Into Younger Guys!

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    Jun 09, 2012 12:46 AM GMT
    First off, it's officially Los Angeles pride today 6.8-10, yay happy pride LA everyone. Second, there was a thread on here about into older men, so I am contrasting this thread to that. *Into Younger Guys*, Who here likes younger dudes? I do, esp I saw a really hot blond 24 yo last weekend, I can't stop thinking about him. Maybe it's the innocent, skinny bod and sexy hair that I can't get him out of my mind. Age range between 20/21 ish to around 28 ish. Younger Men are hot !!!! icon_wink.gif And I am lucky since I look young bc I'm Asian, some younger dudes like me, too.
  • TheBizMan

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    Jun 09, 2012 1:02 AM GMT
    Younger dudes need to get their shit together. You should not love them, or be into them.
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    Jun 09, 2012 1:07 AM GMT
    Older guys pay more








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    Jun 09, 2012 1:12 AM GMT
    TheBizMan saidYounger dudes need to get their shit together. You should not love them, or be into them.
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    Meh, I had my share of older men, if it's the right younger dude, I don't mind taking care of him for a bit and I do like younger d*** more, oh snap I went there. icon_wink.gificon_twisted.gif
  • TheBizMan

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    Jun 09, 2012 1:21 AM GMT
    When I get with older guys I sometimes wonder what they are thinking.

    Edit: Like if they think I'm naive or something... and if there is some sort of allure or appeal because of that.
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    Jun 09, 2012 1:49 AM GMT
    TheBizMan saidWhen I get with older guys I sometimes wonder what they are thinking.

    Edit: Like if they think I'm naive or something... and if there is some sort of allure or appeal because of that.


    Umm.. unless those pictures are someone else's you could start off with damn he's got a sexy smile? LOL I hate to destroy the mystery, but maybe he likes you? Wants to know more? OR.. could be good old fashioned lust.

    Maybe he is prayin you don't think he is stupid? LOL
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    Jun 09, 2012 2:46 AM GMT
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    TheBizMan saidWhen I get with older guys I sometimes wonder what they are thinking.

    Edit: Like if they think I'm naive or something... and if there is some sort of allure or appeal because of that.


    Umm.. unless those pictures are someone else's you could start off with damn he's got a sexy smile? LOL I hate to destroy the mystery, but maybe he likes you? Wants to know more? OR.. could be good old fashioned lust.

    Maybe he is prayin you don't think he is stupid? LOL

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    Well I mean aside from looks. Because I know for a lot of younger guys including myself; I find the comfort and security that a lot of older men seem to exude, very attractive. They don't even have to be the best looking man, but if they are secure and happy with life I'm all over it.

    So I wonder if there is anything counter to that when it comes to younger guys. Maybe naivety and innocence.. not quite sure of them self yet. I dunno. It's intriguing. Of course that's just me musing over something that may just be lust for young blood after all... icon_lol.gif
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    Jun 09, 2012 2:49 AM GMT
    I find it similar how guys think of younger guys just like how it is in school. When you were in high school or w/e you automatically assumed your grade is better than the grade below you and the grade(s) below you are stupid and immature, etc.

    I feel that older guys (for the most part) kinda may think the same way, but who knows?
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    Jun 09, 2012 3:16 AM GMT
    TheBizMan said
    NoNoNoYes said
    TheBizMan saidWhen I get with older guys I sometimes wonder what they are thinking.

    Edit: Like if they think I'm naive or something... and if there is some sort of allure or appeal because of that.


    Umm.. unless those pictures are someone else's you could start off with damn he's got a sexy smile? LOL I hate to destroy the mystery, but maybe he likes you? Wants to know more? OR.. could be good old fashioned lust.

    Maybe he is prayin you don't think he is stupid? LOL

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    Well I mean aside from looks. Because I know for a lot of younger guys including myself; I find the comfort and security that a lot of older men seem to exude, very attractive. They don't even have to be the best looking man, but if they are secure and happy with life I'm all over it.

    So I wonder if there is anything counter to that when it comes to younger guys. Maybe naivety and innocence.. not quite sure of them self yet. I dunno. It's intriguing. Of course that's just me musing over something that may just be lust for young blood after all... icon_lol.gif


    I think there is much to be said for the naivety, and yes innocence - what I really find attractive about most younger guys, the exuberance, willingness to do something sontaneous.
  • Karl

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    Jun 09, 2012 3:18 AM GMT
    xsocalguy8x saidAnd I am lucky since I look young bc I'm Asian, some younger dudes like me, too.

    This is a gift which God gave us for free icon_wink.gif
    Look at my profile picture , who could believe Im 20 ? icon_cry.gif

    Sometimes I feel bad when being ignored by older guys but now it's ok.

    TheBizMan saidWhen I get with older guys I sometimes wonder what they are thinking.

    Edit: Like if they think I'm naive or something... and if there is some sort of allure or appeal because of that.

    you're not naive at all icon_evil.gif
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    Jun 09, 2012 3:23 AM GMT
    I'm 31 and still prefer older guys. I make exceptions on a case by case basis, but anything less than 5 yrs is way too young. Likewise, I don't get it when someone 15+ years older than me gets pissed off when I say that I would like someone closer to my age.
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    Jun 09, 2012 4:48 AM GMT
    There are older guy threads because it's common to like young guys, and easier to list the exceptions than talk about what everyone already thinks.
    IRL younger guys are in higher demand, make no mistake.
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    Jun 09, 2012 5:41 AM GMT
    thank god someone made a thread for us negelcted younger guys. We never get any play, just like white guys, rich guys and guys between 6'0 and 6'3

    we also need a thread for guys who still have all their hair. Thanks for sticking up for the underdogs.
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    Jun 09, 2012 5:45 AM GMT


    huhwhat saidI'm 31 and still prefer older guys. I make exceptions on a case by case basis, but anything less than 5 yrs is way too young. Likewise, I don't get it when someone 15+ years older than me gets pissed off when I say that I would like someone closer to my age.


    1. For the record - I was not implying that BizMan is Naive.. I don't even know that Naive is a word I would use.. unspoiled? Time has a way of building walls in people, sometimes they don't even realize it's happened. Younger guys, haven't yet made that trek, there is accessibility on an emotional level that is rare later in life. I am probably mutilating this.

    For me, especially when I first came out, even though I was 44, I might as well have been 17 because that is where my experience in such things ended. To be sure, I was far more financially responsible - still raising a teenage Daughter (I got custody) but when it came to dating - I was woefully unprepared.

    I actually tried reaching out to guys my age, but given that my only level of contact was Internet sites like Manhunt and sites like it, I was a deer in the headlights. I'd like to say it was comical, but it wasn't. The first guy I met was 43, and said he was new to it all, I thought I got insanely lucky.. lol well, I met him for dinner, and at the end of the evening he slides a room key across the table.. I was floored, sex on the first date? Really? LOL Well, it took me 30 seconds to figure what the hell, gotta get this going sooner or later.

    It was awkward, he turned out to be what I would later learn was a "Bossy bottom", when we were done - he beat feet. I found out the next day he was cheating on his wife. She answered his phone.

    Then there was the 43 year old who worked in college admisions. He had no interest in dating, or really even knowing my last name, a "power bottom" it was fun, I learned a lot from him - even at one point fell pretty hard for him. Then I learned I was a "fuck buddy", and that was all it would ever be. LOL I had a guy hit me up one night asking if I "PNP", I thought it was a computer game.. after Googling it I blocked him.

    Man.. I was a clueless mess.

    I was all hell bent on finding a man, wanted an LTR - it was what I knew. Struck out in every attempt.. well clever man, it says "Get on and get off." Eventually I made some friends my age.. and after a number of really bad "set ups" I decided I was done trying. I'd been hit on by one young guy after another, and I politely turned them down up until then. Yeah enough of that.

    So.. I decided the next one to ask - I was all in. Turned out to be a 24 year old Med student, who rocked my world. We had an outstanding chemistry right from jump street, together we things I never dreamt of. It wasn't exclusive, at that point I was good with that.

    Over the next few years I met some of the greatest guys I've ever known at clubs, party's - the answer was yes.. so easy. Then, I messed up. I met a 26 year old nurse that stole my heart. I never saw it coming, and I panicked. I broke it off with him, mainly because I didn't trust that it could last.. what I really didn't trust was that I could be enough. I couldn't face the prospect of getting hurt down the road. Dumbass. I have regretted it ever since. I was a total coward. I owed it to him, owed it to me to see where it went. It was my loss.

    I took myself out of circulation for about a year after that. Over that year, I spent a lot of time thinking about him, wishing I had chosen differently. Nobody can beat me up like I can. I went back to keeping it simple. It isn't a sound long term plan, but I have decided the next guy who is crazy enough to fall in love with me - I am going to throw caution to the wind and make him very happy that he did.

    The irony here is you would think naivety is exclusive to the young. For some of us, even at our chronological age - parts of us are still painfully naive.
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    Jun 09, 2012 5:59 AM GMT
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    Jun 09, 2012 6:15 AM GMT
    DEKIRUMAN saidthank god someone made a thread for us negelcted younger guys. We never get any play, just like white guys, rich guys and guys between 6'0 and 6'3

    we also need a thread for guys who still have all their hair. Thanks for sticking up for the underdogs.


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    Jun 09, 2012 6:18 AM GMT
    SkinnyBitch saidThere are older guy threads because it's common to like young guys, and easier to list the exceptions than talk about what everyone already thinks.
    IRL younger guys are in higher demand, make no mistake.


    I dunno about that, my friends and I gay and straight are in very high demand we've all noticed how all of a sudden being in our 40's attracts youngings of all sexuality.

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    Jun 09, 2012 6:18 AM GMT
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    DEKIRUMAN saidthank god someone made a thread for us negelcted younger guys. We never get any play, just like white guys, rich guys and guys between 6'0 and 6'3

    we also need a thread for guys who still have all their hair. Thanks for sticking up for the underdogs.


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  • crush09

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    Jun 09, 2012 6:24 AM GMT
    ummm..... And what exactly is the age cut off for "younger guys"???? icon_question.gifwink:icon_eek.gif
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    Jun 09, 2012 6:25 AM GMT
    To be honest, I am only attracted to guys 18 to 23. After that, it makes me feel like a daddy chaser.
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    Jun 09, 2012 6:31 AM GMT
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    SkinnyBitch saidThere are older guy threads because it's common to like young guys, and easier to list the exceptions than talk about what everyone already thinks.
    IRL younger guys are in higher demand, make no mistake.


    I dunno about that, my friends and I gay and straight are in very high demand we've all noticed how all of a sudden being in our 40's attracts youngings of all sexuality.

    That's cuz you're on the bottom of the world, everything's opposite there. Did you know Summer is starting soon up here? crazy rite?
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    Jun 09, 2012 6:49 AM GMT
    I like younger guys, and guys up to my age too.

    I've always been a bit of a culture vulture, and one thing I like about hanging out with younger guys, is I feel like I am being pulled into what is new and happening, something that is missing a lot of times when I date guys my age. I like a younger guys energy, optimism (I wouldn't call it naivety), and I usually feel more connected to things and I get more inspired on my own endeavors.

    It's also nice to think that your experience and possibly connections can help a younger guy out. But I have rarely actually had a younger guy take any of my advice lol.

    Notice that nothing I said was about dick or ass, though that can of course be nice too.

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    Jun 09, 2012 6:55 AM GMT
    dontknowwhy saidTo be honest, I am only attracted to guys 18 to 23. After that, it makes me feel like a daddy chaser.

    I'm going to be 24 soon.
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    Jun 09, 2012 7:00 AM GMT
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    northoz said
    SkinnyBitch saidThere are older guy threads because it's common to like young guys, and easier to list the exceptions than talk about what everyone already thinks.
    IRL younger guys are in higher demand, make no mistake.


    I dunno about that, my friends and I gay and straight are in very high demand we've all noticed how all of a sudden being in our 40's attracts youngings of all sexuality.

    That's cuz you're on the bottom of the world, everything's opposite there. Did you know Summer is starting soon up here? crazy rite?


    lol

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    Jun 09, 2012 7:05 AM GMT
    You don't want us, we're a hot mess. icon_neutral.gif