How can I have a bf?? I've never had one

  • jiro824

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    Jun 18, 2012 6:28 AM GMT
    I've never had one because I was closet but now I kinda want one but can't meet the right guy icon_confused.gif
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    Jun 18, 2012 6:29 AM GMT
    Post nude pics.
  • jiro824

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    Jun 18, 2012 6:31 AM GMT
    thats not cool man lol
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    Jun 18, 2012 6:34 AM GMT
    jiro824 saidthats not cool man lol


    Well if you want to get attention, do that, then just weed out from the stalkers/freaks who is good then you'll find the right guy.
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    Jun 18, 2012 6:36 AM GMT
    Start talking to guys. Don't worry too much about finding a BF yet. Get to know some guys and see where it goes. Don't rush it.
  • jiro824

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    Jun 18, 2012 6:37 AM GMT
    DudeInNOVA saidStart talking to guys. Don't worry too much about finding a BF yet. Get to know some guys and see where it goes. Don't rush it.


    thanks man!
  • McMacster

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    Jun 18, 2012 12:44 PM GMT
    go to bars/clubs, online dating sooo many ways to find guys icon_cool.gif
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    Jun 19, 2012 12:13 PM GMT
    Jiro get your butt on facebook and check out your friends list. Almost half of your friends would want to go out on a date with you.

    and ima message you later cuz you still owe me a graduation gift
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    Jun 19, 2012 1:33 PM GMT
    mortal12 saidJiro get your butt on facebook and check out your friends list. Almost half of your friends would want to go out on a date with you.

    and ima message you later cuz you still owe me a graduation gift

    doesn't mean he wants go out with themicon_wink.gif

    OP: try broadening your social circle
  • great_scott

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    Jun 19, 2012 2:12 PM GMT
    Might have to reconsider your preferences a little. It's easy to get laid with the "straight"/DL/bi-curious crowds, but they're usually not looking for much outside of sex.
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    Jun 19, 2012 4:18 PM GMT
    Truppensturm said
    mortal12 saidJiro get your butt on facebook and check out your friends list. Almost half of your friends would want to go out on a date with you.

    and ima message you later cuz you still owe me a graduation gift

    doesn't mean he wants go out with themicon_wink.gif

    OP: try broadening your social circle


    That's my point. He may have to weave through that phase of "wanting those who ignore him, and ignoring those who want him" lol

    but in addition to building your circle and opening your preferences also try to keep in mind that sometimes its not about necessarily finding the right person as it is building the right relationship

    good luck brotha
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    Jun 19, 2012 4:46 PM GMT
    Step 1 Locate a gay man
    Step 2 Go on a date and see if you two click
    Step 3 If you click ask him to be your boyfriend
    Step 4 unprotected sex in a church confessional
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    Jun 19, 2012 5:29 PM GMT
    Just smile and be yourself, the most beautiful you are and some day, a prince charming will come for you icon_smile.gif
  • hahahehehoho

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    Jun 19, 2012 11:52 PM GMT
    I FEEL EXACTLY THE SAME!!! I have odd phases of really wanting a relationship but I either get scared or can't find someone lol. Mmmm... I guess the right guy is always hard for everyone, right? Not just for physical appeal but the one you want to spend all your time with kind of guy. I don't think there is any sure-fire way of finding him. So like many have said before I think it is easier to be yourself and make your gay social circle larger. It is what I am trying (but failing) to do right now
  • emsomeo

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    Jun 21, 2012 5:44 PM GMT
    well , when my ass is small , i have no boyfriend , no sexfriend . And when my ass bigger and bigger , many guy hit on me , someone give me money for sex ( of couse i'm not that type) .I think its not too hard to find someone if you show some "good parts"
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    Jun 21, 2012 5:50 PM GMT
    Same here buddy. Never had a boyfriend, only a couple dates. I dunno, I think I scare people.
  • jiro824

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    Jun 21, 2012 6:31 PM GMT
    Lash saidSame here buddy. Never had a boyfriend, only a couple dates. I dunno, I think I scare people.


    whaaaaat!! U look good and no bf?? ;
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    Jun 21, 2012 7:05 PM GMT
    McMacster saidgo to bars/clubs, online dating sooo many ways to find guys icon_cool.gif

    He can't go to full bars if his profile age is correct: 19. But maybe someone can point him to some gay teen non-alcoholic bars in LA. And do they have functions, like in some college communities, where underage wear a wristband (or alternatively, only over 21 wear one), so that teens can be at a club or function with alcohol and older men, but are only served non-alcoholic.
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    Jun 21, 2012 8:18 PM GMT
    jiro824 said
    Lash saidSame here buddy. Never had a boyfriend, only a couple dates. I dunno, I think I scare people.


    whaaaaat!! U look good and no bf?? ;


    Well it's the same with you! Let's just get married.
  • jiro824

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    Jun 21, 2012 9:19 PM GMT
    Lash said
    jiro824 said
    Lash saidSame here buddy. Never had a boyfriend, only a couple dates. I dunno, I think I scare people.


    whaaaaat!! U look good and no bf?? ;


    Well it's the same with you! Let's just get married.

    icon_biggrin.gif
  • jiro824

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    Jun 21, 2012 9:20 PM GMT
    Art_Deco said
    McMacster saidgo to bars/clubs, online dating sooo many ways to find guys icon_cool.gif

    He can't go to full bars if his profile age is correct: 19. But maybe someone can point him to some gay teen non-alcoholic bars in LA. And do they have functions, like in some college communities, where underage wear a wristband (or alternatively, only over 21 wear one), so that teens can be at a club or function with alcohol and older men, but are only served non-alcoholic.


    I'm new in L.A..so which gay club is the best?
  • musclejames

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    Jun 23, 2012 4:51 PM GMT
    jiro824 saidI've never had one because I was closet but now I kinda want one but can't meet the right guy icon_confused.gif


    I feel you man. I am trying a new strategy, I am going to make as many guy friends as possible..

    When I meet a new one, I will always assume friends first, and put all my energy into becoming friends.

    Eventually, I will find my best friend and marry him..

    Fingers crossed!