Are Condoms Really Necessary: In All Situations

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    Jun 15, 2012 2:27 AM GMT
    Yeah, for those who don't know me I dream for a world where diseases go extinct, people are intimate out of love and whore and slut are just egregious terms with no depth.

    My point (which is extremely naive) is this

    Is it bad to fall in love with someone and you feel they love you as well and you feel you don't need one?

    I know alot of heads of the more logical and level headed, cynical, judgemental people are going to face palm, or SMH, or make AIDS jokes.

    I just wonder, does being so close to someone to where you trust them whole heartedly with your body a crime. I know you can never be too careful but if you truly love someone is it so bad and cause for judgement that you let someone experience that with you.

    I show compassion to people who die from AIDS and HIV who slept around, but I show more to those who were just in love and wanted to share that.

    So what can we say...protect yourselves at all times. Wait until your married?

    Even married people cheat,

    So I am wondering about a conundrum.

    We use condoms to protect us from disease, because we dont trust the person we are intimate with.

    If we trusted and cared for that person, then why would we feel the need to use condoms.

    The more we as a world progress the more things such as , trust, fairness, fidelity, and love seem retracted.

    When did trusting someone you love, become naive...
    Isn't that a little sad when you think about it.
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    Jun 15, 2012 2:37 AM GMT
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    Jun 15, 2012 3:02 AM GMT
    JamieJfromtheA saidYeah, for those who don't know me I dream for a world where diseases go extinct, people are intimate out of love and whore and slut are just egregious terms with no depth.

    My point (which is extremely naive) is this

    Is it bad to fall in love with someone and you feel they love you as well and you feel you don't need one?

    I know alot of heads of the more logical and level headed, cynical, judgemental people are going to face palm, or SMH, or make AIDS jokes.

    I just wonder, does being so close to someone to where you trust them whole heartedly with your body a crime. I know you can never be too careful but if you truly love someone is it so bad and cause for judgement that you let someone experience that with you.

    I show compassion to people who die from AIDS and HIV who slept around, but I show more to those who were just in love and wanted to share that.

    So what can we say...protect yourselves at all times. Wait until your married?

    Even married people cheat,

    So I am wondering about a conundrum.

    We use condoms to protect us from disease, because we dont trust the person we are intimate with.

    If we trusted and cared for that person, then why would we feel the need to use condoms.

    The more we as a world progress the more things such as , trust, fairness, fidelity, and love seem retracted.

    When did trusting someone you love, become naive...
    Isn't that a little sad when you think about it.


    Yes you've made a great point, and it's sad to hear about those people whose live have been altered dramatically because of that lack trust. There is only one answer and that is to love as best as you possibly can.

    I feel a lot of these issues could be resolved if both people worked towards developing a better understanding of the other person's feelings about the relationship. You should instantly know when he's unhappy with the relationship. Be smart, don't bullshit yourself, stay independent, and be open, honest, and articulate about your feelings. Also don't forget about the power of words.

    Also if he really cared about your well being he wouldn't put you in that kind of risk.
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    Jun 15, 2012 3:09 AM GMT
    TL;DR WEAR A FUCKING CONDOM
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    Jun 15, 2012 8:04 PM GMT
    ^^^ I 100 percent agree.
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    Jun 15, 2012 8:17 PM GMT
    I'd wear a wetsuit if it were safer!
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    Jun 15, 2012 8:32 PM GMT
    sperm is not meant to go in your ass icon_lol.gif
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    Jun 15, 2012 8:52 PM GMT
    Anduru saidTL;DR WEAR A FUCKING CONDOM


    THIS
    just be 100% sure and safe, risk isnt worth it