How to Approach a Rugged God.

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    Jun 13, 2012 1:47 PM GMT
    Driving to work, I drove past the company on the corner of our building that I've driven past a thousand times and I couldn't help notice the most strikingly handsome, rugged young man I have seen in a long time. He was loading some tanks onto a pickup truck. I kept driving to work, but I couldn't get him off my mind so I walked out and headed over to where he was.

    He was still loading the truck so I kind of asked him what they were doing, pretending I was just walking by and interested in what they were doing and was not there for him.

    Well, he explained what they were working on, but after he was done, he kind of looked away with a slight seriousness. He was polite, but the seriousness seemed to tell me I wasn't fooling him and he really knew why I was there, but was not really interested, or he was Str8 and realized I liked him and was slightly bothered.

    Anyway, I have not been able to stop thinking of him, his handsome face and muscles. What should I do?!!!

    Should I pretend to be going for a daily walk around the building just to see if I can see him on a daily basis and strike up polite conversation each time? Or just say a quick Hi when I walk by so as not to be too obvious or pushy?

    After a few times I was thinking of throwing in a "So what do you guys do for lunch around here?" or something to try to see if he wouldn't mind getting a bite to eat with me or hanging out.

    It seems that most Rugged Gods are Str8 or if they're Gay, they go for other Rugged Boys.

    Even if this is the case, I don't want to just give up without at least trying. I'd do anything to be with him.

    Any suggestions on how to approach him without turning him or scaring him off would be appreciated.




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    Jun 13, 2012 1:55 PM GMT
    Grindr or say "Hey, want to fuck?"
  • bburg34

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    Jun 13, 2012 1:55 PM GMT
    Talk about them, and ask what they are interested in. People love attention.
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    Jun 13, 2012 1:58 PM GMT
    JPtheBITCH saidYou approach him and say the following:

    "I just met you, and this is crazy
    But here's my number, so call me, maybe?"


    LOL, lately your posts have gotten really funny
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    Jun 13, 2012 2:16 PM GMT
    LIEV saidGrindr or say "Hey, want to fuck?"

    Trust me, I'd love to get to point, but I think I should tread more carefully on this one.
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    Jun 13, 2012 2:18 PM GMT
    GreenHopper said
    JPtheBITCH saidYou approach him and say the following:

    "I just met you, and this is crazy
    But here's my number, so call me, maybe?"


    LOL, lately your posts have gotten really funny


    ^^^^ icon_razz.gif
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    Jun 13, 2012 2:20 PM GMT
    Try talking to him. What do you have to lose!
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    Jun 13, 2012 2:31 PM GMT
    Plan A:

    Chat the guy up and drop a few well-timed and well placed feathers and see where it goes. Worst thing he'll do is not pick up on the cues, or make numerous references to very str8 things like college sports, fucking a hot juicy pussy, tits, or about having a personal relationship with the Lord.


    Plan B: A six pack of beer and some roofies.
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    Jun 13, 2012 2:35 PM GMT
    Helios69 said
    Well, he explained what they were working on, but after he was done, he kind of looked away with a slight seriousness. He was polite, but the seriousness seemed to tell me I wasn't fooling him and he really knew why I was there, but was not really interested, or he was Str8 and realized I liked him and was slightly bothered.




    Sorry, dude... but dont you think you answered your own question? I mean, if the guy SEEMED not interested, then he is likely not interested. Dont get hung up on guys who dont want you.... go for the guys who can be part of your relationship.
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    Jun 13, 2012 2:36 PM GMT
    Sounds like you got his message. Stop stalking. Sounds creepy.
  • a303guy

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    Jun 13, 2012 2:36 PM GMT
    This thread is useless without pics of said 'God'.
    Only then can proper, time-proven, politically correct judgement and brilliant 'can't fail' advice quickly be offered, solving your situation forever.
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    Jun 13, 2012 2:38 PM GMT
    MuscleBadger said
    Helios69 said
    Well, he explained what they were working on, but after he was done, he kind of looked away with a slight seriousness. He was polite, but the seriousness seemed to tell me I wasn't fooling him and he really knew why I was there, but was not really interested, or he was Str8 and realized I liked him and was slightly bothered.




    Sorry, dude... but dont you think you answered your own question? I mean, if the guy SEEMED not interested, then he is likely not interested. Dont get hung up on guys who dont want you.... go for the guys who can be part of your relationship.

    Well, I want to give it a try, just in case I was misinterpreting things. Some hot guys just naturally have a little attitude.
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    Jun 13, 2012 2:51 PM GMT
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  • LJay

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    Jun 13, 2012 3:30 PM GMT
    I seriously doubt that you are the first person to admire this fellow. He is likely just plain tired of it. If you want to engage at all, just give a quick nod or wave as you walk by, maybe with a very short "Hi" and keep going. Give the man respect and space.

    [Then go somewhere else and drool as you have hot flashes.]
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    Jun 13, 2012 3:40 PM GMT
    GreenHopper said
    JPtheBITCH saidYou approach him and say the following:

    "I just met you, and this is crazy
    But here's my number, so call me, maybe?"


    LOL, lately your posts have gotten really funny
    Hahaha!icon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif
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    Jun 13, 2012 3:44 PM GMT
    Leave it alone.

    Very clear signals that he's straight or he's gay and not interested.
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    Jun 13, 2012 3:51 PM GMT
    novo saidSounds like you got his message. Stop stalking. Sounds creepy.


    This^^^, and I'm sure those of you who have done manual labor before can sympathize with not wanting to be bothered by passers-by.

    Or, you say he was unloading gas tanks? Maybe they're building a meth lab and he doesn't want to say too much. icon_wink.gif
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    Jun 13, 2012 5:29 PM GMT
    you should probably just walk up to him in front of his team and grab his junk
  • nomadfornow

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    Jun 13, 2012 5:54 PM GMT
    Yeah, mate... sounds like he was he was sending very clear signals. Read those signals, and move on. Don't waste time, energy, and emotion on him. Trust me, it just ain't worth it. There are plenty of other gods out there. Happy hunting!
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    Jun 13, 2012 5:56 PM GMT
    OMG can't a guy be loading up his pick up anymore, without some guy thinks now here isd an opportunity to cruzicon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jun 13, 2012 5:58 PM GMT
    Helios69 said but the seriousness seemed to tell me I wasn't fooling him and he really knew why I was there, but was not really interested, or he was Str8 and realized I liked him and was slightly bothered.

    Anyway, I have not been able to stop thinking of him, his handsome face and muscles. What should I do?!!!

    Should I pretend to be going for a daily walk around the building just to see if I can see him on a daily basis and strike up polite conversation each time? Or just say a quick Hi when I walk by so as not to be too obvious or pushy?

    After a few times I was thinking of throwing in a "So what do you guys do for lunch around here?" or something to try to see if he wouldn't mind getting a bite to eat with me or hanging out.




    I can't help but picture you looking like this when you talk to him:

    pokmz4hao8.png

    Please, for the sake not becoming a stalker,just let it go. There will be other hotties.
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    Jun 13, 2012 6:01 PM GMT
    Helios69 said
    MuscleBadger said
    Helios69 said
    Well, he explained what they were working on, but after he was done, he kind of looked away with a slight seriousness. He was polite, but the seriousness seemed to tell me I wasn't fooling him and he really knew why I was there, but was not really interested, or he was Str8 and realized I liked him and was slightly bothered.




    Sorry, dude... but dont you think you answered your own question? I mean, if the guy SEEMED not interested, then he is likely not interested. Dont get hung up on guys who dont want you.... go for the guys who can be part of your relationship.

    Well, I want to give it a try, just in case I was misinterpreting things. Some hot guys just naturally have a little attitude.


    And some hot guys are naturally straight.
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    Jun 13, 2012 6:04 PM GMT
    Helios69 saidDriving to work, I drove past the company on the corner of our building that I've driven past a thousand times and I couldn't help notice the most strikingly handsome, rugged young man I have seen in a long time. He was loading some tanks onto a pickup truck. I kept driving to work, but I couldn't get him off my mind so I walked out and headed over to where he was.

    He was still loading the truck so I kind of asked him what they were doing, pretending I was just walking by and interested in what they were doing and was not there for him.

    Well, he explained what they were working on, but after he was done, he kind of looked away with a slight seriousness. He was polite, but the seriousness seemed to tell me I wasn't fooling him and he really knew why I was there, but was not really interested, or he was Str8 and realized I liked him and was slightly bothered.

    Anyway, I have not been able to stop thinking of him, his handsome face and muscles. What should I do?!!!

    Should I pretend to be going for a daily walk around the building just to see if I can see him on a daily basis and strike up polite conversation each time? Or just say a quick Hi when I walk by so as not to be too obvious or pushy?

    After a few times I was thinking of throwing in a "So what do you guys do for lunch around here?" or something to try to see if he wouldn't mind getting a bite to eat with me or hanging out.

    It seems that most Rugged Gods are Str8 or if they're Gay, they go for other Rugged Boys.

    Even if this is the case, I don't want to just give up without at least trying. I'd do anything to be with him.

    Any suggestions on how to approach him without turning him or scaring him off would be appreciated.




    LOL Dude, he is not interested. Stop it because as of right now you are sounding like a stalker.
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    Jun 13, 2012 6:05 PM GMT
    What is rugged.... Hairy? If all the gay guys aren't hairy enough for you you can always consider dating an orangutan.
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    Jun 13, 2012 6:07 PM GMT
    dragers saidWhat is rugged.... Hairy? If all the gay guys aren't hairy enough for you you can always consider dating an orangutan.


    Or Greek womenicon_lol.gif