Protected sex with your partner.

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    Jun 16, 2012 11:36 AM GMT
    Have u ever been ridiculed by your partner for always want to use a condom? Even though u too are seeing each other exclusively and have been tested. I think its a smart move to wear a condom at all times!, if your instincts tell u to use it you better do it. That sixth sense can be your best friend. This is my opinion not a fact. At the end of the day, nobody is going to take care of u the way u wanna be taken care of.
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    Jun 16, 2012 11:43 AM GMT
    I would just tell him "I am sorry I am not retarded like you obviously are".
    Well to be honest I wouldn't be with him in the first place.


    It can be tempting not to use a condom but whoever pressures you into not using one is a douche.
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    Jun 16, 2012 11:46 AM GMT
    My ex always wanted to use protection, he was cheated on before by one of his ex's, so he was paranoid that I would. I never did and I found it sort of annoying, we were both clean and exclusive. Ow well, like you said, nobody will take care of you exactly how you want. Relationships vary, what ever works for you. We didn't break up because of this though hahaha, wasn't even remotely a factor.
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    Jun 16, 2012 11:53 AM GMT
    mizzouguy10 saidI think it's cool. I've come to find out that some people are lying pieces of shit who will do anything to get their dick wet.

    You got to be safe out there.
    It seems to me alot of disease occurs when guy trust their partner thinking that they are going to be faithful.
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    Jun 16, 2012 11:55 AM GMT
    Dj1990 saidI would just tell him "I am sorry I am not retarded like you obviously are".
    Well to be honest I wouldn't be with him in the first place.


    It can be tempting not to use a condom but whoever pressures you into not using one is a douche.
    Well said man!
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    Jun 16, 2012 4:31 PM GMT
    I have no problems with condom use and wearing one. I won't have sex without them.

    Personally, I don't see it as a trust issue, it's just something I prefer.

    If someone were to tell me I need to show my trust by having unprotected sex with them, I'd think they weren't mature enough to trust.
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    Jun 16, 2012 5:56 PM GMT
    Timbales saidI have no problems with condom use and wearing one. I won't have sex without them.

    Personally, I don't see it as a trust issue, it's just something I prefer.

    If someone were to tell me I need to show my trust by having unprotected sex with them, I'd think they weren't mature enough to trust.
    excellent point!
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    Jun 16, 2012 5:59 PM GMT
    always use a condom... men are jerks, assholes, douchebags and will do anything to get into your pants.

    Take three fucking years of psychology and then come back and tell me otherwise... oh wait... you'll be on my side shocked at how far men will go to satisfy their need to breed.
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    Jun 16, 2012 7:28 PM GMT
    Have used a condom, don't use one now. We are older, wiser, and are in a very stable relationship. No worries here. If you aren't sure about your partner, that might be a deal breaker.icon_smile.gif
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    Jun 17, 2012 1:19 PM GMT
    Buddyboy938 saidHave used a condom, don't use one now. We are older, wiser, and are in a very stable relationship. No worries here. If you aren't sure about your partner, that might be a deal breaker.icon_smile.gif
    Think u are right and a valid point.
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    Jun 17, 2012 1:20 PM GMT
    _Mohamed_ saidalways use a condom... men are jerks, assholes, douchebags and will do anything to get into your pants.

    Take three fucking years of psychology and then come back and tell me otherwise... oh wait... you'll be on my side shocked at how far men will go to satisfy their need to breed.
    Thats a very scary thought man.
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    Jun 19, 2012 4:52 PM GMT
    Buddyboy938 saidHave used a condom, don't use one now. We are older, wiser, and are in a very stable relationship. No worries here. If you aren't sure about your partner, that might be a deal breaker.icon_smile.gif


    ditto