Super flirt when drinking

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    Jul 28, 2008 12:35 PM GMT
    My partner and I have been in a monogamous relationship for over 10 years.
    We have a close friend that we have known for about 4 years named Joe who's a great guy. Very slender, fit, good looking, fun to hang out with and go mountain biking with.

    Now Joe says his straight, jokes that he's bi-sexual and admits to having been with a couple of guys- bj's only.

    Thing is, when he gets drinking, he gets really, really flirty. He'll start grabbing my ass and crotch. He'll get right up to close to our faces as if to kiss and pull away. He made out with a friend of ours at one of our parties, much to our shock and our gay friends.

    Last night, we had to take away his keys because he had drunk too much. When everyone was gone, I threw a blanket and pillow on the couch and wished him good night. He already had his shirt of (me drooling). He took off his pants and start dry humping us and show us his ass.

    My partner and I are gentlemen and resisted, forced him to bed, locked out bedroom door, and said good night.

    We chatted about what almost happened, the angel on one shoulder says leave it alone while the horny devil on the other says if he wants it give it to him.
    Just thinking about it makes me hard as rock. What to do!
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    Jul 28, 2008 3:42 PM GMT
    LOL, you are a stronger man that I am because I would have given it to him! icon_lol.gif Especially if I had been drinking too because I get super horny then. icon_redface.gif
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    Jul 28, 2008 3:52 PM GMT
    If he, and more importantly, you and your partner, wants it, give it! LOL
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    Jul 28, 2008 4:30 PM GMT
    I say, "Hells No!" Stay away.

    It's a recipe for disaster. Let him experiment with others. It will only change your and your partner's friendship with him. Besides, would it be worth it when he totally freaks out and/or doesn't like it? Worse, what if he's really into it and wants just to be with you and your boyfriend? My point is, there are way too many possibilities.

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    Jul 28, 2008 4:32 PM GMT
    hump him noaw!
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    Jul 28, 2008 5:48 PM GMT
    have a chat with him when he,s sober
    see what he has to say for himself
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    Jul 28, 2008 6:24 PM GMT
    wasted guys who make an ass of themselves are such a complete turnoff!
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    Jul 28, 2008 6:31 PM GMT
    It sounds like you may have already discussed the issue with him. We ALL (despite what danielryan says) at one point have made and ass of ourselves or flirted with those that we normally wouldn't when sober. Don't get caught up in how attractive, intelligent and funny your guy is. Obviously he's very comfortable with you and your partner to be flitasious. I'm sure he loves the attention. Talk to him about how he makes the two of you feel, and if you all end up hooking up, great. If not, oh well. But I wouldn't do anyting to break up the awesome relationship that it sounds like you all have.
  • auryn

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    Jul 28, 2008 6:48 PM GMT
    You and your partner should have the gay sex in front of him to remind him why gay butt sex is bad. He'll learn his lesson and never try to seduce you guys when he's drunk again.
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    Jul 28, 2008 8:10 PM GMT
    LOL!! I love intoxicated straight guys.

    I have had my fair share of them, and it gets more and more fun everytime. Here are some of my adventures:

    1) Straight, super hott punker dude, intoxicated beyond all belief at a friends party. One of my girls told him that i thought he was hott. He took it to the next level and took me outside to make out on the porch. We didnt tell any of our friends. But there are pictures of it! hahaa!

    2) My big party at my house. A guy in the Army totally gets crazy when hes drunk. Although this time around I dont know what caused it, but we made out and some other stuff on my stairs while some fellow onlookers watched! haha....

    3) At work, my new co-worker was always making fun of me and making stupid gay jokes....but at the same time he always had a tendency to touch me. Whether it be a pinch, a slap on the back or to purpousely bump into me. So I approached him about it in the back when we both happened to be back there at the same time. After I asked him if he was gay, he said no, then stood there, looked at me for a moment almost confused. And then proceeded to launch himself into me against a wall, and we began to make out. icon_smile.gif

    4) I had just come out to my guy friends and they were pretty good about it, saying if anyone fucked with me they had my back. I spent the night that night cuz i was too drunk and my best friend kept asking me why did i want to be gay? And whats it like, typical straight guy questions about homosexuality. Basically I talked to him about it while we were drinking in his room, and I told him about sex with a guy, and he randomly got hard, and the rest is history! haha!


    However the case here was, I was single. But, if you AND your boo are totally cool with it! I say DO IT!! haha, nothing is better then getting the straight guys. So hott....
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    Jul 28, 2008 8:49 PM GMT
    danielryan saidwasted guys who make an ass of themselves are such a complete turnoff!


    I agree, whether they are straight or gay. Stay away from the guy, you are just asking for trouble if you have sex with him.
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    Jul 28, 2008 10:29 PM GMT
    Alec_Brandon saidSnip...
    We have a close friend that we have known for about 4 years named Joe who's a great guy. Very slender, fit, good looking, fun to hang out with and go mountain biking with.

    Now Joe says his straight, jokes that he's bi-sexual and admits to having been with a couple of guys- bj's only.

    Thing is, when he gets drinking, he gets really, really flirty. He'll start grabbing my ass and crotch. He'll get right up to close to our faces as if to kiss and pull away. He made out with a friend of ours at one of our parties, much to our shock and our gay friends.

    ...He took off his pants and start dry humping us and show us his ass.

    My partner and I are gentlemen and resisted, forced him to bed, locked out bedroom door, and said good night.

    We chatted about what almost happened, the angel on one shoulder says leave it alone while the horny devil on the other says if he wants it give it to him.
    Just thinking about it makes me hard as rock. What to do!


    Maybe look more deeply into his situation?

    I have a work/social friend who is decidely gay. Everyone who meets him believes so - including another friend who kissed him when he was too drunk to remember, which is actually the point here. My friend is rather overtly gay about 10 minutes before he passes out. Knowing his religious upbringing and his parents, I don't think he will ever be able to accept it, certainly not while his parents are alive. I've very matter-of-factly made this known to him a couple of times but never pressed the point, partly because I believe if he actually did stay conscious long enough to have sex with a man, he'd be a suicide risk following.

    This may not be the case with your friend, but I would certainly look at the background and motivation of his actions compared to the near-term consequences he will have to deal with.

    On the other hand, are you willing to end a 10 year monogamous commitment on a one-time fling with a drunk guy?
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    Jul 28, 2008 10:40 PM GMT
    he he wont do you sober, don't do him drunk!

    I have mates who when they get drunk they get very physical with me, there hands are all over me and they even start getting jealous of each other when I'm not paying them all enough attention hahaha.

    Do you have any idea how hard it is for a straight guy, theres so much there not allowed to do, touching each other is completely out of bounds unless your playing sports, your not allowed to love another guy, you can't mess with them, gawd, your not allowed to just hug another guy.

    My mates are straight, yeah, I know most of them are curious and would like to know more about it, but they don't pursue it either by choice, fear, what ever.

    But at the edn of the day I would NEVER do anything with them while there drunk, they trust me enough to know too that I would NEVER do anything, yeah they get touchy and loving, they grab be, try to kiss me and all that shit, but there my mates and they trust me enough to know I wont push them into something they wouldn't want.

    So leave the guy alone, if he really wants it, he'll come to you sober!