FIRST GAY DATE!

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    Jun 07, 2012 11:50 PM GMT
    I'm having my first date/casual meeting tomorrow afternoon at the mall. The guy said he wants to "just hang there for a while and chill". Does anyone have any advice for me?
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    Jun 07, 2012 11:51 PM GMT
    You are underage and should not be on this site #teamunderage #teamwhale
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    Jun 07, 2012 11:51 PM GMT
    Take condoms and USE them...BE SAFE!
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    Jun 07, 2012 11:53 PM GMT
    dontknowwhy saidYou are underage and should not be on this site #teamunderage #teamwhale



    ....profile says 20......18 is legal.......
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    Jun 07, 2012 11:54 PM GMT
    Sporty_g said
    dontknowwhy saidYou are underage and should not be on this site #teamunderage #teamwhale



    ....profile says 20......18 is legal.......


    ye he is a liar, go read what he says in the chatroom..
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    Jun 07, 2012 11:56 PM GMT
    This guy literally has no life. I stopped talking to him long time ago and now hes butt hurt, so all he likes to do is slander me. Get a life.
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    Jun 07, 2012 11:56 PM GMT
    Stay at the mall or other populated areas until you are sure he isn't gonna harm you. Have one of your friends call 30 mins into the date to make sure your alright. If the guy is creepy have a code word for get me the hell out of here. Most importantly have fun icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jun 07, 2012 11:59 PM GMT
    shalomabijah saidThis guy literally has no life. I stopped talking to him long time ago and now hes butt hurt, so all he likes to do is slander me. Get a life.


    Sorry but I do not like whale watching so why would I talk to you? THis guy si a paranoid closet case who was pissing his pants because some dude on grindr was going to expose him and his Muslim parents would then kill him or something smh. And you are still underage.
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    Jun 08, 2012 12:00 AM GMT
    Thanks for the tips guys. And before anyone else mentions condoms, im not having sex on a first date lol.
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    Jun 08, 2012 12:06 AM GMT
    Condoms.
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    Jun 08, 2012 12:11 AM GMT
    lol
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    Jun 08, 2012 12:12 AM GMT
    shalomabijah saidThanks for the tips guys. And before anyone else mentions condoms, im not having sex on a first date lol.

    Yah know, I really envy you. I think a lot of guys here do. (Disregarding the hater dontknowwhy, about which you already seem aware)

    So be cautious, as you were told, have an escape plan if this guy is weird. But yah know, it can also be wonderful.

    [SIGH] I wish I could be in your shoes, doing this for the first time. Will you tell us how it goes?
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    Jun 08, 2012 2:49 AM GMT
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    shalomabijah saidThanks for the tips guys. And before anyone else mentions condoms, im not having sex on a first date lol.

    Yah know, I really envy you. I think a lot of guys here do. (Disregarding the hater dontknowwhy, about which you already seem aware)

    So be cautious, as you were told, have an escape plan if this guy is weird. But yah know, it can also be wonderful.

    [SIGH] I wish I could be in your shoes, doing this for the first time. Will you tell us how it goes?



    Sure bro! Again, thanks for the tips.
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    Jun 08, 2012 2:50 AM GMT
    Wrap your stump before you hump, or make sure the guy that sticks his penis in you does.
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    Jun 08, 2012 4:01 AM GMT
    Don't get your hopes up, odds are that it won't work sorry for being blunt man. But I remember on my first dates I was all excited and then nothing happened. So I guess my advice is just have fun and enjoy the moment icon_biggrin.gif.
    Welcome to the dating world, is horribly complicated but you'll love it ;) .
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    Jun 08, 2012 6:41 AM GMT
    A_X91 saidDon't get your hopes up, odds are that it won't work sorry for being blunt man. But I remember on my first dates I was all excited and then nothing happened. So I guess my advice is just have fun and enjoy the moment icon_biggrin.gif.
    Welcome to the dating world, is horribly complicated but you'll love it ;) .


    I totally understand. With experience it will get better. I'm not expecting him to be the perfect man, and if hes not my type, then i will settle as friends. Having gay friends would also be awesome.
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    Jun 09, 2012 8:02 PM GMT
    For those of you that wanted updates on my date, it went alright. The guy was way too femmy, short, and he was not as cute as he appeared on his pics. On the other hand, he was really nice. At first, I didn't think that height was a big deal since he appeared to be very cute online, but personally, it does matter. Now I know what to look for in a guy.
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    Jun 09, 2012 8:11 PM GMT
    shalomabijah saidFor those of you that wanted updates on my date, it went alright. The guy was way too femmy, short, and he was not as cute as he appeared on his pics. On the other hand, he was really nice. At first, I didn't think that height was a big deal since he appeared to be very cute online, but personally, it does matter. Now I know what to look for in a guy.

    How did it end?

    See you later? Lets meet up again? Sorry just not feeling it? Tell.
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    Jun 09, 2012 8:26 PM GMT
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    shalomabijah saidFor those of you that wanted updates on my date, it went alright. The guy was way too femmy, short, and he was not as cute as he appeared on his pics. On the other hand, he was really nice. At first, I didn't think that height was a big deal since he appeared to be very cute online, but personally, it does matter. Now I know what to look for in a guy.

    How did it end?

    See you later? Lets meet up again? Sorry just not feeling it? Tell.


    Well we were at the mall, and we planned to meet at the food court at first. When i went there, i couldn't find him. So instead, i went shopping at Macy's. He finally messaged me saying he was at the food court, and i told him to come to Macy's. We talked a bit while i was shopping, but I tried to keep myself busy with shopping to give him the message that im not interested in him. I finally told him I had to try a pair of jeans, and then he said he has to go too. And yes, he did suggest meeting up again, but i kinda changed the subject.
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    Jun 09, 2012 8:32 PM GMT
    Why would a guy be interested in terrorist whale?