate PCR test that detects the HIV virus copies directly instead of the antibodies. http://molecular.roche.com/assays/Pages/COBASAMPLICORHIV-1MONITORTestv15.aspx

This latest development in PCR RNA testing is trusted to detect as few as 75 copies at 21 days.
http://molecular.roche.com/News/LocalNews/Pages/FDAApprovesNewRocheDual-PCRTargetHIV-1Test.aspx But, it isn't a quick-read type of test.

(really hope I didn't screw this up.)

Runner223355 saidSo I had my first sexual experience with a guy and the condom broke. I was a top but I don't think I came inside of him since there really was no trace of semen. There didn't seem to be any blood either. He said he was HIV negative and I know I am since I was tested. Just got tested today but the anxiety is killing me. Thoughts? Should I be worrying?

Just curious : how many of you guys got tested BEFORE your first sexual experience ?

minox said

Runner223355 saidSo I had my first sexual experience with a guy and the condom broke. I was a top but I don't think I came inside of him since there really was no trace of semen. There didn't seem to be any blood either. He said he was HIV negative and I know I am since I was tested. Just got tested today but the anxiety is killing me. Thoughts? Should I be worrying?

Just curious : how many of you guys got tested BEFORE your first sexual experience ?

Yes, this does smell of trolldom. Unless he thought he could catch it from a doorknob or toilet seat. In which case, there really is no helping him.

The_Guerrilla_Sodomite said

minox said

Runner223355 saidSo I had my first sexual experience with a guy and the condom broke. I was a top but I don't think I came inside of him since there really was no trace of semen. There didn't seem to be any blood either. He said he was HIV negative and I know I am since I was tested. Just got tested today but the anxiety is killing me. Thoughts? Should I be worrying?

Just curious : how many of you guys got tested BEFORE your first sexual experience ?

Yes, this does smell of trolldom. Unless he thought he could catch it from a doorknob or toilet seat. In which case, there really is no helping him.

I think he meant he has been tested since the condom accident. That would make more sense.

Yeah otherwise he's troolin

much like your profile, you're now infected with hidden viruses