I'm Not Really Gay

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    Jun 03, 2012 5:39 AM GMT
    I was told that because I have not technically gotten fucked or have fucked a girl then I am not a true gay! But i'm not offended..This was coming from a man that had a huge hard on for me in the past and regrets it now and he also was one of those 'straight' guys who let a man suck his dick and turn him gay......I know people righticon_rolleyes.gif

    So are you only allowed to claim yourself gay if you have gotten fucked or just did not like the va jay jay? ...............IDK is it even that serious?............................yea I should prob. just get of my cpu and do some virgin shit like read the hobbit nowicon_neutral.gif
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    Jun 03, 2012 5:44 AM GMT
    I was once told i wasnt gay because i dont have a lisp. Like one day you just wake up with a lisp and just start sucking cocks. Seems legit.
  • Machina

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    Jun 03, 2012 7:15 AM GMT
    I remember the first time I was in a situation to have sex with a girl was in High School. I was so excited and a little nervous in anticipation of actual sex, but when Zero Hour came things just didn't work out...

    A few days later I found myself walking off of the football field with the rest of the guys on my team and realized I was staring, quite conspicuously at the beautiful six pack of my first true crush, one of the guys on the swim team, as they were filing out of the pool to the locker rooms.

    None of this really makes me gay though... it all just means I'm confused because I had a bad relationship with my Father. icon_lol.gif
  • Karl

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    Jun 03, 2012 7:18 AM GMT
    I think that's kinda normal , there're so many people just like you , and even me..
    Sometimes I dont feel like Im really gay.
    IMO , we still have something of a straight man inside because we were born with our gender is male... Those chemistry is still active inside of us...
    (sorry I suck at English and dont know how to use the right word icon_neutral.gif)

    A really hot girl can make me hard ;) (but it's really disgusting when I think about the pussy icon_rolleyes.gif )

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    Jun 03, 2012 7:26 AM GMT


    I'm just offended by this post icon_razz.gificon_eek.gif
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    Jun 03, 2012 7:27 AM GMT
    karl3s said
    IMO , we still have something of a straight man inside



    No that's just wishful thinking by 90% of the gay population fantasizing about their straight roommate fucking them.
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    Jun 03, 2012 7:34 AM GMT
    Whiskey88 saidI was once told i wasnt gay because i dont have a lisp. Like one day you just wake up with a lisp and just start sucking cocks. Seems legit.


    Of course it's ridiculous! Everyone knows it's sucking cock that causes the lisp because the hard dick permanently strains the tongue.
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    Jun 03, 2012 7:57 AM GMT
    I often do wonder about the prominence of the lisp in our lifestyle... I mean....Why?
  • slimnmuscly

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    Jun 03, 2012 8:01 AM GMT
    Yep, that's how it works in the gay community. Whatever some random guy told you once, we all comply with that and enforce it religiously.
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    Jun 03, 2012 8:07 AM GMT
    The declaration of being gay is a personal choice that one makes or rather is born with. It is not based on how many people you banged or fooled around with. hope that cleared it up.
  • Medjai

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    Jun 03, 2012 8:38 AM GMT
    Whiskey88 saidI often do wonder about the prominence of the lisp in our lifestyle... I mean....Why?


    It bothers me too. A lot.
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    Jun 03, 2012 8:40 AM GMT
    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Projective_identification

    ^ most valuable psychological (psychoanalytic) concept to understand..
  • muscletruk

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    Jun 03, 2012 12:27 PM GMT
    so I guess what my "little brother" told me is true? your only GAY if your on the bottom looks like I'm GAY LOL
    side note I've argued with people after coming out to them. they tell me I can't be gay. so far I haven't offered to prove it
  • muscletruk

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    Jun 03, 2012 12:29 PM GMT
    Ariodante said
    karl3s said
    IMO , we still have something of a straight man inside



    No that's just wishful thinking by 90% of the gay population fantasizing about their straight roommate fucking them.

    RPFLMAO thanks
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    Jun 03, 2012 12:37 PM GMT

    "I was told that because I have not technically gotten fucked or have fucked a girl then I am not a true gay!"

    Tell that person whatever attracts you determines your orientation.

    It really is that simple.
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    Jun 03, 2012 12:43 PM GMT
    meninlove said
    "I was told that because I have not technically gotten fucked or have fucked a girl then I am not a true gay!"

    Tell that person whatever attracts you determines your orientation.

    It really is that simple.

    THIS

    Would a straight 18-year-old say: "I like girls, but I haven't been to bed with one yet, so I can't be straight." Would such a comparable rule apply to gays who haven't been in bed with a guy yet? icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jun 03, 2012 12:53 PM GMT
    LIgerWOods17 saidI was told that because I have not technically gotten fucked or have fucked a girl then I am not a true gay!



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    Jun 03, 2012 1:20 PM GMT
    I was told that once too. That's the complete and underlying cause of homophobia, the perception that every gay guy fucks. Which is why they refer to it as "a disgusting lifestyle." Unfortunately, a lot of gay guys perpetuate that myth.

    So one day I point blank asked all the guys on my wrestling website, "Do you have anal sex, have done it, etc? 80%, that's right, 80% had no desire for it. Of course, that's because most all of them get off wrestling and kissing/groping, and that satifies them.

    People need to be careful these days. I see guys on here bragging about who they want to f*ck, etc. The rate of HIV in DC I heard was 1 out of 5. That's crazy!

    To anyone on here feeling pressured to have anal sex to "fit in" (ha), don't. It's your body, your choice, and there are tons of guys who feel the same.
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    Jun 03, 2012 1:31 PM GMT
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  • Machina

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    Jun 03, 2012 1:54 PM GMT
    Art_Deco saidWould a straight 18-year-old say: "I like girls, but I haven't been to bed with one yet, so I can't be straight." Would such a comparable rule apply to gays who haven't been in bed with a guy yet? icon_rolleyes.gif


    This is a perfect way of looking at it. No one really ever questions whether or not one is straight because they have or haven't had sex with a member of the opposite gender. It is just assumed if one says they are straight that they really are.

    Why can't this logic be applied to gay folks as well? I'm sure if we say we are gay that by god, we really are gay.
  • starboard5

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    Jun 03, 2012 2:16 PM GMT
    Being gay or straight or bi has nothing to do with what you do with you genitals.
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    Jun 03, 2012 2:18 PM GMT
    Priests are not technically gay either, but that doesn't change what they do behind closed doors. I know a lot of bi guys. Just accept you're bi.
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    Jun 03, 2012 2:23 PM GMT
    I say don't worry about any of it. Just read the Hobbit, it's a good book.
  • masculumpedes

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    Jun 03, 2012 4:52 PM GMT
    BkBkBk saidI say don't worry about any of it. Just read the Hobbit, it's a good book.


    Yes, but the Wheel of Time series is better! icon_wink.gif
  • araphael

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    Jun 04, 2012 4:02 AM GMT
    Damn bro, you are fine as hell. I'm sorry, what was your question again? Something about straight or gay? A man fine as you should not even bother yourself with such foolish questions, hahaha.