I like to date local and I have a very limited range of types, so I tend to initiate all the unlocking pics/messaging with guys i'm interested in.

But it's happened a few times where some guys, usually from another state or even country, would IM me for no reason. It's not like they have any idea how i look like. The most recent BS reason was that my screenname "whytehot" intrigued him... err. And these aren't exactly ugly guys with any reason to be that desperate.