A night out with colleagues!

  • Nayro

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    Jun 17, 2012 2:18 AM GMT
    storytime!

    I work in a bar/restaurant. This evening we had a reservation of 30 people. It was a really nice group. They happened to be guys, all of them. Some of them really hot actually. During work me and my colleagues kept it very polite, they were a really nice group and were very easy, no annoying comments, very helpful etc. So they told us that after they were done watching the football match at our bar and after dinner they were going to go to the local disco/bar. My colleagues and I decided to go as well. Since usually theres not much to do there, but they were there now and they were a fun bunch. This evening I worked with 4 female colleagues and 1 male colleague. All of the female colleagues are very pretty. So after we were done working. the male colleague and 2 female colleagues went to the bar/disco. The guys were there. A few started talking to us etc. The night proceeded and more alcohol got involved. The guys started to flirt with the girls a little bit and sexy dancing and all of that. Maybe I sound like a little bitch right now but its times like these when Im actually quite jealous of girls. I dont want to be a girl at all, I am a guy and happy with it. But THAT aspect of being a girl, the easy flirting and contacting guys is what Im kindof jealous of. Am i the only one with this interpretation/feeling? Am I way off? I know there are gay bars etc etc. But still. They are not everywhere. Pff Ah well I guess I just needed to vent a little bit ;) Thanks for reading! icon_razz.gif
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    Jun 17, 2012 2:39 AM GMT
    Pay close attention to how much the guys are flirting with the girls. The ones flirting the hardest are the most likely to be closeted.
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    Jun 17, 2012 3:51 AM GMT
    Sometimes I feel the same way when I see hetero holding hands, but then again when the girls know I'm gay and I dirty dance with them to make the guys jealous. That's fun to watch too!
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    Jun 17, 2012 3:39 PM GMT
    Nah you are not alone in this. Every now and then I feel that way too. You could easily approach a guy instead of wondering and looking for signs.
  • Nayro

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    Jun 17, 2012 10:32 PM GMT
    I did approach guys, had some nice talks with some of them. But didn't get any 'gay' vibes whatsoever...