THE FUCK BUDDY TEMPTATION ..... When u already have a BF

  • MarcBodybuild...

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    Jun 15, 2012 9:13 PM GMT
    Committed to my bf, we both have high sex drive but play with one another since we becamed a couple.

    On occassion we workout together at the gym...the DILEMA some of my gym buddies were my fuck buddies when i was single. When they talk to me i talk back at them socially, nothing physical.

    The man's urge to kiss a hot guy... and more is so so tempting, my bf feels the same way with his former lovers, its a constant battle trying to resist, if only its ok to have more than one bf .....ah but thats not allowed

    ................ feels like i have one horny angel over my shoulder, and a horny devil on the other one

    i don't wanna risk having a threeway with my fuck buddies together with my bf, if it means losing my bf afterwards,

    i got to ask a couple who is in monogamous relationship if they ever had fuck buddies over , and not have any problems occuring


    HEY GUYS ( MONOGAMOUS People ) ever had experimented with having ur f buddies get involved, and not having a problem afterwards


    is it risky or perfectly fine ?
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    Jun 15, 2012 9:15 PM GMT
    This right here is why I am not sure I believe in the whole myth of monogamy.
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    Jun 15, 2012 9:22 PM GMT
    smartmoney saidThis right here is why I am not sure I believe in the whole myth of monogamy.
    Ditto.
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    Jun 15, 2012 9:26 PM GMT
    TropicalMark said
    smartmoney saidThis right here is why I am not sure I believe in the whole myth of monogamy.
    Ditto.

    I'll third that.
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    Jun 15, 2012 9:35 PM GMT
    is it worthy risking your relationship for 20min of sex?...
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    Jun 15, 2012 9:37 PM GMT
    Davidolce saidis it worthy risking your relationship for 20min of sex?...
    Ask that after you hit 40 ok?
  • Timbales

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    Jun 15, 2012 11:33 PM GMT
    Only you can decide what's right for you.

    Personally, I don't buy the whole "I can't help myself" stuff. As humans, we don't give in to every urge we have. If you want to control it, you will. If not, you won't.
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    Jun 15, 2012 11:49 PM GMT
    You're going to fuck up a good thing. Fuck your bf instead.
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    Jun 15, 2012 11:56 PM GMT
    NoNoNoYes said
    TropicalMark said
    smartmoney saidThis right here is why I am not sure I believe in the whole myth of monogamy.
    Ditto.

    I'll third that.


    i'll fourth that
  • araphael

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    Jun 16, 2012 4:51 AM GMT
    In my life experience there is no such thing as a "fuck buddy" that will not, at some point, become more complicated than the word "fuck." When I was younger, I thought the complications occurred because I was just such a damned good lover (hahaha), but now that I'm a little older and I understand human nature a little better, I understand that no human being (regardless of what they tell you), and I mean no human, will have regular sex with another human with there being no strings at all for ever without that person desiring something more than just the sex. It is just the reality of nature that God created. Now some people probably disagree with my opinion and may be they have experienced this mythical "just fuck" relationship with somebody But my only question to them is this: why did the just "fuck" buddy relationship end? Because it did end didn't it? hahaha. What a good discussion question here.
  • Koaa2

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    Jun 16, 2012 10:04 PM GMT
    northoz said
    NoNoNoYes said
    TropicalMark said
    smartmoney saidThis right here is why I am not sure I believe in the whole myth of monogamy.
    Ditto.

    I'll third that.


    i'll fourth that


    I'll 5th it.
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    Jun 16, 2012 11:27 PM GMT
    Koaa2 said
    northoz said
    NoNoNoYes said
    TropicalMark said
    smartmoney saidThis right here is why I am not sure I believe in the whole myth of monogamy.
    Ditto.

    I'll third that.


    i'll fourth that


    I'll 5th it.
    6th
  • MarcBodybuild...

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    Jun 17, 2012 2:18 AM GMT
    Even if the f buddy is this guy malemodelvince at a4a....
    So should i say no to a hottie....
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    Jun 20, 2012 8:16 AM GMT
    i would say its shameful

    & regretful
    how can u love him when ur loving to dream about fucking with somebody else

    i think your bf should dump u
    & dont even say u are a monogamous guy my brother --- u def are not

    just break up with him & dont cheat someone like this ever
    oneday u would be cheated someone as well as a karma cycle

    (& im not warring or hating --just expressing up my opinion)

    i prefer fucking many men but when im in a relation its s beautiful i day dream & just think of my lover all day
    u dont love him
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    Jun 20, 2012 1:35 PM GMT
    GAMRican saidYou're going to fuck up a good thing. Fuck your bf instead.



    agree
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    Jun 20, 2012 2:10 PM GMT
    jbinchlt said
    GAMRican saidYou're going to fuck up a good thing. Fuck your bf instead.



    agree


    Yep. Honour the commitment you make to each other, or talk it out with each other if you feel you can't.

    OP, how is this monogamous?

    "HEY GUYS ( MONOGAMOUS People ) ever had experimented with having ur f buddies get involved, and not having a problem afterwards"
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    Jun 25, 2012 8:21 AM GMT
    Lol
    u look at my partner with ur nasty sex seeking eyes im gonna crush them off
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    Jul 09, 2012 5:46 AM GMT
    QUOTE AUTHOR GOES HERECommitted to my bf


    What's the point of a boyfriend when you're tempted to fuck other guys rather than thinking about where you should fuck him next. icon_neutral.gif


    QUOTE AUTHOR GOES HEREThis right here is why I am not sure I believe in the whole myth of monogamy.


    Agreed.


    QUOTE AUTHOR GOES HEREThe man's urge to kiss a hot guy... and more is so so tempting, my bf feels the same way with his former lovers, its a constant battle trying to resist, if only its ok to have more than one bf


    Sit down with your boyfriend and talk about how you can both be better at pleasing each other. In my opinion, you're tempted to have sex outside of your relationship when you need to fill the void your bf can't fix.

    QUOTE AUTHOR GOES HEREgym buddies were my fuck buddies when i was single


    Change gyms.
    Do yourself a favor and don't fuck gym rats when you're single.
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    Jul 13, 2012 4:11 AM GMT
    OP..What the hell??..
    Real men protect what they love
    Why would you go there??..This is notorious for destroying relationships..Why would you gamble the future of your relationship...with lust???..Instead of trying to use a dating site to validate your selfish feelings..Figure out how to spice up your relationship...Guys like you are my worst nightmare!! I bet while your'e here fishing your BF is kicking back in content thinking all is well..An open relationship my ass..why dont ya move an aligator into your apartment???..I promise you that would be less awkward..!!..Hugz..Ya know what ..no hug..GOOD DAY SIR !!icon_mad.gif
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    Jul 13, 2012 4:13 AM GMT
    I SAID GOOD DAY !!!