What do you think when you see that a guy has no hotlist.

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    Jun 17, 2012 4:06 PM GMT
    I never had a hotlist partially because I never wanted someone to look at my profile and assume that I might not want to interact with them because of what my hotlist looked like. I've noticed other people on here don't have them either and Want to know how (if at all) it changes the way you think about a guy's profile.
  • Karl

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    Jun 17, 2012 4:19 PM GMT
    I host listed only myself icon_twisted.gif
    just for fun.
    now I dont like host listing anyone , Im shy with those notification email sent.
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    And a guy with blanked hot list , I think he's kinda shy just like me.
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    Jun 17, 2012 4:21 PM GMT
    I usually think, "Damn, he can't find one guy he finds attractive on this site???"
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    Jun 17, 2012 4:23 PM GMT
    #prudealert
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    Jun 17, 2012 4:30 PM GMT
    A couple of ways to think of this..

    - He's afraid of interaction and doesn't want to draw attention to the ones he stalks admires.
    - He messages guys directly and tells them that they are hawt.

    Either way, it doesn't matter to me personally.
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    Jun 17, 2012 4:51 PM GMT
    Good question, I've wondered that myself since the way I am about hotlisting is the same way I am about adopting shelter dogs. If I hotlist one, I'd have to hotlist everybody. So I don't do either.

    http://hark.com/clips/frcbxdmcfh-what-are-you-doing-with-my-puppy-and-these-other-dogs
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    Jun 17, 2012 5:13 PM GMT
    I can't be arsed really. This place is filled with good-looking guys, why would I hot list them again?
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    Jun 17, 2012 5:14 PM GMT
    his BF won´t let him.

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    Jun 17, 2012 5:50 PM GMT
    I cleared my hot list today. People take it too seriously. It was never my "people I'd date list."
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    Jun 17, 2012 7:09 PM GMT
    A lot of RJ members are hot and they know it. I don't want to give them more ammunitions than they already have by hotlisting them just to boost up their ego...
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    Jun 17, 2012 7:12 PM GMT
    I don't have a hot list. I don't remember why I made that decision but all I know is I don't have a hot list. Of course then I joined Big Muscle last month and they have a "Like" list, and I've "liked" about 1000 guys there in a month.
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    Jun 17, 2012 7:14 PM GMT
    I hot list people not necessarily because they are attractive. If I find them to be sincere, genuine, or witty it is great.

    I do it more of a I want to get to know you (by that I don't mean sex).
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    Jun 17, 2012 7:20 PM GMT
    I always looked at it like Facebook's 'poke' feature, and thought it would be better to just message people and try to start a genuine conversation.

    That was before I realized that nobody responds to messages, and even fewer know how to compose a reasonable reply.

    But it allows you to quickly whittle the list down to people that are actually worth talking to. And there's little more important than that, no?
  • ATLANTIS7

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    Jun 17, 2012 7:22 PM GMT
    I do not have Hot List ? What for? What is the point? Dreaming???
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    Jun 17, 2012 7:23 PM GMT
    principal0 saidI always looked at it like Facebook's 'poke' feature, and thought it would be better to just message people and try to start a genuine conversation.

    That was before I realized that nobody responds to messages, and even fewer know how to compose a reasonable reply.

    But it allows you to quickly whittle the list down to people that are actually worth talking to. And there's little more important than that, no?


    exactly!
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    Jun 17, 2012 7:30 PM GMT
    I think I don't care
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    Jun 17, 2012 7:35 PM GMT
    In my case? To a avoid messages such as "I want to shoot my load in ur mouth" something along those lines.
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    Jun 17, 2012 7:35 PM GMT
    Nothing particular, but I find the opposite to be more thought provoking, for example, a guy who has 5000 men on his hotlist. Well, yeah, there are a lot of guys on here that are hot but does not a list that long kind of water down the effect? Plus, what is the meaning of HOT? I could find a man hot for a lot of reasons other than the fact that he is packed with defined muscle.
  • Jerebear

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    Jun 17, 2012 7:36 PM GMT
    GonzoTheGreat saidhis BF won´t let him.



    this.... sort of

    Its more that I dont want any misunderstanding.

    I appreciate the compliment when someone hotlists me, but I wont reciprocate.
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    Jun 17, 2012 7:37 PM GMT
    This affects the quality of my life how exactly? icon_confused.gif
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    Jun 17, 2012 7:57 PM GMT
    charlitos saidIn my case? To a avoid messages such as "I want to shoot my load in ur mouth" something along those lines.
    Your current profile pic isn't helping. icon_lol.gif
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    Jun 17, 2012 8:00 PM GMT
    I currently dont have one because I spend all my time on RJ in the forums. Have not really got around to looking thru too many profiles other than people that post regularly
  • PBLH

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    Jun 17, 2012 8:28 PM GMT
    FitBudz101 saidI don't hot list 'cos i find it a bit trite. If i get hot listed i check their profile and if their hot list doesn't extend to more than a few dozen i send a "Thank you" and see if they've got anything substantive to say.
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    I totally agree...substance is often hard to find but I will say that when you do it's great.
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    Jun 17, 2012 8:29 PM GMT
    I think...wait, I don't care.
  • TheBizMan

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    Jun 17, 2012 8:31 PM GMT
    I started to hot list people but then promptly stopped when I realized I could add 50% or more of RJ's population.

    What's da point?