Worried about boyfriend going to rave...

  • aig565

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    Jun 09, 2012 2:10 PM GMT
    I've been seeing this guy for 1.5 months now. He's a little on the dramatic side but I really like him. One of the key things is that his libido isn't crazy and we haven't even had sex yet.

    Yesterday, he left for EDC, which is a giant rave in Vegas. He'll be going to the raves with one of his galpals. Now, normally I would trust him but he brought along some mollies and shrooms... My main concern is that other guys are grinding on him so I guess my question is:

    For you guys who do go to these rave things frequently... are there enough gay men there for my fear to be plausible or am I just being paranoid?
  • calibro

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    Jun 09, 2012 3:38 PM GMT
    considering you're a sock account, your boyfriend is a sock too... so problem solved
  • tuffguyndc

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    Jun 09, 2012 3:41 PM GMT
    lol you have been together over a month and you two have not had sex? why the hell are you still with him? if ain't giving it to you than you need to go and get it from someone else. how is it that you guys put yourself into these type of situations. i know the dating pool is really shallow but damn!
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    Jun 09, 2012 4:45 PM GMT
    aig565 saidI've been seeing this guy for 1.5 months now. He's a little on the dramatic side but I really like him. One of the key things is that his libido isn't crazy and we haven't even had sex yet.

    Yesterday, he left for EDC, which is a giant rave in Vegas. He'll be going to the raves with one of his galpals. Now, normally I would trust him but he brought along some mollies and shrooms... My main concern is that other guys are grinding on him so I guess my question is:

    For you guys who do go to these rave things frequently... are there enough gay men there for my fear to be plausible or am I just being paranoid?


    Be afraid. Be very afraid. If your BF is cute, he will be getting TONS of action - which may explain why his libido is already spent when he gets with u.

    1.5 months together and no sex? Not a good sign bro!
  • waccamatt

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    Jun 09, 2012 4:51 PM GMT
    catfish5 said
    aig565 saidI've been seeing this guy for 1.5 months now. He's a little on the dramatic side but I really like him. One of the key things is that his libido isn't crazy and we haven't even had sex yet.

    Yesterday, he left for EDC, which is a giant rave in Vegas. He'll be going to the raves with one of his galpals. Now, normally I would trust him but he brought along some mollies and shrooms... My main concern is that other guys are grinding on him so I guess my question is:

    For you guys who do go to these rave things frequently... are there enough gay men there for my fear to be plausible or am I just being paranoid?


    Be afraid. Be very afraid. If your BF is cute, he will be getting TONS of action - which may explain why his libido is already spent when he gets with u.

    1.5 months together and no sex? Not a good sign bro!


    Exactly; cut your losses and move on.
  • jboy84

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    Jun 09, 2012 5:12 PM GMT
    Will someone tell me what libido is?
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    Jun 09, 2012 5:20 PM GMT
    jboy84 saidWill someone tell me what libido is?


    Sex drive
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    Jun 09, 2012 6:22 PM GMT
    You don't have a BF so no worries. Where did he get the shrooms?
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    Jun 09, 2012 6:24 PM GMT
    I don't think it's a big deal you haven't had sex yet. Unless he's been wanting it from you. In that case you've only got yourself to blame if he does get it on with someone.
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    Jun 09, 2012 6:26 PM GMT
    jboy84 saidWill someone tell me what libido is?


    Isn't it some kind of dog?
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    Jun 09, 2012 6:29 PM GMT
    aig565 said... he brought along some mollies and shrooms... ...


    Why is he bringing an aquarium and Portobellos with him?
  • Hunter9

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    Jun 09, 2012 6:34 PM GMT
    aig565 saidMy main concern is that other guys are grinding on him so I guess my question is


    The music at EDC is not grinding type music... if you want to be worried about something, worry that he's going to be hugged to death
  • Beeftastic

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    Jun 09, 2012 7:14 PM GMT
    What are MOLLIES? icon_confused.gif
  • paramoore

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    Jun 09, 2012 7:17 PM GMT
    Amphetamines.
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    Jun 09, 2012 7:19 PM GMT
    aig565 saidI've been seeing this guy for 1.5 months now. He's a little on the dramatic side but I really like him. One of the key things is that his libido isn't crazy and we haven't even had sex yet.

    Yesterday, he left for EDC, which is a giant rave in Vegas. He'll be going to the raves with one of his galpals. Now, normally I would trust him but he brought along some mollies and shrooms... My main concern is that other guys are grinding on him so I guess my question is:

    For you guys who do go to these rave things frequently... are there enough gay men there for my fear to be plausible or am I just being paranoid?


    I have to agree with the majority here, DANGER WILL ROBINSON,1.5 months no sex? Did you meet at a church day camp? 2nd perhaps BIG red flag.. Drugs + dramma?? = cut losses and keep shopping, bigger trouble ahead.
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    Jun 09, 2012 7:20 PM GMT
    Blah...guy I am seeing is going too...
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    Jun 09, 2012 7:23 PM GMT
    Im going too. Lots of sex starved BFs to be had!!!
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    Jun 09, 2012 7:24 PM GMT
    Hm, thankfully mine doesn't like old dudes
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    Jun 09, 2012 7:32 PM GMT
    7Famark saidHm, thankfully mine doesn't like old dudes
    Old dudes do this:
    "Sometimes I feel a little bit "different" because I'd rather spend a quiet, relaxed night with friends over going out and getting crazy."

    sound remotely familiar?
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    Jun 09, 2012 7:33 PM GMT
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    7Famark saidHm, thankfully mine doesn't like old dudes
    Old dudes do this:
    "Sometimes I feel a little bit "different" because I'd rather spend a quiet, relaxed night with friends over going out and getting crazy."

    sound remotely familiar?


    Hmm, yeah it does. I wonder why...oh yeah, because he does that with me, and enjoys it...because I'm not ancient, nor do I hit on people in relationships. How shitty of me.
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    Jun 09, 2012 7:45 PM GMT
    7Famark saidHm, thankfully mine doesn't like old dudes


    Dont worry. Ill be gentle. Daddy dont leave marks when he hit it with them youngins.
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    7Famark saidHm, thankfully mine doesn't like old dudes


    Dont worry. Ill be gentle. Daddy dont leave marks when he hit it with them youngins.


    Pretty sure that would be considered rape, but hey - more power to you.
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    Jun 09, 2012 7:46 PM GMT
    7Famark said
    TropicalMark said
    7Famark saidHm, thankfully mine doesn't like old dudes
    Old dudes do this:
    "Sometimes I feel a little bit "different" because I'd rather spend a quiet, relaxed night with friends over going out and getting crazy."

    sound remotely familiar?


    Hmm, yeah it does. I wonder why...oh yeah, because he does that with me, and enjoys it...because I'm not ancient, nor do I hit on people in relationships. How shitty of me.
    Have you clicked on YOUR profile lately?icon_wink.gif
  • paramoore

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    Jun 09, 2012 7:46 PM GMT
    Girls, settle down; you're both pretty.
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    Jun 09, 2012 7:47 PM GMT
    TropicalMark said
    7Famark said
    TropicalMark said
    7Famark saidHm, thankfully mine doesn't like old dudes
    Old dudes do this:
    "Sometimes I feel a little bit "different" because I'd rather spend a quiet, relaxed night with friends over going out and getting crazy."

    sound remotely familiar?


    Hmm, yeah it does. I wonder why...oh yeah, because he does that with me, and enjoys it...because I'm not ancient, nor do I hit on people in relationships. How shitty of me.
    Have you clicked on YOUR profile lately?icon_wink.gif


    I am aware that it is from my profile, what I don't understand is why...if that is how I spend most of my time with him, and he is not and has never been attracted to older men...why that would hold any relevance?