We never officially met, but having written about the porn biz for some years, I can tell you that he could get scary and violent. I once lampooned him in a piece, and he threatened to kill me, and that was just a few months back. Said he would cave my skull in. Yikes. We live(d) in the same city, and I'll admit I looked over my shoulder for a few weeks after that.
He might as well have been a character out of Valley of The Dolls; even he admitted that he had become this over-pumped, over-tanned, over-sexed parody of all this A-List tripe.
The guy had Laura Palmer locked inside him -- there was someone innocent and broken there, but there was also a second self that sought out sexual degradation, dangerous kicks, vulture boyfriends-of-the-moment, and the inevitable Rip Van Winkle when it all caught up with him.
As much victimizer as he was victim.