Bad At Love!!!

  • RangerJoshD

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    Jun 08, 2012 9:33 PM GMT
    Over the years I have been in two bad relationships and for some reason Im kinda attracted to bad guys. I mean they're hot but they are also assholes as well. What should I do? Im ready for love but I keep falling for these bad guys.... is there something wrong with my standards?
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    Jun 08, 2012 9:48 PM GMT
    Your only 20...!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    Enjoy being 20 for crying out loud, its good to hear your learning from your expiriences so far and its forcing you to look deeper.....Enjoy being 20 and lighten up..........you've got many years to think about a serious romance.
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    Jun 08, 2012 9:58 PM GMT
    RangerJoshD saidOver the years I have been in two bad relationships and for some reason Im kinda attracted to bad guys. I mean they're hot but they are also assholes as well. What should I do? Im ready for love but I keep falling for these bad guys.... is there something wrong with my standards?


    The hardest thing I have had to learn is looks are not everything. It can be a drag sacrificing your morals for somebody else. An even more complicated situation is when you do find someone with looks and everything else. That drives me nuts!!! Sometimes you look and cannot touch.

    My advice is be true to yourself because that is all there is to start with. Maybe you are not really learning this lesson for the first time and you left some loose ends that are still tempting you to be the person you don't want to be. I am always growing and it is a forever process I believe so get use to it.

    Also, don't be afraid to wear your heart on your sleeve but do it with caution because there are some sick people out there. Depending on how much you know through experience, show a little love... It never lies to you.
  • Karl

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    Jun 08, 2012 11:09 PM GMT
    you're still young, me too.
    The "love" at this time it seems so unstable.
    You will find your dream guy after meeting a bunch of bad guys icon_wink.gif
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    Jun 09, 2012 3:43 AM GMT
    RangerJoshD saidOver the years I have been in two bad relationships and for some reason Im kinda attracted to bad guys. I mean they're hot but they are also assholes as well. What should I do? Im ready for love but I keep falling for these bad guys.... is there something wrong with my standards?


    I don't think it is really appropriate for others to judge YOUR standards. Your standards are YOUR preferences and others can't make you change what you think and believe. If you like "bad guys" so be it. I guess the best case for you to do is judge more into the guy's personality and not jump on the wagon because he has an amazing body.
  • RangerJoshD

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    Jun 09, 2012 4:15 AM GMT
    bodyjuice saidYour only 20...!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    Enjoy being 20 for crying out loud, its good to hear your learning from your expiriences so far and its forcing you to look deeper.....Enjoy being 20 and lighten up..........you've got many years to think about a serious romance.


    Thx for the great advice icon_smile.gif
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    Jun 09, 2012 5:43 AM GMT
  • Nancy6

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    Jun 09, 2012 6:02 AM GMT
    jhkh.gifGood point
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    Jun 09, 2012 7:02 AM GMT
    Naw it just means that you're a girl who likes confidence in a guy. You also tend to have a perfectionist nature and want to change the guy. The sooner you realize that you can't change people, but can influence them, the better off you are.