Hot Asian Guys.

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    Jun 16, 2012 3:02 AM GMT
    Are the reason I get up in the morning. icon_cool.gif
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    Jun 16, 2012 3:06 AM GMT
    Asians are pretty hot, a lot of them have amazing asses, buuut, they do not get me out of bed, they get me into bed.
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    Jun 16, 2012 4:30 AM GMT
    Actually your post question gives impetus to me asking a question I've kinda always been curious about: why do American Asian guys (and I have to say American because I've visited Asian countries where the opposite of what I'm talking about actually occurs) ignore or don't even try to get with African American guys? If the American Asian guys would take a moment and think about it, intelligently, there are never really any reports of us doing harm to them. Yet, they seek out the very people that often seek to do them harm. I've never understood that behavior as I am a rational thinking human person. I was just curious is all, lol. In fact, we don't try to seek anybody out and hurt them just for the hell of cruelty, as a general rule (although we are quite capable of cruelty towards evil people), but we don't generally seek as a race to hurt innocent people, only the guilty and mean people tend to catch the hostility of black folk throughout the world. Am I correct in this assessment? I could be wrong about my people, but I don't think I am. Hmmmmm?
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    Jun 16, 2012 4:52 AM GMT
    araphael saidActually your post question gives impetus to me asking a question I've kinda always been curious about: why do American Asian guys (and I have to say American because I've visited Asian countries where the opposite of what I'm talking about actually occurs) ignore or don't even try to get with African American guys? If the American Asian guys would take a moment and think about it, intelligently, there are never really any reports of us doing harm to them. Yet, they seek out the very people that often seek to do them harm. I've never understood that behavior as I am a rational thinking human person. I was just curious is all, lol. In fact, we don't try to seek anybody out and hurt them just for the hell of cruelty, as a general rule (although we are quite capable of cruelty towards evil people), but we don't generally seek as a race to hurt innocent people, only the guilty and mean people tend to catch the hostility of black folk throughout the world. Am I correct in this assessment? I could be wrong about my people, but I don't think I am. Hmmmmm?


    mmm. I honestly don't know.

    I have learned that if you are light skinned you can just not tell them you are black. Then you just let them know once they are emotionally invested. Sometimes they will continue to date you, other times they will look for the exit that makes them feel least racist.

    I find that Asians in Asia don't have the same prejudices that there American counterparts do, probably because they have not been exposed to the idea that one race is more desirable than others. A lot of them are interested in dating foreign guys and are very forward thinking.

    European guys also don't have the same hangups about race. American gays kinda suck compared to international gays. icon_razz.gif
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    Jun 16, 2012 5:21 AM GMT
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    araphael saidActually your post question gives impetus to me asking a question I've kinda always been curious about: why do American Asian guys (and I have to say American because I've visited Asian countries where the opposite of what I'm talking about actually occurs) ignore or don't even try to get with African American guys? If the American Asian guys would take a moment and think about it, intelligently, there are never really any reports of us doing harm to them. Yet, they seek out the very people that often seek to do them harm. I've never understood that behavior as I am a rational thinking human person. I was just curious is all, lol. In fact, we don't try to seek anybody out and hurt them just for the hell of cruelty, as a general rule (although we are quite capable of cruelty towards evil people), but we don't generally seek as a race to hurt innocent people, only the guilty and mean people tend to catch the hostility of black folk throughout the world. Am I correct in this assessment? I could be wrong about my people, but I don't think I am. Hmmmmm?

    hmm I dont know how the American Asian doing but for the Asians in Asia like me , we often not to let out thought out , and I would date with a black guy if I find interested in him.

    I agree the fact that many Asian guys often seek for white guy to date and ignore black guys.... icon_sad.gif But it's not the whole of us.
    and Im an exception , for example ;;)
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    Jun 16, 2012 5:53 AM GMT
    Correct me if I'm wrong but this is from my experience.

    Having lived in Asia, I find that there tends to be a certain excitement for anyone foreign be it white, black, or brown just for the fact that they are different. Asian countries for the most part aren't like the states or europe, where you can find a multitude of races and cultures, so that may be part of the appeal.

    As for Asian men in the states, it is true that they are very much attracted to Caucasians mostly due to the imprinted idea of beauty that bombards us.

    But that is not to say that there aren't asians out there that can make their own decisions about who they are attracted to. For me, if a guy knows how to cook, can make me laugh, and is good at video games, I pretty much have my pants off for them.

    ...and I think that's part of what we struggle with in forming long lasting monogamous relationships. We forget that we have to actually talk and have things in common with the people we want relationships with. Unless of course you're attracted to ultra ultra masculine non feminine, straight as an arrow men. But that's a different discussion.
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    Jun 16, 2012 7:47 AM GMT
    araphael saidwhy do American Asian guys ignore or don't even try to get with African American guys?


    That's cuz they think you're gonna like, steal from them
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    Jun 16, 2012 9:29 AM GMT
    I'm asian in an asia country, what I notice about asian gays here is that almost all of them (including me icon_razz.gif) are interested in foreign men no matter black,white, yellow or brown icon_eek.gif
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    Jun 16, 2012 9:36 AM GMT
    I like this thread. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jun 16, 2012 12:02 PM GMT
    Jay1922 said

    For me, if a guy knows how to cook, can make me laugh, and is good at video games, I pretty much have my pants off for them.


    That's the nicest thing I've heard all day!
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    Jun 16, 2012 2:32 PM GMT
    I currently live in Beijing, and one thing that I have noticed and heard much about is that there is a lot of casual racism against black people.

    I never really had a preference for race, and but I didn't consider myself particularly into Asians until I lived here for a few months. Now I'm quite into them icon_biggrin.gif

    In my experience, Asian guys (or rather Chinese) guys are very sweet, kind and affectionate.
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    Jun 16, 2012 3:56 PM GMT
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    Aug 03, 2012 6:53 AM GMT
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  • aaron123dodo

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    Aug 03, 2012 8:22 AM GMT

    It's a mixture of social stigma and personal preference, although in this case I think social stigma weighs quite a bit more.

    For a member of the minority to seek someone in a different minority group is rare. Not that anyone is broadcasting through television saying Asians and Blacks shouldn't be together, but as a man of color I'm sure you know what I'm talking about. It's just, not "socially justified", since by dating another minority you're "in essence" 1. Not trying to blend into the majority and 2. Not trying to preserve your own culture.

    In other words, social perception may creep up into the sub-conscious and become a dominating factor for a decision, especially if you've just met that person and have nearly nothing to lose by rejection (and potentially negative social stigma to gain by acceptance).

    It's just a phenomenon, a very human phenomenon. Like all human phenomena however, it's just a general trend that depends heavily on other factors, such as how good looking you are and how personable you are. I mean, you get the idea. It's not a black-and-white situation. (no puns intended!)

    Also there's cultural things to consider --- If you're part of the urban black culture or any other minority cultural groups. It's hard coping with two vastly different cultures and lifestyles, never mind extending that number to three. Asian cultures in particular are quite exhausting to bear, "casual" isn't a word to describe it. This is different from Asians who still live in Asia: They've just got one culture to cope with and everything comes naturally in the environment. Anything different is simply exciting and fun. Besides, they're the majority in Asia, they probably don't even know what it feels like to be a minority, never mind being sensitive to certain social stigma.

    Having said that, I'm sure many Asian Americans would find a good looking black man to be irresistible, well as long as you're not a moron or a jerk. And if you're a great Black man yet you're rejected by an Asian man, I'm not going to say the standard "he's not good enough for you", but at least he has priorities in his decision making that do not match yours, hence it isn't your loss and you shouldn't feel insulted by it, it's just a deal-not-sealed.




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    Aug 03, 2012 5:38 PM GMT
    aaron123dodo said
    It's a mixture of social stigma and personal preference, although in this case I think social stigma weighs quite a bit more.

    For a member of the minority to seek someone in a different minority group is rare. Not that anyone is broadcasting through television saying Asians and Blacks shouldn't be together, but as a man of color I'm sure you know what I'm talking about. It's just, not "socially justified", since by dating another minority you're "in essence" 1. Not trying to blend into the majority and 2. Not trying to preserve your own culture.

    In other words, social perception may creep up into the sub-conscious and become a dominating factor for a decision, especially if you've just met that person and have nearly nothing to lose by rejection (and potentially negative social stigma to gain by acceptance).

    It's just a phenomenon, a very human phenomenon. Like all human phenomena however, it's just a general trend that depends heavily on other factors, such as how good looking you are and how personable you are. I mean, you get the idea. It's not a black-and-white situation. (no puns intended!)

    Also there's cultural things to consider --- If you're part of the urban black culture or any other minority cultural groups. It's hard coping with two vastly different cultures and lifestyles, never mind extending that number to three. Asian cultures in particular are quite exhausting to bear, "casual" isn't a word to describe it. This is different from Asians who still live in Asia: They've just got one culture to cope with and everything comes naturally in the environment. Anything different is simply exciting and fun. Besides, they're the majority in Asia, they probably don't even know what it feels like to be a minority, never mind being sensitive to certain social stigma.

    Having said that, I'm sure many Asian Americans would find a good looking black man to be irresistible, well as long as you're not a moron or a jerk. And if you're a great Black man yet you're rejected by an Asian man, I'm not going to say the standard "he's not good enough for you", but at least he has priorities in his decision making that do not match yours, hence it isn't your loss and you shouldn't feel insulted by it, it's just a deal-not-sealed.






    What's this idea that Asian men do not like black men? I don't get it
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    Aug 03, 2012 6:38 PM GMT
    HAGs, for short.
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    Aug 03, 2012 8:50 PM GMT
    Asian guys are ridiculously hot. Just saying
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    Aug 03, 2012 10:28 PM GMT
    I had a dream about Donghae....we were talking and I told him "Saranghae" (I love you in Korean) and he said Saranghae back to me. icon_redface.gif

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    then I wake up and there's no Donghae with me

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    Aug 04, 2012 12:44 AM GMT
    Asian appreciation!
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  • AMoonHawk

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    Aug 04, 2012 5:51 AM GMT
    This guy is so amazingly hot looking
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    Aug 04, 2012 5:51 AM GMT
    I have an asian guy's finger up my butt right now while I'm typing. It tickles and burns.
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    Aug 04, 2012 5:53 AM GMT
    OMG ... and this one too
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    oh well .. a guy can dream
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    Aug 04, 2012 6:31 AM GMT
    aaron123dodo said
    Anything different is simply exciting and fun. Besides, they're the majority in Asia, they probably don't even know what it feels like to be a minority, never mind being sensitive to certain social stigma.


    Couldn't agree more.

    Don't even know there's a word called potato queen before I came to the USA, or all kinds of queens.....

    We have too many labels.
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    Aug 04, 2012 6:34 AM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidThis guy is so amazingly hot looking
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    he's a huge star in China and Japan
    That's why
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    Aug 04, 2012 6:36 AM GMT
    I live in Japan and I feel that here the guys are interested in foreigners for sex, but nothing more. That's why I prefer the guys in France.