how i found out if my bf really cared about me

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    Jun 13, 2012 9:24 PM GMT
    recently i had surgery and i was suppose to have someone stay with me 24 hours after the surgery. armyjockboi my bf left at 9 oclock that night i had told him he could get a nap in the surgical waiting room but he went home anyway. got home and the next morning we had a little argument about me cutting the ac on he said it ran up the bill i told him you don't work i pay the bills he stormed out threw a flip flop at me and hit me in the stomach ouch. But what ended it was a couple night later when i would not go up into the maze at the gay resort where we stay and have sex i told him i just had surgery and was not going to expose my self to germs and nasty stuff in there he was after this guy we had been talking to earlier that day so i told him to pack his stuff up and leave after a while he came back home acting like nothing had happened i told him to leave anyway. I was a fool for staying with him before when he has jumped on my twice he was pull off both time yea i know i should have left him then he even got mad because i joined this site because he had joined it. I hope he reads this so possibly he will not treat his next bf like this. what do you think
  • FuzzyRich

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    Jun 13, 2012 10:32 PM GMT
    I think you should tell him directly. And use paragraphs, please.
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    Jun 14, 2012 1:43 AM GMT
    You deserve all this for being in a relationship with someone who would refer themselves as armyjockboi.
  • waccamatt

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    Jun 14, 2012 1:45 AM GMT
    Could someone please translate the opening post into English? Thanks.
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    Jun 14, 2012 1:51 AM GMT
    gayngeorgia, I'm sorry, your post was so incredibly difficult to read.

    Please, use proper punctuation, capitalization and other proper English mechanics like simple paragraph structure. If you want to communicate, make it easy for others. Otherwise, it really is a chore.
  • masculumpedes

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    Jun 14, 2012 1:56 AM GMT
    waccamatt saidCould someone please translate the opening post into English? Thanks.


    Basically, he was in a relationship with a guy who cared more for himself than he did his boyfriend. The OP put up with it for as long as he could and now things are over.

    Personally I think this is a rare occurrence. How many guys have actually had boyfriends/significant others/etc. who treat them like this? icon_confused.gif
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    Jun 14, 2012 2:00 AM GMT
    unintelligible
  • waccamatt

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    Jun 14, 2012 2:02 AM GMT
    malefeet said
    waccamatt saidCould someone please translate the opening post into English? Thanks.


    Basically, he was in a relationship with a guy who cared more for himself than he did his boyfriend. The OP put up with it for as long as he could and now things are over.

    Personally I think this is a rare occurrence. How many guys have actually had boyfriends/significant others/etc. who treat them like this? icon_confused.gif


    I'm sure most of us at one time or another. icon_smile.gif
  • McMacster

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    Jun 16, 2012 5:37 AM GMT
    I dont know if I understood everything lol but as I can see you got mad because he didnt stay with you in the hospital for 24 hours.......


    ARE YOU SERIOUS !!!???????????????
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    Jun 16, 2012 5:48 AM GMT
    gayngeorgia said he stormed out threw a flip flop at me and hit me in the stomach ouch.


    rofl best part of the run on sentence of an OP.
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    Jun 16, 2012 5:51 AM GMT
    da fuck u say?
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    Jun 16, 2012 5:56 AM GMT
    jmusmc85 saidda fuck u say?


    le avento una chancla a la pansa, auch.
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    Jun 16, 2012 6:00 AM GMT
    He shows you no respect or consideration. Do the same and show him the door, close it behind him and never open it again. And tell yourself the good feelings you have for him are not based in reality and that you will get over it in time.

    Forgive the fags on here that want to knit pick rather than see the bigger picture of your post. Take care.

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    Jun 16, 2012 6:00 AM GMT
    Ariodante said
    jmusmc85 saidda fuck u say?


    le avento una chancla a la pansa, auch.


    Oh. The dreaded chancla. A scar the haunts the childhood memory of every Latino kid the world over.

    But as to the OP....


    bbd.jpg

    and learn English motherfucker.....
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    Jun 16, 2012 6:05 AM GMT
    I'm hoping English is not your first language.

    I was expecting a story about your BF staying with you at the hospital while you almost died...

    but this story is just about him cheating? I don't get it
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    Jun 16, 2012 6:08 AM GMT
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    Jun 16, 2012 6:09 AM GMT
    Sounds like you need a better BF. Someone who respects you more
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    Jun 16, 2012 6:18 AM GMT
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    Jun 16, 2012 6:21 AM GMT
    Jay1922 said

    I was expecting a story about your BF staying with you at the hospital while you almost died...



    inorite??

    let's pretend it was that instead
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    Jun 21, 2012 5:53 AM GMT
    ohboy said1336075413637_9450087.png


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    Jun 24, 2012 10:16 AM GMT
    I broke it up and added annotations

    gayngeorgia said

    -->> recently i had surgery
    --->>> armyjockboi my bf left at 9 oclock that night i had told him he could get a nap in the surgical waiting room
    -----------> but he went home anyway
    ---->>> the next morning we had a little argument about me cutting the ac on he said it ran up the bill
    !!------>>> I told him you don't work i pay the bills
    !!!!---->>>> he stormed out threw a flip flop at me and hit me in the stomach ouch

    what ended it, was a couple' a night later when i would not go up into the maze at the gay resort ----- where we stay ------- and have sex
    ----> I told him i just had surgery and was not going to expose my self to germs and nasty stuff in there

    he was after this guy we had been talking to earlier that day
    ----> so i told him to pack his stuff up and leave

    after a while he came back home acting like nothing had happened
    ----> I told him to leave anyway

    I was a fool for staying with him before[,] when he has jumped on [me] twice [and] was [pulled] off [me] both time[s]. Yea i know i should have left him then[.] he even got mad because i joined this site because he had joined it. I hope he reads this so possibly he will not treat his next bf like this. what do you think[?]


    What do I think? I wouldn't want to be in that kind of relationship at all. What do you think?

    I really don't understand people sometimes.......