First time and condom broke!!!!!!!

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    May 30, 2012 2:34 AM GMT
    So I had my first sexual experience with a guy and the condom broke. I was a top but I don't think I came inside of him since there really was no trace of semen. There didn't seem to be any blood either. He said he was HIV negative and I know I am since I was tested. Just got tested today but the anxiety is killing me. Thoughts? Should I be worrying?
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    May 30, 2012 2:45 AM GMT
    It's like rain on your wedding day
    It's a free ride when you've already paid
    It's the good advice that you just didn't take
    Who would've thought, it figures
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    May 30, 2012 2:46 AM GMT
    Mr. Playitsafe, was afraid to fly
    Packed his suitcase, and kissed his kids goodbye
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    May 30, 2012 2:47 AM GMT
    OHMYGOSH what if you got him preggers! icon_surprised.gif
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    May 30, 2012 2:47 AM GMT
    Do you know him well enough to trust his word? If so, I wouldn't worry.
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    May 30, 2012 2:49 AM GMT
    A traffic jam when you're already late;
    A no-smoking sign on your cigarette break;
    It's like ten thousand spoons when all you need is a knife...
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    May 30, 2012 2:50 AM GMT
    Coach_Mike saidIt's like rain on your wedding day
    It's a free ride when you've already paid
    It's the good advice that you just didn't take
    Who would've thought, it figures

    alanis-o.gif

    and as the plane crashed down he thought well isn't this nice
  • auryn

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    May 30, 2012 2:53 AM GMT
    Worry and anxiety can be debilitating, focus on being aware and informed. Keep getting tested often because there is more out there than HIV.
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    May 30, 2012 2:53 AM GMT
    Now I feel bad that everybody's posting Alannis lyrics. But it is ironic, don't you think? Somebody give the poor guy some advice.
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    May 30, 2012 2:54 AM GMT
    You're fine, I wouldn't worry. You're gonna need kryptonite condoms for that super sperm though.
  • buymeasoda

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    May 30, 2012 2:56 AM GMT
    you are fine
    get tested to ease your mind
    then again in 3 months

    then buy better condoms...
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    May 30, 2012 2:56 AM GMT
    This is probably a troll/sock account, but whatever. The risk is much greater to the person who is on the receiving end. You should always get tested, but the odds that you've contracted anything are extremely slim.
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    May 30, 2012 3:00 AM GMT
    OMG... stop the presses! Faceless sock account has an important question that, were it real, he should be discussing with a health professional. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    May 30, 2012 3:02 AM GMT
    intensity69 saidOMG... stop the presses! Faceless sock account has an important question that, were it real, he should be discussing with a health professional. icon_rolleyes.gif


    thats what RJ is for right?
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    May 30, 2012 3:08 AM GMT
    Runner223355 saidSo I had my first sexual experience with a guy and the condom broke. I was a top but I don't think I came inside of him since there really was no trace of semen. There didn't seem to be any blood either. He said he was HIV negative and I know I am since I was tested. Just got tested today but the anxiety is killing me. Thoughts? Should I be worrying?


    You are fine. I wouldn't worry about it all. If you've had no sexual history, you are negative. The only worry is for other things if there were to be blood involved - hepatitis. You should make sure you get your vaccinations for Hepatitis A, B, and I think there is one for C. HIV is certainly the big STD on everyone's minds. Bottom line: trust no one when it comes to HIV. Treat everyone as if they are HIV positive. As long as you practice safer sex, you will be fine.
  • toybrian

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    May 30, 2012 3:14 AM GMT
    Runner, It happended to me also and I did the same as you and got tested and made sure he was also. Told him I would feel better and he did for me. Good luck to you and do what i did and get better condoms or bigger ones if needed.
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    May 30, 2012 3:16 AM GMT
    Thanks for the positive comments. Just to let everyone know I am a real person and I used to be member on this site with a real profile. In terms of dating and meeting ppl, real jock didn't work for me however I still like reading the forum posts. I created a temp profile to get advice from all of you regarding my situation.
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    May 30, 2012 3:21 AM GMT
    go get tested together, it could be a date or something lol
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    May 30, 2012 3:42 AM GMT
    This post and thread are too funny. If you got anything from this experience then the good lord must have made your dick an aids magnet. You're fine. He's fine. Chill.
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    May 30, 2012 3:53 AM GMT
    I am not a doctor. But, something similar has happened that freaked me out. That day, my GP had three guys with the same panic story on his schedule. Not going to bother telling you about your risk. I wanted verification after it happened to me. So...

    You can't afford to ignore the risk of possibly being exposed to Hep and Herpes. There is a vaccine for Hep A and B you should consider.

    There's a 4-th generation ELISA test that tests for P24 antigen and HIV 1/2 antibodies in the blood.
    http://hivinsite.ucsf.edu/InSite?page=kb-02-02-01#S3X

    Public health departments may prefer this test to the more expensive but more accurate PCR test that detects the HIV virus copies directly instead of the antibodies. http://molecular.roche.com/assays/Pages/COBASAMPLICORHIV-1MONITORTestv15.aspx

    This latest development in PCR RNA testing is trusted to detect as few as 75 copies at 21 days.
    http://molecular.roche.com/News/LocalNews/Pages/FDAApprovesNewRocheDual-PCRTargetHIV-1Test.aspx But, it isn't a quick-read type of test.

    (really hope I didn't screw this up.)
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    May 30, 2012 4:40 AM GMT
    Runner223355 saidSo I had my first sexual experience with a guy and the condom broke. I was a top but I don't think I came inside of him since there really was no trace of semen. There didn't seem to be any blood either. He said he was HIV negative and I know I am since I was tested. Just got tested today but the anxiety is killing me. Thoughts? Should I be worrying?


    Just curious : how many of you guys got tested BEFORE your first sexual experience ?
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    May 30, 2012 4:45 AM GMT
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    Runner223355 saidSo I had my first sexual experience with a guy and the condom broke. I was a top but I don't think I came inside of him since there really was no trace of semen. There didn't seem to be any blood either. He said he was HIV negative and I know I am since I was tested. Just got tested today but the anxiety is killing me. Thoughts? Should I be worrying?


    Just curious : how many of you guys got tested BEFORE your first sexual experience ?


    Yes, this does smell of trolldom. Unless he thought he could catch it from a doorknob or toilet seat. In which case, there really is no helping him.
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    May 30, 2012 5:01 AM GMT
    The_Guerrilla_Sodomite said
    minox said
    Runner223355 saidSo I had my first sexual experience with a guy and the condom broke. I was a top but I don't think I came inside of him since there really was no trace of semen. There didn't seem to be any blood either. He said he was HIV negative and I know I am since I was tested. Just got tested today but the anxiety is killing me. Thoughts? Should I be worrying?


    Just curious : how many of you guys got tested BEFORE your first sexual experience ?


    Yes, this does smell of trolldom. Unless he thought he could catch it from a doorknob or toilet seat. In which case, there really is no helping him.


    I think he meant he has been tested since the condom accident. That would make more sense.

    Yeah otherwise he's troolin
  • calibro

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    May 30, 2012 7:43 AM GMT
    much like your profile, you're now infected with hidden viruses
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    May 30, 2012 7:48 AM GMT
    It's meeting the man of my dreams.

    And then meeting his beautiful wife.

    (So I skipped a few lines lol)