Should I even bother texting this guy?

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    Jun 02, 2012 3:45 AM GMT
    So I was out at a club in NYC this past weekend. My buddies and I were talking to these 2 girls who claimed to be models. They were pretty beautiful. Once we got talking, they were kind of hitting on me and I told them I was gay. They seemed to be a little bit drunk, though not completely wasted.

    One of the girls eventually makes a comment after we start talking about it and says "I should hook you up with my gay friend!" and shows me a picture of her gay friend who apparently is also a model. The picture she showed me was of one of the hottest guys I've ever seen. She ended up giving me his phone number, and told me to text him. I told her no, because it's way too awkward but suggested that she introduce us if we ever met up again. The topic changed and soon we headed off our separate ways...

    I still have the number, but I have not attempted to text this guy and don't think I will. I doubt the girl remembers that night and told her friend about me, so if he isn't expecting a text from me, I will just look like some weirdo. But he was just sooo hot, is it worth trying to talk to him? How would you even go about texting someone you've never met? Ughhh...

    YOLO?
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    Jun 02, 2012 3:49 AM GMT
    What could be the worst thing that happens? He doesn't text back?
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    Jun 02, 2012 3:51 AM GMT
    Jay1922 saidWhat could be the worst thing that happens? He doesn't text back?


    That is true. It's just that I really only have one chance and I don't want to blow it. So I really don't know how to even start off the text...
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    Jun 02, 2012 3:52 AM GMT
    OMG you're gay and my friend is gay... perfect match!

    Seriously though, you have anonymity on your side. Why not just send him something witty and see what happens. If nothing eventuates, you have only lost the opportunity to date what amounts to 2d image you glimpsed at about a week ago.
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    Jun 02, 2012 3:53 AM GMT
    cold saidOMG you're gay and my friend is gay... perfect match!


    LOL, it didn't exactly happen that quickly. I just summarized the conversation very shortly in my post.
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    Jun 02, 2012 4:42 AM GMT
    It's not a sin to text him...

    But think of it this way, if you hadn't met that girl that night, you would have had a good time without getting to know this guy and not felt like you lost anything. You could still think of it that way and be happy.
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    Jun 02, 2012 6:02 PM GMT
    SkinnyBitch saidIt's not a sin to text him...

    But think of it this way, if you hadn't met that girl that night, you would have had a good time without getting to know this guy and not felt like you lost anything. You could still think of it that way and be happy.


    I'm not going to be distraught if this doesn't turn out well, I just want some tips on how you could initiate a conversation with someone via text under these strange circumstances.
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    Jun 02, 2012 6:41 PM GMT
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    SkinnyBitch saidIt's not a sin to text him...

    But think of it this way, if you hadn't met that girl that night, you would have had a good time without getting to know this guy and not felt like you lost anything. You could still think of it that way and be happy.


    I'm not going to be distraught if this doesn't turn out well, I just want some tips on how you could initiate a conversation with someone via text under these strange circumstances.


    Hey XXX gave me your number and thought it would be a good idea. Im trying it. YOLO!!
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    Jun 03, 2012 1:39 AM GMT
    Helios69 saidDude, do it. You don't want that moment to be one of your regrets 20 years from now. "If only I had..."


    Lol true, maybe I will just go for it.