I guess the obvious one like others have said is that you don't have to explicitly say your into guys because people can tell just by looking at you.
Also a lot of feminine gay men are very emotionally strong. They can take a lot of shit from people due to the thick skin's they have had to develop. They are also completely comfortable with their sexuality in most cases although it can be traumatic during your teen years not being able to fit in with the rest of the guys.
The downside is all the shit you get for it. Not just from straight men but also from other gay men who either hate feminine gay men or have issues with their own sexuality and just want to conform.
starboard5First off, I make a personal distinction between guys who are feminine, and guys who are queens. To me, they're not the same thing.
A very smart observation. I'd classy myself as feminine looking but I'm certainly not a 'queen'. The lazy thing to do would be to put all femme's in the same box.