Got a gym date tonight .... help :/

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    Jun 11, 2012 12:30 PM GMT
    im been talking to this guy for a couple of weeks and decided to go on a date, thing is were both quite busy and the gym is something we both enjoy, this is first time im meeting him but problem is

    what do i wear, i dont want to be too revealing slut like by wearing too much of a tight or tank, although dont want to cover up much

    also my mate said the gym date is the horniest date you can go on, as both sweating and testosterone flying about

    just really nervous and need some tips etc obviously hard to chat about stuff in the gym
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    Jun 11, 2012 12:42 PM GMT
    Most retarded post in the last week. Thank you. How are you an adult? Don't know what to wear on a date? Then don't go on a date. Or go nude. Or wear clothes. Or wear something your comfortable in.
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    Jun 11, 2012 12:48 PM GMT
    wow thanks fella , dont worry about it , cheers for being so truthful
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    Jun 11, 2012 12:52 PM GMT
    I'm curious to hear how your gym date went?
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    Jun 11, 2012 12:55 PM GMT
    Actually just realised its tonight lol.

    Fill us in on how it went.

    I say wear what you normally wear to the gym (you prob look hot in anything from seeing your pics) but make sure you spray yourself with some nice aftershave so you smell nice lol.

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    Jun 11, 2012 12:56 PM GMT
    ill keep you informed, for a second i thought i was a gimp for putting this post up , but just wanted some advice as only even been on one date as recently came out, but this is my first gym date, will let you know fella
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    Jun 11, 2012 1:01 PM GMT
    Not a gimp at all. I think this a great place to ask questions (no matter how silly some people may think they are)

    I wouldn't know what to wear either. I say stick with the casual shorts and t-shirt but go with what you feel comfortable with.

    You are HOT. I'm sure the other guy will be falling all over you lol
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    Jun 11, 2012 2:18 PM GMT
    smartmoney saidMost retarded post in the last week. Thank you. How are you an adult? Don't know what to wear on a date? Then don't go on a date. Or go nude. Or wear clothes. Or wear something your comfortable in.


    This dude seems like a real nice guy. What a productive insightful post.
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    Jun 11, 2012 2:20 PM GMT
    smartmoney saidMost retarded post in the last week. Thank you. How are you an adult? Don't know what to wear on a date? Then don't go on a date. Or go nude. Or wear clothes. Or wear something your comfortable in.


    So much irony that you asked him if HE was an adult. Most adults wouldn't use the word 'retard' and can differentiate between 'your and you're.'


    gymfreak1987 - goodluck man. Just be normal, down to earth. He's probably feeling the same as you.
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    Jun 11, 2012 2:22 PM GMT
    THIS
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    And make sure to bring those plier things
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    Jun 11, 2012 2:25 PM GMT
    gym date? I cant imagine anything worse. Well maybe a funeral date. That would be worse. But you get to wear black and black is slimming so it has an upside. And the post funeral reception usually is open bar and has free food so the overall cost is low.

    Im guessing if you are both so busy you cant carve out time for a date, the relationship isnt going to be very fulfilling.
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    Jun 11, 2012 2:26 PM GMT
    my thoughts: you want to be yourself and feel relaxed, as dates can make anyone anxious. you don't want to be too self-conscious of your clothes. wear what you normally wear to the gym, even if its baggy trackies and a threadbare t-shirt.

    you already have an awesome body and a big frame, so you don't need to amplify it too much with revealing sports wear. this is not the time to pull out the stringer tank with tiny jogging shorts, or the neon lycra unitard.

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    Jun 11, 2012 2:29 PM GMT
    Dallasfan824 saidgym date? I cant imagine anything worse. Well maybe a funeral date. That would be worse. But you get to wear black and black is slimming so it has an upside. And the post funeral reception usually is open bar and has free food so the overall cost is low.

    Im guessing if you are both so busy you cant carve out time for a date, the relationship isnt going to be very fulfilling.


    I don't know if its the worst but it's a little odd to call meeting at a gym a "date" Could be his bud has found a way to check out the goods before he invests icon_smile.gif
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    Jun 11, 2012 2:30 PM GMT
    creonxxx said
    Dallasfan824 saidgym date? I cant imagine anything worse. Well maybe a funeral date. That would be worse. But you get to wear black and black is slimming so it has an upside. And the post funeral reception usually is open bar and has free food so the overall cost is low.

    Im guessing if you are both so busy you cant carve out time for a date, the relationship isnt going to be very fulfilling.


    I don't know if its the worst but it's a little odd to call meeting at a gym a "date" Could be his bud has found a way to check out the goods before he invests icon_smile.gif


    Clever! I hadnt thought of that.
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    Jun 11, 2012 2:33 PM GMT
    Dallasfan824 said
    creonxxx said
    Dallasfan824 saidgym date? I cant imagine anything worse. Well maybe a funeral date. That would be worse. But you get to wear black and black is slimming so it has an upside. And the post funeral reception usually is open bar and has free food so the overall cost is low.

    Im guessing if you are both so busy you cant carve out time for a date, the relationship isnt going to be very fulfilling.


    I don't know if its the worst but it's a little odd to call meeting at a gym a "date" Could be his bud has found a way to check out the goods before he invests icon_smile.gif


    Clever! I hadnt thought of that.


    I know I was thinking the same thing. Sorta serves it's purpse LOL
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    Jun 11, 2012 2:39 PM GMT
    I think a gym date is a good idea.

    Question is, will it make it past the YCYL censor?
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    Jun 11, 2012 2:45 PM GMT
    I can imagine your dilemma. Definitely wear something that's a little tight (i.e. don't wear too loose clothing) and that shows off your muscles.

    Also, it may not be the best idea to work out too strenuously (a little bit of sweat maybe nice, but sweating profusely cannot be attractive).
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    Jun 11, 2012 2:47 PM GMT
    smartmoney saidMost retarded post in the last week. Thank you. How are you an adult? Don't know what to wear on a date? Then don't go on a date. Or go nude. Or wear clothes. Or wear something your comfortable in.

    Did you forget to take your GABA? I'm worried about your blood pressure when you come on these forums. icon_wink.gif

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    Jun 11, 2012 2:48 PM GMT
    smartmoney saidMost retarded post in the last week. Thank you. How are you an adult? Don't know what to wear on a date? Then don't go on a date. Or go nude. Or wear clothes. Or wear something your comfortable in.

    Did you forget to take your GABA? I'm worried about your blood pressure when you come on these forums. icon_wink.gif

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    Jun 11, 2012 3:42 PM GMT
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    Jun 11, 2012 4:00 PM GMT
    I love gym dates. I have gone on a lot of them.

    I am a trainer so everyone will say "Lets work out sometime" to me and I accept! It is a great foot in the door and less threatening than dinner or drinks. It is a shared activity, and men like getting to know each other in shared activities (IMHO)

    So you get there and wear CLEAN clothes. normal shorts or warm up pants, a tight tee shirt, but one with sleeves (unless you have awesome serratus and abs and then show it off a little)

    Decide on the body part you are training.... lets say "shoulders"... and you say, '

    "Listen, why dont you pick the first thing we will do, and then I will pick the next one and so on and so forth until we are done!!" - this takes away any dominance thing... you take turns training each other

    When you are done and there are tons of endorphins and testosterone is high, you can casually say, "I am starving now!! Let's go over to _____ and get one of their burgers/chicken pizzas/burritos/big salads?" It is a sure fire way to have a continuation and you are flowing with goodwill when you get to the restaurant!

    I love gym dates... they are the best!! More than anything else, have fun and enjoy your workout because that will take the pressure off of both of you and when relaxed, I guarantee you will have a great time!
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    Jun 11, 2012 4:05 PM GMT
    Nothing wrong with a gym date - - - I've had those sometimes. Here's what worked for me: Just wear regular shorts & a regular t-shirt (but nothing new!) Anything new is not so good, but just something clean, and if your shirt has anything written on it, just use your judgement about what that would be (nothing controversial or political, anything that might annoy your date). Best thing about a gym date is you can both shower up afterward, and change into street clothes - and head out for some dinner / lunch - whatever - - and you'll both be fresh and pumped for a great time.
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    Jun 11, 2012 4:06 PM GMT
    Just be yourself and do and wear what you normally would for your workouts. What's the point of a date if you can't be yourself. Hopefully your " date " will do the same. See how the workout goes and go from there. Good Luck!
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    Jun 11, 2012 4:09 PM GMT
    gymfreak1987 saidim been talking to this guy for a couple of weeks and decided to go on a date, thing is were both quite busy and the gym is something we both enjoy, this is first time im meeting him but problem is

    what do i wear, i dont want to be too revealing slut like by wearing too much of a tight or tank, although dont want to cover up much

    also my mate said the gym date is the horniest date you can go on, as both sweating and testosterone flying about

    just really nervous and need some tips etc obviously hard to chat about stuff in the gym


    Love gym dates. Especially if the other guy is about your same strength (if he's not, it can get kinda awkward haha).

    A tank top doesn't seem too trampy. Just a normal gray or black tank and some gym shorts would be fine. It's what I typically wear to the gym anyway.

    And your friend is half right. It can be a pretty erotic date, but only if there's already some connection haha. If you don't already have chemistry in person, then seeing him sweaty and panting isn't going to help.
  • billy321

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    Jun 11, 2012 4:20 PM GMT
    Gym/activity dates are good, it will let conversation will be less awkward and more relaxed...'activity dates' can be fun! Wear your comfortable workout clothes, relax and enjoy yourself!