Aggressive behaviors by gay guys at the bars/clubs.

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    Jun 04, 2012 1:40 AM GMT
    So Ok, I just want to share this cute funny story with you guys, not wanting to bitch or vent or anything. I went out on Friday to Club Rage/Gameboi in LA. It was pretty fun, haven't been there in so Long. So I had like 3 apple martinis straight up, I was semi drunk, started dancing a bit and flirted with some boys. Lord behold, this shorter guy in a black tank top came on to me, he grabbed my ass and started to pulled me in hard, then he tried to put his hands down my pant. I'm like *Dude, I don't even know what you look like. I turned around, he was ok looking, not my type though. I politely removed his hands, smiled at him and said sorry.

    The same guy like cruised me all night at other spots, wouldn't leave me alone and this one fem/19 yo looking something guy start grabbing my penis in the corner and I'm like *No! I ran to the bathroom. Funny thing is I saw an old hook up/flame there whom I haven't seen in 4 years but he's not really my type either. Anyway, Isn't it amazing how kids/gays these days are so aggressive, it's like they can't take no for an answer or something. Anyhow, I feel flattered and not annoyed though, anyone had the same experience or story? Share.
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    Jun 04, 2012 1:47 AM GMT
    Actually doesn't sound like anything has changed, "these days".
    what has: having the same thing done to you at supposed "straight" bars, or Jesus, in line at the campus bookstore.
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    Jun 04, 2012 1:51 AM GMT
    it wasn't this guy by any chance was it?
    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/2417795
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    Jun 04, 2012 1:53 AM GMT
    Drunk and horny is always a formula for trouble in either gay or straight bars.
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    Jun 04, 2012 1:56 AM GMT
    xsocalguy8x saidAnyway, Isn't it amazing how kids/gays these days are so aggressive, it's like they can't take no for an answer or something. Anyhow, I feel flattered and not annoyed though, anyone had the same experience or story? Share.

    I was running into really aggressive gays 17 years ago, guys in their 30s, 40, and even 50s. So it's nothing new, or reserved to younger gays only.

    And a pattern I noticed was that it happened more often in clubs were I was known to be in relationship already. But even at those times when I was single their crotch grab technique didn't work on me, that's too much invasion of my space by someone I know little or not at all.
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    Jun 04, 2012 2:59 AM GMT
    I'll make sure to wear my chastity belt if I ever go to gameboi night.

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    Jun 04, 2012 3:01 AM GMT
    SkinnyBitch saidit wasn't this guy by any chance was it?
    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/2417795


    Lol no, the guy hit on me was cuter !! ouch !! icon_lol.gificon_eek.gif
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    Jun 04, 2012 3:04 AM GMT
    Idk about kids "today", I dont nor do my friends EVER act like that. Then again, im no 18 anymore but still icon_eek.gif
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    Jun 04, 2012 3:13 AM GMT
    xrichx saidDrunk and horny is always a formula for trouble in either gay or straight bars.


    Yeah I know I know, I'm in recovering AA!! jk ....icon_lol.gificon_cool.gif
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    Jun 04, 2012 3:35 AM GMT
    People's behavior will go as far as the environment condones. Find a new place to hang out. That place sounds sleazy.
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    Jun 04, 2012 3:43 AM GMT
    Aggression is usually the first choice of behavior for the weak. It's usually the last choice of behavior for the strong. So there you go.
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    Jun 04, 2012 4:03 AM GMT
    Nothing that extreme, but I didn't come out to a gay guy once and less than 5 minutes later, he was like "you're very cute, btw" and I'm like "dafuq? Was my gay side showing that much when I was flirting with Kerli?"
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    Jun 04, 2012 4:08 AM GMT
    xsocalguy8x said....Isn't it amazing how kids/gays these days are so aggressive, it's like they can't take no for an answer or something.



    "Kids these days"? I got news for ya......this is why I stopped going to gay bars YEARS ago! And to be honest, back then guys didn't have the internet to hookup on so they were MUCH more aggressive than today!
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    Jun 04, 2012 4:52 AM GMT
    araphael saidAggression is usually the first choice of behavior for the weak. It's usually the last choice of behavior for the strong. So there you go.


    Thanks that was deep !!! icon_cool.gif
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    Jun 04, 2012 4:57 AM GMT
    Scruffypup said
    xsocalguy8x said....Isn't it amazing how kids/gays these days are so aggressive, it's like they can't take no for an answer or something.



    "Kids these days"? I got news for ya......this is why I stopped going to gay bars YEARS ago! And to be honest, back then guys didn't have the internet to hookup on so they were MUCH more aggressive than today!


    I can see why guys have to try much harder back then, yeah Rage is an 18+ club, that night was filled with like 18-22 yo, I am 30 and I felt out of place. But I do feel flattered though and thought it was kind of amusing that they were so aggressive.
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    Jun 04, 2012 5:29 AM GMT
    This is why i avoid bars and clubs...
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    Jun 04, 2012 5:51 AM GMT
    My friends and I have had our fun times in dance clubs back in the day, and we've all had a few trolls come up and try shit like you're describing. First thing I do is say clearly right to them, "No thanks, man." That usually did it. For those who didn't hear so well, I'd be apt to say, "I said NO" right in their face in my hardest voice. No problems after that.
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    Jun 04, 2012 5:53 AM GMT
    xsocalguy8x saidSo Ok, I just want to share this cute funny story with you guys, not wanting to bitch or vent or anything. I went out on Friday to Club Rage/Gameboi in LA. It was pretty fun, haven't been there in so Long. So I had like 3 apple martinis straight up, I was semi drunk, started dancing a bit and flirted with some boys. Lord behold, this shorter guy in a black tank top came on to me, he grabbed my ass and started to pulled me in hard, then he tried to put his hands down my pant. I'm like *Dude, I don't even know what you look like. I turned around, he was ok looking, not my type though. I politely removed his hands, smiled at him and said sorry.

    The same guy like cruised me all night at other spots, wouldn't leave me alone and this one fem/19 yo looking something guy start grabbing my penis in the corner and I'm like *No! I ran to the bathroom. Funny thing is I saw an old hook up/flame there whom I haven't seen in 4 years but he's not really my type either. Anyway, Isn't it amazing how kids/gays these days are so aggressive, it's like they can't take no for an answer or something. Anyhow, I feel flattered and not annoyed though, anyone had the same experience or story? Share.




    sounds like my entire career.
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    Jun 04, 2012 5:54 AM GMT
    Ignore ftw.
    It's so simple to do.

    Drunk aggressive comes up to you,

    "Not interested."

    Walk away, and start dancing.

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    Jun 04, 2012 5:56 AM GMT
    Three apple martinis will get you drunk? icon_lol.gif
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    Jun 04, 2012 5:57 AM GMT
    i could do it in one. top that. (*bats eyelashes and waits for the sex jokes)
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    Jun 04, 2012 6:03 AM GMT
    Sex is not a joke. It's an important part of a balanced breakfast.
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    Jun 04, 2012 6:43 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidThree apple martinis will get you drunk? icon_lol.gif


    I knew someone was going to bring this up lol had to be you Paul!
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    Jun 04, 2012 6:44 AM GMT
    what is asian glow? does it have anything to do with why white guys don't talk to asian guys?
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    Jun 04, 2012 6:47 AM GMT
    Jockbod48 saidMy friends and I have had our fun times in dance clubs back in the day, and we've all had a few trolls come up and try shit like you're describing. First thing I do is say clearly right to them, "No thanks, man." That usually did it. For those who didn't hear so well, I'd be apt to say, "I said NO" right in their face in my hardest voice. No problems after that.


    Hehe, well there weren't really trolls guys, ok/above average looking, just wasn't my type! Hehehe Yeah I could do that but I wasn't trying to be *mean or have a scene in public! icon_lol.gif