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  • mtman21

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    Jun 03, 2012 8:31 AM GMT
    so im 21 but really end up finding older men 38 and younger hot and handsome whats gives?
  • tuffguyndc

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    Jun 03, 2012 1:51 PM GMT
    mtman20 saidso im 21 but really end up finding older men 38 and younger hot and handsome whats gives?
    maybe you have daddy issues. listen, i think everyone goes through that phase in there life where want someone older. however, i think it is the security thing. usually the older they are the more stable and established they are.
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    Jun 03, 2012 2:25 PM GMT
    ....maybe you just like older men???...... icon_question.gificon_question.gif
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    Jun 03, 2012 2:26 PM GMT
    i don't think its so unusual to find older men attractive. often (not always but often) they are more established, have found stability, are decisive about what they want out of life, have an established career and can not only pay the bills but also afford finer things in life, have found a way to deal with challenges and problems without panic, perhaps have settled into a more balanced life, and have lost their baby fat and matured into their looks and masculinity. these are all attractive qualities. right?
  • courtnyou

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    Jun 03, 2012 2:26 PM GMT
    some of us older dudes aren't so bad icon_biggrin.gif
  • great_scott

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    Jun 03, 2012 2:37 PM GMT
    Currently dealing with someone 15 years older and pretty happy with the way things are going so far. Usually have more in common with guys in their mid 30's to 40's. I was the youngest in my family for a long time and pretty much idolized my older cousins and siblings; maybe that carried over into adulthood. Most of my friends are several years older too, and that's usually been the case since college. It's never been a money, sex or "security" thing for me.
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    Jun 03, 2012 2:43 PM GMT
    There is nothing old about 38. Men in my family line live well into their 90s so 38 is less than half a life span. I would argue that men who stay in shape look best in their late 30s into their 40s. As long as you stay 38 or younger than you will find plenty of men around that age into younger guys. But when you are in your 50s or 60s I doubt you will be attracted to guys 15 years older. You may find you are still only attracted to 38 and younger. Then what?
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    Jun 03, 2012 2:49 PM GMT
    SInce I was about 13, I was the kid who usually hung out with the adults during parties and stuff. Always have been more comfortable conversing with older men (30-3icon_cool.gif is usually where I end up.
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    Jun 03, 2012 3:38 PM GMT
    Defenseon saidSInce I was about 13, I was the kid who usually hung out with the adults during parties and stuff. Always have been more comfortable conversing with older men (30-3icon_cool.gif is usually where I end up.


    Defenseon is sexy!
  • TufLuck

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    Jun 03, 2012 4:03 PM GMT
    I've never been attracted to guys my age or younger, mostly because I've never really had much in common with young guys. That and there's something odd about bttming for a younger guy, does nothing for me.
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    Jun 03, 2012 4:50 PM GMT
    Hey! You discriminating against us guys older than 38! Dang, that's just wrong. icon_evil.gif
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    Jun 03, 2012 4:54 PM GMT
    TufLuck saidI've never been attracted to guys my age or younger, mostly because I've never really had much in common with young guys. That and there's something odd about bttming for a younger guy, does nothing for me.




    Hahahahaha I've been there before some 19 year old wanted me to bottom and I was thinking this is sufficiently awkward. Needless to say I laughed and said naaa I'm not ready.
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    Jun 03, 2012 4:55 PM GMT
    cause we are hot as balls.

    I had the opposite happen last night. I met a pocket gay who is only 25. Something about him has him kickin in my noggin.
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    Jun 03, 2012 4:59 PM GMT
    Defenseon saidSInce I was about 13, I was the kid who usually hung out with the adults during parties and stuff. Always have been more comfortable conversing with older men (30-3icon_cool.gif is usually where I end up.


    dude, i was the same way. I never hung out with kids my age.
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    Jun 03, 2012 5:27 PM GMT
    I'm more inclined to think people who are against dating older men are the ones who have daddy issues.
  • masculumpedes

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    Jun 03, 2012 5:33 PM GMT
    I would totally be into older men.....if there were any...gayfight.gif
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    Jun 03, 2012 5:40 PM GMT
    great_scott saidCurrently dealing with someone 15 years older and pretty happy with the way things are going so far. Usually have more in common with guys in their mid 30's to 40's. I was the youngest in my family for a long time and pretty much idolized my older cousins and siblings; maybe that carried over into adulthood. Most of my friends are several years older too, and that's usually been the case since college. It's never been a money, sex or "security" thing for me.


    This is how I feel too. I ften wondered if I feel the way I do because I was the youngest of my siblings/cousins growing up
  • mtman21

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    Jun 03, 2012 6:38 PM GMT
    no daddy issues here i just know older guys typically have a brain and arnt like 20 somthings and they know what they want and go for it that is FREAKING SEXY
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    Jun 03, 2012 7:03 PM GMT
    I'm available! icon_twisted.gif
  • UGAdawg

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    Jun 03, 2012 7:05 PM GMT
    Im into older guys...dont know what it is....they are just sexy icon_twisted.gif
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    Jun 03, 2012 7:06 PM GMT
    yunghnb saidIm into older guys...dont know what it is....they are just sexy icon_twisted.gif


    Sup?
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    Jun 03, 2012 7:07 PM GMT
    You're sick! SICK!
  • GraphicGuy

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    Jun 03, 2012 7:07 PM GMT
    Dallasfan824 said
    yunghnb saidIm into older guys...dont know what it is....they are just sexy icon_twisted.gif


    Sup?


    LOL
  • mtman21

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    Jun 03, 2012 7:08 PM GMT
    you guys are funny they just know what they want and can me what i do comitment
  • UGAdawg

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    Jun 03, 2012 7:12 PM GMT
    i find them attractive because they know what they are doing lol icon_razz.gif