I don't see why people that are potential friends should care - if they do, who wants friends that shallow.
But ya, the gay community definitly has a warped body image. I think the straight community's version of the ideal man doesn't follow far behind only that straight men don't seem to buy into it quite as readily as gay men do.
So common to see emaciated gay men termed "muscular" or the like when really, they have no more muscle mass than a 14 year old boy - they've just starved themslves into complete hard lines
Personally, I find men that look more solid attractive, but when I do see a guy that is truely muscular AND has abs I can appreciate the effort that it requires to achieve that sort of physique. Most gay men don't fall into that category though - they're just emaciated.