The Guy I like is moving away...

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    Jun 12, 2012 3:13 AM GMT
    This Guy I really fell for is moving away. I see him everyday and by this time next week he'll be gone and it sucks. Don't know why I created a topic on this but I just thought I'd share. I guess its one way to get over someone. Any similar stories from you guys?
  • TheAlchemixt

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    Jun 12, 2012 4:29 AM GMT
    Don't worry you'll end up liking someone else soon enough.
  • masculumpedes

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    Jun 12, 2012 4:31 AM GMT
    Happened to me more than once....the thing to think about is how did he feel about you? icon_wink.gif
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    Jun 12, 2012 4:33 AM GMT
    malefeet saidHappened to me more than once....the thing to think about is how did he feel about you? icon_wink.gif

    I never asked icon_sad.gif I don't know if that's a good idea. As a friend I hope he thought I was a good person.
  • nomadfornow

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    Jun 12, 2012 4:35 AM GMT
    I've been there, man. I know the feeling. This popped into my head.



    Hang in there, brother.
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    Jun 12, 2012 4:35 AM GMT
    Aw, that sucks for you. Be happy you were given the opportunity to have these types of feelings, though unfulfilled. It'll happen again for you.
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    Jun 12, 2012 4:38 AM GMT
    sanjose470 said
    malefeet saidHappened to me more than once....the thing to think about is how did he feel about you? icon_wink.gif

    I never asked icon_sad.gif I don't know if that's a good idea. As a friend I hope he thought I was a good person.


    I have always heard that "People come into and out of your life, and you are better off for having shared a small part of their life". While I realize there are exceptions, what gift more precious could someone give you than part of his time and attention? We all only have a finite amount. icon_wink.gif
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    Jun 12, 2012 4:48 AM GMT
    We're in the same city. Sorry to hear about your friend leaving but just know that a lot of us have been through this. You can try to stay in touch with e-mail and phones, and you can try to visit him in his new city - - if it isn't too far.

    It is true that people come and go from our lives. Some we wish would stay. I remember some great guys from my college years - 30 years ago - and I still think of them now & then.......wonder where they are and what they're up to. Even though I miss a few of them, I'm a better person for having spent some years with them. I try to keep in mind some of the lessons I learned from them. Hope this helps you too.
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    Jun 12, 2012 5:00 AM GMT
    thanks. i joined rj in dec and i told myself that 2012 was when i would open up and try to be the person i feel i should be. be more outgoing, approachable, talkative, etc. i was always fearful actually going up to guys and talking to them so i just stood back and let them pass me by. this guy was the first i actually built up the courage to talk to. since then we have been pretty close. just my luck he moves, right? i did learn alot from him and from myself so its not all bad i guess.
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    Jun 12, 2012 5:06 AM GMT
    sanjose470 saidThis Guy I really fell for is moving away. I see him everyday and by this time next week he'll be gone and it sucks. Don't know why I created a topic on this but I just thought I'd share. I guess its one way to get over someone. Any similar stories from you guys?


    you should def kys
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    Jun 12, 2012 5:08 AM GMT
    breatheonme said
    sanjose470 saidThis Guy I really fell for is moving away. I see him everyday and by this time next week he'll be gone and it sucks. Don't know why I created a topic on this but I just thought I'd share. I guess its one way to get over someone. Any similar stories from you guys?


    you should def kys

    kys? i think i have an idea what that means but im not gunna assume
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    Jun 12, 2012 5:17 AM GMT
    You should run to him and confess your love asap, either he will reciprocate or think that you're creepy/weird (just kidding)icon_lol.gif. People come and go in your life. When I moved back to LA area about 3 months ago from SF, I suspected a gay guy friend that like me a lot, he just never got the nerves to say anything. It'd never work though, he works too much and I don't like workaholics, I know him too well. We still keep in touch.

    Move on, go out, date more and get over him, good luck buddy. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jun 12, 2012 5:44 AM GMT
    [quote]You should run to him and confess your love asap[/quote]
    hehe i dont think he needs that a week before he leaves. great advice though
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    Jun 12, 2012 7:10 AM GMT
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tQVgZzx_SqI
  • calibro

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    Jun 12, 2012 1:18 PM GMT
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    Jun 12, 2012 3:43 PM GMT
    Yep, same situation here, he's leaving in August icon_sad.gif
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    Jul 13, 2012 4:14 AM GMT
    and hes gone. time to move on...
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    Jul 13, 2012 12:52 PM GMT
    u r lucky bcoz he move,i used to fall 4 a str8 guy and we work in the same company,somehow he date this girl Ashley or watever,after a fre months Ashley tell me she is that str8 dude 's girlfren and i should back off(she indicated)icon_eek.gif,i felt so ashamed of myself and i quit the job a few months later.