Too much sex?

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    Aug 09, 2007 2:28 PM GMT
    I know we're all guys and sex is usually the number one thing on our brains, but I have a question: "Is there any such thing as TOO MUCH sex?"
  • zakariahzol

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    Aug 09, 2007 3:00 PM GMT
    In my younger days I will say no such things. But nowaday I be satisfies if I get it, say two or three time a week.
  • maximumrisk

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    Aug 09, 2007 7:22 PM GMT
    Well, Im 21 and If I could It would be daily or more than once daily. Maybe that will change with the age, but for now I dont know a real limit on when I dont want anymore :-)
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    Aug 09, 2007 7:39 PM GMT
    Well, I have never experienced it - not being the sort that attracts much of it in the first place.
    However, I do remember at least two very attractive guys from my college years who basically screwed away their scholarships. When suddenly confronted with unlimited opportunity for sex, they somehow never got around to studying. Neither lasted out freshman year.
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    Aug 09, 2007 7:43 PM GMT
    2-3 times per week Zak? Goodness. I think it's been somewhere in May I got some last ;)
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    Aug 09, 2007 7:59 PM GMT
    WOW. I am too embarassed to say the last time I had any! But I will say there were party favors with 2007 written all over them! LOL.
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    Aug 09, 2007 8:08 PM GMT
    I think more than five times a day is too much. The sixth is always rather exhausted and lacklustre
  • maximumrisk

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    Aug 09, 2007 8:17 PM GMT
    Well, thats right. But who said you have to do it one after another? :-P
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    Aug 09, 2007 8:18 PM GMT
    My last boyfriend said that one of the problems that he had with our relationship was that my sex-drive was so much higher than his. He said that it made him feel pressured and a little resentful, because he sometimes felt like that was my main focus in the relationship, even though consciously he knew that it was not.

    Of course, my big problem with the relationship was that he didn't TELL me about these feelings until after it had already developed into a "big problem" in his mind, so I had no opportunity to change my behavior. But that's neither here nor there.

    So, in that kind of context, I'd say yes... too much sex can be a problem.
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    Aug 09, 2007 9:29 PM GMT
    When the quest for sex begins to interfere with other aspects of one's life, then it's probably worthwhile to be screened or self-screen for sexual addition.

    There are a couple of recognized screening tools on the web for this condition. If you answer them honestly, you can self-score the tests and come to a fairly good assessment of your risk for sexual addiction.

    Other than that - if you just like to get your rocks off a couple of times a day, well, enjoy it - it won't be that way forever, and it does feel good!

    J.
  • dfrourke

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    Aug 09, 2007 11:41 PM GMT
    ...let's not assume sex is on our brains 24/7 days a week...it is not for me...I mean I have sh*t to do guys...how annoying if my hormones completely ran my life 24/7!...the joys of my 30's...

    ...I can't tell you what is normal for anyone other than myself...but yes, too much of anything can lead to addiction issues...and there is such a thing as sexual addiction...

    ...I can tell you when I am in a relationship if I go about 10 days...I start becoming hyper aware of how long it has been...not being in a relationship currently, I am blown away how long it has been [don't ask]...

    - David
  • zakariahzol

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    Aug 09, 2007 11:52 PM GMT
    NRG,

    When I say 2-3 time a week I mean, sex with other people and sex by myself. Usually , if I dont get it that much , yes the body keep asking and I start searching. It not all the time I get it, though. But with the availablity of all this gay places like gay sauna and club usually one time a week it really assured. I hate to admittted it, but I have done , well, the male pros thing when I am really desperate and horny.

    Years back I use to have 3 to 4 gay friend that our friendship have a sexual nature no string attach to it. So it just a matter of a phone call away , for some sexual fun. Most of them are marriage now. Hope that make sense.
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    Aug 10, 2007 12:16 AM GMT
    Too much sex ? Well, it depends on your sexual drive. It's different for everybody but I don't think so.
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    Aug 10, 2007 1:58 AM GMT
    How much sex is too much is depending upon prsonal perfrence. I think if you and your partner are okay with it then by all means have it. =)
  • hotversguy

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    Aug 10, 2007 5:53 AM GMT
    there' such a thing as too much BAD sex, that's for sure
  • cityguy39

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    Aug 10, 2007 5:54 AM GMT
    When your sex life rules the other aspects of your life it's too much. There where times when I was single when my sex drive would get the best of me, what I mean by that was going out at 2am for hookups and not leaving any clue as to where I was in case something happened to me etc. When I was younger, like most guys the head between my legs ruled the one between my ears. Now I'm much older and wiser with a great BF. But I still remember how it is when your horny and alone and you just want the feel of another body next to yours.
  • imaxim

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    Aug 10, 2007 6:38 AM GMT
    I think someone forgot these forums are divided into subsections ;)
  • Laurence

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    Aug 10, 2007 10:18 AM GMT
    Shall we take it that Scally's not getting any?
  • zakariahzol

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    Aug 10, 2007 1:26 PM GMT
    Sound like it
  • GQjock

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    Aug 11, 2007 12:13 AM GMT
    That's all relative...
    remember the first few weeks when you're in a new relationship and you can't keep your hands off each other and your having sex 2 - 3 times a day?
    That seemed just right...at the time :)
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    Aug 11, 2007 1:15 AM GMT
    God I hope not
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    Aug 11, 2007 2:02 AM GMT
    (Not that anyone is particularly interested) For me, I much prefer quality to quantity. I've been with men who wanted it all the time, whenever and wherever and I always have felt that method to be inferior to say a couple sessions here and there, lasting hours, so sexy and overwhelming you feel like you've just died when it's all done. Then again, I tend to give 110% should I decide to give it up, so maybe it's a personal thing.

    2 cents.
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    Aug 11, 2007 4:40 AM GMT
    ...and just for the record, I'd be happy to have too much sex with a number of the posters to this thread. ;)
  • bigguysf

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    Aug 11, 2007 4:59 AM GMT
    Personally, I'm just not right if there aren't at least two orgasms a day: with or without outside help. :)
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    Aug 13, 2007 7:32 PM GMT
    To me, it doeant matter how many times i do it per day, because it depend on my mood, not how manytimes