The Grudge....

  • kietkat

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    Jun 15, 2012 11:16 AM GMT
    Need some advice regarding my dating situation.

    So i met this guy a few weeks ago online and after some very interesting chats we decided to meet. We were to meetup at a downtown area and go from there. So upon walking up to him with a warm greeting .... he replies "wow you're short"..... and laughs like some idiot. My blood was already boiling then. So the date continued and at some point he apologized only after i brought it up.
    Those words hurt big time for someone who's been rejected a fair amount.

    Now here's my dilemma, i hold grudges. Cross me once and ill make certain you'll pay...DEARLY. So this guy has warmed up to me and we've gone on a few more dates since...all the while my mind is set on the ultimate revenge. I really wanna make the lil shit pay for the anguish inflicted but part of me is starting to warm up to him.

    Anyone been in a similar situation?
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    Jun 15, 2012 11:31 AM GMT
    WTF dude he made one stupid remark. If you hold a grudge over it, planning on revenge while acting like everything is fine to his face, you deserve to have been rejected so many times. WTF dude, grow up...

















  • kietkat

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    Jun 15, 2012 11:48 AM GMT
    Well that was helpful....

    I see nothing wrong with destroying mean people....
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    Jun 15, 2012 3:50 PM GMT
    kietkat saidWell that was helpful....

    I see nothing wrong with destroying mean people....

    You do realize, this makes you a mean person, right?

    The lesson you will be teaching him is to think "wow he's short" instead of saying it.
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    Jun 15, 2012 4:04 PM GMT
    Whoa. As a short guy myself, you OP, sound psycho. If you don't like what the guy said when you first met, do something then, but to continue to go on a few dates only to ensnare him in some web, just to get even? Psycho...
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    Jun 15, 2012 4:08 PM GMT
    He probably finds it endearing. He likes it. icon_wink.gif
  • allatonce

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    Jun 15, 2012 4:25 PM GMT
    WHOA. You sound completely psycho.
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    Jun 15, 2012 4:33 PM GMT
    your 5 8 you are short its a fact.
  • Daniepwils

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    Jun 15, 2012 5:11 PM GMT
    How exactly did he cross you? By stating that you are shorter in person than he thought?

    He didn't mean it as an insult to you, he was probably just not expecting you to be so short to his standards. Was it tacky of him to say it, probably. Does that you mean you need to "get revenge" no...
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    Jun 15, 2012 5:12 PM GMT
    I thought this forum was on the movie the Grudge icon_cry.gif

    Guess I was mistaken.
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    Jun 15, 2012 5:18 PM GMT
    msuNtx saidI thought this forum was on the movie the Grudge icon_cry.gif

    Guess I was mistaken.


    ditto.
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    Jun 15, 2012 5:25 PM GMT
    kietkat said Cross me once and ill make certain you'll pay...DEARLY. So this guy has warmed up to me and we've gone on a few more dates since...all the while my mind is set on the ultimate revenge.


    1. Nobody in real life actually talks like this.

    2. Get over yourself.

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    Jun 15, 2012 5:30 PM GMT
    I wouldn't wanna go out with you if something so small sets you off.
    Relax, laugh about it and keep on spreadin' the tumblr_m5d2m4IjYC1r79k32.gif
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    Jun 15, 2012 5:38 PM GMT
    kietkat saidNeed some advice regarding my dating situation.

    So i met this guy a few weeks ago online and after some very interesting chats we decided to meet. We were to meetup at a downtown area and go from there. So upon walking up to him with a warm greeting .... he replies "wow you're short"..... and laughs like some idiot. My blood was already boiling then. So the date continued and at some point he apologized only after i brought it up.
    Those words hurt big time for someone who's been rejected a fair amount.

    Now here's my dilemma, i hold grudges. Cross me once and ill make certain you'll pay...DEARLY. So this guy has warmed up to me and we've gone on a few more dates since...all the while my mind is set on the ultimate revenge. I really wanna make the lil shit pay for the anguish inflicted but part of me is starting to warm up to him.

    Anyone been in a similar situation?


    I'm curious about how you've made other people pay "DEARLY." icon_eek.gif What do you--or did you--have in mind as "the ultimate revenge" in this situation. icon_eek.gif

    From your profile: "I enjoy most blood-pumping activities such as running, hiking, biking, etc." Just what is "etc."? icon_eek.gif
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    Jun 15, 2012 5:44 PM GMT
    Oh wow... I've done it before, I've said that to a guy after meeting him in real life, he was shorter and skinnier. It wasnt in a offensive way and it didn't stop me from falling for him. It was simply an observation and I'm sure that guy didn't mean to hurt your feelings.
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    Jun 15, 2012 5:47 PM GMT
    I'm sure you're just peachy to be around...

    He was probably saying that to break the ice, calm down.

    And, I hope he figures out your vendetta and drop kicks your ass.

    Also, it sounds like you have a short temper...get that checked out.
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    Jun 15, 2012 5:53 PM GMT
    u turn into this?

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  • kietkat

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    Jun 15, 2012 6:01 PM GMT
    Ariodante said
    kietkat said Cross me once and ill make certain you'll pay...DEARLY. So this guy has warmed up to me and we've gone on a few more dates since...all the while my mind is set on the ultimate revenge.


    1. Nobody in real life actually talks like this.

    2. Get over yourself.




    So you've met everyone in real life eh?
    You know nothing about me or what I'm capable of.
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    Jun 15, 2012 6:07 PM GMT
    You've earned your MS in Chemistry.
    You're 5'8" - that isn't short. I'm 6'2" - so what? Makes no difference.
    Your weight is fine - you look great - you're on top of your game.
    With that being said - you don't need to care about some guy's offhanded remark. You don't want to let it eat you up at all. Let it go. Do this for yourself - - - otherwise you'll get yourself all worked into an anger case inside.
    With all your high points and accomplishments in life - - - you're way above getting pissed about this.

    In my earlier years, I've had a couple of really shitty things happen to me: Shot through my chest by a house burglar - for one. When the guy received only a four year sentence, I was pissed and thought of ways to kill him - and not get caught. I finally had to realize this was eating me up. I HAD to let it go - - for my own peace of mind.

    You'll do the same with this clown who made that remark.
  • kietkat

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    Jun 15, 2012 6:08 PM GMT
    [quote][cite]novo said[/cite]
    kietkat saidNeed some advice regarding my dating situation.

    So i met this guy a few weeks ago online and after some very interesting chats we decided to meet. We were to meetup at a downtown area and go from there. So upon walking up to him with a warm greeting .... he replies "wow you're short"..... and laughs like some idiot. My blood was already boiling then. So the date continued and at some point he apologized only after i brought it up.
    Those words hurt big time for someone who's been rejected a fair amount.

    Now here's my dilemma, i hold grudges. Cross me once and ill make certain you'll pay...DEARLY. So this guy has warmed up to me and we've gone on a few more dates since...all the while my mind is set on the ultimate revenge. I really wanna make the lil shit pay for the anguish inflicted but part of me is starting to warm up to him.

    Anyone been in a similar situation?


    I'm curious about how you've made other people pay "DEARLY." icon_eek.gif What do you--or did you--have in mind as "the ultimate revenge" in this situation. icon_eek.gif

    From your profile: "I enjoy most blood-pumping activities such as running, hiking, biking, etc." Just what is "etc."? icon_eek.gif[/q

    Lets just say that I can be very creative with my revenge. Besides I'm only like this when people are just utterly disrespectful.
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    Jun 15, 2012 6:14 PM GMT
    kietkat saidNeed some advice regarding my dating situation.

    So i met this guy a few weeks ago online and after some very interesting chats we decided to meet. We were to meetup at a downtown area and go from there. So upon walking up to him with a warm greeting .... he replies "wow you're short"..... and laughs like some idiot. My blood was already boiling then. So the date continued and at some point he apologized only after i brought it up.
    Those words hurt big time for someone who's been rejected a fair amount.

    Now here's my dilemma, i hold grudges. Cross me once and ill make certain you'll pay...DEARLY. So this guy has warmed up to me and we've gone on a few more dates since...all the while my mind is set on the ultimate revenge. I really wanna make the lil shit pay for the anguish inflicted but part of me is starting to warm up to him.

    Anyone been in a similar situation?


    What if he likes short guys, and he was really happy about you being short?
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    Jun 15, 2012 6:18 PM GMT
    kietkat saidLets just say that I can be very creative with my revenge.


    Let's just say you give us a concrete, specific example instead of more lines that sound like they came from bad anime.
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    Jun 15, 2012 6:18 PM GMT
    notadumbjock saidu turn into this?

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    You beat me to it! icon_lol.gif
  • kietkat

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    Jun 15, 2012 6:21 PM GMT
    Jockbod48 saidYou've earned your MS in Chemistry.
    You're 5'8" - that isn't short. I'm 6'2" - so what? Makes no difference.
    Your weight is fine - you look great - you're on top of your game.
    With that being said - you don't need to care about some guy's offhanded remark. You don't want to let it eat you up at all. Let it go. Do this for yourself - - - otherwise you'll get yourself all worked into an anger case inside.
    With all your high points and accomplishments in life - - - you're way above getting pissed about this.

    In my earlier years, I've had a couple of really shitty things happen to me: Shot through my chest by a house burglar - for one. When the guy received only a four year sentence, I was pissed and thought of ways to kill him - and not get caught. I finally had to realize this was eating me up. I HAD to let it go - - for my own peace of mind.

    You'll do the same with this clown who made that remark.


    Sorry to hear about your being shot. I wish I could be able to handle the situation like you did.
    Thank you for the kind words. Life has been rough for me and this is my coping mechanism. Been the victim of way too many people. I don't get why ppl behave like this cause I sure don't.
    So you would be totally fine with a date saying such a dumbass remark even after supposedly checking out your profile? I guess you probably would be but I refuse to let such a thing be gloossed over.
  • kietkat

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    Jun 15, 2012 6:26 PM GMT
    madfacts saidWhoa. As a short guy myself, you OP, sound psycho. If you don't like what the guy said when you first met, do something then, but to continue to go on a few dates only to ensnare him in some web, just to get even? Psycho...


    Perhaps it is a psychological abnormality relative to the general population, but regardless I don't see anything wrong with inflicting mental anguish on such idiots.

    So you'd be OK with a date just saying that before even a handshake or hello?
    Really?