Jun 07, 2012 5:14 PM GMT
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Supra89 saidI know most dudes on here have no idea what being “hard on the eyes” feels like and for that you guys are blessed. But am I indeed the curdled milk of my kind? Be honest. If so, how do I proceed in life (if I choose to proceed at all)?
Supra89 saidPersonally I hate myself, for several reasons, I believe I was born the wrong color, I have a fetish that will probably result in me being alone forever (see profile for that insanity) and my life in general is and has always been a fucking mess, I’m an orphan, I had a mental break down this past semester, I’m suicidal, lonely...the list goes on and on and on, so personality wise I know I'm probably what most would run the opposite direction from, I know we all have "baggage" but I have an entire luggage rack. But most people don’t know that when first meeting me. Please know this is in no way a pity party, its reality, but I do admit I am curious.
So in terms of looks am I just as ugly as my mental state? Old people, married woman and anyone else that would never be a reasonable prospect constantly are like "your so handsome" "don't be down on yourself, your good looking" blah blah blah. I'd like to believe them, but reality seems to contradict these statements, I’m single (have always been), I’m a virgin (for both sides) and on other networks (that I won't name) when I unlock my pics for guys my age...the messaging seems to always cease afterwards
Is the older crowd jus trying to be nice and am I truly just the burnt hot dog at the back of the grill that no one wants? or is their a bigger picture I'm missing? Please be honest, I really don’t want to be “that guy” who is 4 but acts like he’s a 10 (and behind his back everyone is calling him a 4). I know most dudes on here have no idea what being “hard on the eyes” feels like and for that you guys are blessed. But am I indeed the curdled milk of my kind? Be honest. If so, how do I proceed in life (if I choose to proceed at all)?
UndercoverMan saidHonestly, I'm not going to put a number on it and say if you are a 4, 6, or 8. Everyone's criteria is different.
Are you drop-dead gorgeous, male model, photoshopped, head-turning, delicious slab o' man meat. NO.
Do you have that Hollywood leading man, Denzel Washington look? NO.
Are you a hedious troll that needs to wear a burlap sack over your head in public to keep respectable ladies from fainting and children from fleeing to the safety of their mother's skirts? NO.
Are you ugly? NO.
Are you simply unattractive? NO.
Are you just as attractive as 98% of the world population? YES!
Work on your mental health first and foremost. Become a friendly, kind, open, honest man of quality and you will attract the same as friends and lovers.
Good luck to you.
Now to read about that fetish of yours.
smallerstud saidlooks arent everything. but if you hate yourself you should see a therapist. and if you still think youre ugly after, then start lifting. muscles make almost everyone hotter.
Supra89 said am I truly just the burnt hot dog at the back of the grill that no one wants? .... But am I indeed the curdled milk of my kind?
whateveryo saidHow about not giving a shit whether people think your attractive or not. I stopped caring a long time ago. My aim in life is not to model or win a beauty patent so what does being attractive to the mainstream matter?