The guy was a moron. I don't understand why guys do that, they gotta know how messed up that is. When I first came out I met a few guys online. I had this happen twice, one was really bad, the other wound up being weird but good.
The "Bad". The picture he had up was a strong 7, face was "so so" but his body was off the hook, and he seemed nice enough. We had chatted on line for a really long time, he was constantly badgering me to meet him. I finally caved in and said ok.
He was 1/2 hour away, which was really further than I wanted to be traveling for a potential bf, but I figured wtf. We were going to meet at a bar around the halfway point. He calls at the last minute and says his car broke down, can I just come there.. I'm a little skittish, he reassures me he isn't "trying anything" and after I pick him up we can head to a bar around the corner from his place.
A guy comes to the door and I asked if Eric was home. He says "I'm Eric.. as I step in the door. The guy standing before me was was not just chubby, he was round. I immediately just blurted out "You do know this is SO not gonna happen right?" I was pissed. I straight up asked him who's pictures he stole, he tried to claim it was him from a few years back - I looked at him and said Dude!! Do I look blind? The only thing you have in common with the guy in the pictures is that your both blond, you telling me you shrunk 4 inches AND gained 75 lbs? Then he says well actually those are my X bf, I didn't know they were still on my profile. Yeah right. I couldn't get over how BOLD this guy was! Word - NO damned way it was his bf.
Then I'm thinking "Oh shit, I wonder if he has a gun" LOL I busted for the door, him right behind me thanking me for coming.. I didn't even turn around. THAT was the last time I went to someones house on the first meet up.
The second incident, the guy has plenty of pics, agrees to meet me at a Starbucks close to my house. He is supposed to be in his 30's, tall, brown hair. I sat there for 20 minutes beyond the appointed time, the whole time there was this dark haired younger guy staring holes in me. I finally decide he is a no show and leave.
The younger guy that had been staring at me pulls out from the curb as I turn out. He pulls along side me, I look over and keep driving. Miles down the road, 3 turns later and he is still behind he. I pull into a drugstore - he pulls along side me. I roll down my window he leans out and says "Dude your really hot." I'm so dense I still didn't register the situation. He says "Do you have some place for us to go?" The guy looked like Freddy Prinze Jr., NO way I was gonna say no.
By the time we got to my apartment the "lights" went on. He used the dummy profile to get me there so he could check me out up close before meeting me. Clever. I won't go into the gory details lol, but it was stupid hot. We saw each other off and on for 2 years.