Topped for first time, disappointed

  • sensible

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    Jun 07, 2012 12:51 AM GMT
    I topped a heavy bottom for the first time and I must say it was not how it looks in videos (even the amateur ones). I am uncut so the condom felt weird, I was getting kind of limp (I am rock hard otherwise). Probably it was just the angles or something but I could really use some suggestions.
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    Jun 07, 2012 1:42 AM GMT
    try try again. If it's something you really want to do. Think of this as your first time having sex. I'm guessing you where I bit nervous, and that makes it hard, or umm not hard..., and when your not sure exactly what your doing it can be difficult to enjoy yourself. I'm kinda missing some details, but if this is someone your sharing you life with, I'm sure he won't mind waiting for you to get it down.
    From personal experiences I can tell you it can be mind blowing, but it is a skill you may need to work on, but that can be the best part. now get back in there slugger, and keep swingin icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jun 07, 2012 2:27 AM GMT
    It's okay. It just means you're a bottom.
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    Jun 07, 2012 3:52 AM GMT
    Maybe you weren't that attracted to the guy.
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    Jun 07, 2012 6:36 AM GMT
    sensible saidI topped a heavy bottom for the first time and I must say it was not how it looks in videos (even the amateur ones).
    Make your own amateur videos. Then it'll look just like the stuff you see in videos (especially the amateur ones).
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    Jun 17, 2012 11:51 PM GMT
    staple_ saidMaybe you weren't that attracted to the guy.


    This. icon_neutral.gif
  • arcimboldo

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    Jul 19, 2012 7:02 PM GMT
    yes, some angles that strain the hips just cut off the erection...and maybe you didn't like the guy so much...bad smells are the biggest anafrosiac for me.
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    Jul 19, 2012 8:13 PM GMT
    sensible saidI topped a heavy bottom for the first time and I must say it was not how it looks in videos (even the amateur ones). I am uncut so the condom felt weird, I was getting kind of limp (I am rock hard otherwise). Probably it was just the angles or something but I could really use some suggestions.


    ditto
    tried a couple time afterwards. but never any different, a little awkward, hard to stay hard, not much fun at all.

    bottom it is then.

    no bad thing
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    Jul 21, 2012 12:35 PM GMT
    I would say try again.

    When I topped my ex for the first time I barely felt anything (condom of course) until I noticed the problem was my foreskin.

    Imagine holding your dick in your hand. Before penetration pull the foreskin up a bit so its covering you dick more and then go in. For some reason if I were to penetrate with my foreskin normally as it is I don't feel anything inside... Guessing it has to do with more foreskin available when you're fucking (if that makes any sense).

    Afterwards sensation was never a problem... it turned out to be fucking orgasmic icon_twisted.gif . There were a few times where I even stopped to make sure the condom wasn't ripped because it felt like bareback icon_lol.gif . Being uncut is great, just keep on trying.