All single/dating dudes: What are your types? What types you seem to be attracting?

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    May 30, 2012 4:43 PM GMT
    I am talking about types of men in dating/potential partner boyfriend. I guess this thread is for most single guys, list your types and the types seem to be hitting on you. Partner/BF guys can chime in if you have helpful insights. icon_biggrin.gif

    My types: late 20's to late 30's type, cute, tall, has nice teeth/smile. Reasonably attractive (to me of course), less body hair! lol professional guy as far as race concern - I dated varieties before but lately I start to like masculine Asians-American dude a lot (google Phil Bui instinct magazine or Peter Le types) either that or a really sexy Aussie/Euro guy.

    Types hitting on me: Older guys early 40s, mid 40s to 50s, some young twinks 19-22 yo and a couple of early/mid 20s dudes mostly asians/caucasians, some out of shapes dudes and I seem to be a magnet for some Black/Latino guys too. I am flattered and all but after a couple of meeting with some of them, I find no interest or having nothing in common. So I usually ignored and never call them again.

    My straight and gay friends keep telling me to *lower my standards* lol but my feelings are after a couple of painful break ups in the past, I know exactly what I want in a mate/partner, I shouldn't *settle for the man just to *settle. PS, I'm not looking for perfection either. Maybe my time hasn't come yet and he's still waiting out there. icon_cool.gif

    What about you, discuss.
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    May 30, 2012 8:44 PM GMT
    i like young asian guys

    young white guys and old black and white guys like me.
  • Freakout0932

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    May 30, 2012 8:55 PM GMT
    IDK... I guess I like all kids of guys and all kinds of guy message me... Alot of older guys though. The only preference i have is that I am the little spoon when cuddling! Then again I have never been in a relationship icon_neutral.gif
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    May 30, 2012 8:57 PM GMT
    I attract creepy people icon_neutral.gif
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    May 30, 2012 9:07 PM GMT
    My type: closer to my age the better. career and fitness driven individual.

    Get hit on : <25 twinks or older attached guys looking to hook up.
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    May 30, 2012 9:14 PM GMT
    I'm physically attracted to the rugged look I guess. Love guys that are bigger than me "which isn't usually a problem since I'm pretty short lol". A beard and hairy chest is def a plus for me. I'm also a sucker for tattoos...

    Personality wise... I like a guy with a sense of humor and likes to have a good time but has dreams and goals in their life and is working to achieve them. Also a guy that likes to just lay back on the couch and cuddle up while watching a good movie is alright in my book.
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    May 30, 2012 9:20 PM GMT
    I'm a "I'll know it when I see it" kinda guy...my tastes can change by the minute.
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    May 30, 2012 9:25 PM GMT
    I like hot nerds and pretty boi's who are in their 20's/30's.

    I seem to be attracting fucking teenagers and sexually confused guys icon_rolleyes.gificon_lol.gif
  • varsitybadboy

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    May 30, 2012 9:35 PM GMT
    Deff not a whimpy or push over.

    A "mans man", Rough, rugged, scruffy.

    Latinos to the front, but open to anything.

    and lately, Im not attrcting anyone :rollicon_sad.gifthat I know of atleast)
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    May 30, 2012 9:36 PM GMT
    I wanna say nice guys? But that's not even true. Unfortunately, I seem to be attracted mostly to cocky a**holes. Ugh. (Also: can we swear on here? I keep censoring myself just in case.)
  • rf_dal

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    May 30, 2012 9:36 PM GMT
    Haha why is it always that it never matches up?

    Attractive to me: Muscly and intelligent

    Hits on me: 90 year old creepos, or general creepos. Yay?

    I guess I'm too small for built guys, to young looking for guys my age, not tinkly enough for guys who like those, and I don't even care why not for really young ones lol. C'est la vie!
  • Karl

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    May 30, 2012 9:40 PM GMT
    Im attracted to bald guy and buzzed hair guy , beard is a plus.
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    May 30, 2012 9:45 PM GMT
    rf_dal saidHaha why is it always that it never matches up?

    Attractive to me: Muscly and intelligent

    Hits on me: 90 year old creepos, or general creepos. Yay?

    I guess I'm too small for built guys, to young looking for guys my age, not tinkly enough for guys who like those, and I don't even care why not for really young ones lol. C'est la vie!


    heyHeyHEY!!!!!

    I am NOT 90...K??!?!!??!
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    May 30, 2012 9:48 PM GMT
    above. totally above. I'd hit that.

    Wait. this isn't that thread, is it?
    Uh. the guy above me is a stud. witty, attractive, successful.
  • jim_sf

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    May 30, 2012 9:50 PM GMT
    My type: guys who are more or less my age; short; smart; adventurous, but not reckless or crazy; self-sufficient; athletic; and HIV+; and who have a nice smile and an accent. Special bonus points for Latinos, but I'm open to dating men of any race, nationality, or ethnicity.

    Guys who hit on me: partnered older guys (50+) looking for a piece on the side; students, especially undergrads, from other countries; African-American men on the DL*; men who can't be bothered to read my fucking profile; and tweakers.

    * Not sure why, but out men of color rarely hit on me.
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    May 30, 2012 9:51 PM GMT
    I like guys that have muscles and are 23-35. Older is better--but not too old. I like guys that a physically fit and masculine. Pretty much a man's man. Some hair won't hurt anyone. I like facial hair and some on the chest and torso.
  • jim_sf

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    May 30, 2012 9:52 PM GMT
    VSG1290 said(Also: can we swear on here? I keep censoring myself just in case.)


    Fuck yes we can swear in this shit! Damn. Ass. Cockgobbler. Fungdark.
  • rf_dal

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    May 30, 2012 9:56 PM GMT
    Haha, ok I'll add that it's that way for people anywhere near me, and available. icon_razz.gif

    Cash said
    rf_dal saidHaha why is it always that it never matches up?

    Attractive to me: Muscly and intelligent

    Hits on me: 90 year old creepos, or general creepos. Yay?

    I guess I'm too small for built guys, to young looking for guys my age, not tinkly enough for guys who like those, and I don't even care why not for really young ones lol. C'est la vie!


    heyHeyHEY!!!!!

    I am NOT 90...K??!?!!??!
  • BlueMoose

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    May 30, 2012 9:57 PM GMT
    I'm into guys who are 21-28 who are goal oriented. Physically I like guys who are near my height or taller. Not really into short guys. Also like guys who are physically bigger than me. Usually beefier/muscular. Does;t have to be defined just there. Like strong arms and hairy chest. Hairy guys in general. Love facial hair also. Pretty much looking for a teddy bear. Big and strong outside but gentle and sweet inside. Want a guy who likes to cuddle and hold me in his arms. A guy who challenges me but accepts me for who I am.
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    May 30, 2012 10:05 PM GMT
    jim_stl said
    VSG1290 said(Also: can we swear on here? I keep censoring myself just in case.)


    Fuck yes we can swear in this shit! Damn. Ass. Cockgobbler. Fungdark.


    Sweet, thanks. Also re my first post: "cocky assholes" ... Freudian slip?

    ...Yup, I'm gay
  • suedeheadscot

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    May 30, 2012 10:08 PM GMT
    attracted to : guys who work in caring roles/environments like social workers, nurses/doctors etc. Guys who do some exercise (they don't have to be fanatical). Guys who like things a bit off the wall music/film wise but also like Saturday night no-brainers. Guys who are not into the gay scene.

    Who I attract: 18 year olds, married guys, overweight guys, guys who are into the gay scene, Lady Gaga and whose idea of a challenging film is Big Momma's House.

    Sigh.......

    (Weirdly I did go through a phase of attracting a lot of social workers, which makes me think the only way I'm going to get a partner is to start a career in said field...)
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    May 30, 2012 10:08 PM GMT
    Someone close to my age, funny and weird. I really care more if their personality compliments mine.

    Obviously, they need to be attractive but in my eyes that can be a lot of things. They don't have to be mega muscular/toned guys with a six pack. They can be an ordinary type of guy with no real definition or anything, once their face is cute, they have/can get a beard and a nice smile I'm OK.
  • nomad4life

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    May 30, 2012 10:32 PM GMT
    jim_stl saidMy type: guys who are more or less my age; short; smart; adventurous, but not reckless or crazy; self-sufficient; athletic; and HIV+; and who have a nice smile and an accent. Special bonus points for Latinos, but I'm open to dating men of any race, nationality, or ethnicity.



    Wait, is the HIV+ type a type you like, or included under the "not reckless or crazy" listing?

    My type: guys that are a few years older than me (like in the 25-32 range), fit, nice to my friends, and not clingy

    Type that I attract: guys that have that gut (you know), guys with faces that look like they were hit by a frying pan, men in their forties who want to cheat on their wives, twinks in their teens who think they're hotshit, and an array of people that have become obsessed with me to the point of never leaving me alone. So basically I attract everything except what I want.
  • jim_sf

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    May 30, 2012 10:45 PM GMT
    friendlyface08 saidWait, is the HIV+ type a type you like, or included under the "not reckless or crazy" listing?


    I just find it far less complicated to date other poz guys. Any romantic relationship is going to be complicated enough; I don't need to add serodivergence to the mix. (Plus, it gives us something in common.)
  • Montague

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    May 30, 2012 10:51 PM GMT
    My type: Muscle Daddies and Muscle Pups

    What I Attract: Young bottoms most total tops would kill to get at. hah