Dating & the things I've learned from it...

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    Jun 18, 2012 4:24 PM GMT
    I was having a flashback on some of the MAJOR fuck-ups I've had in dating & I realised I am better than they are, in so many ways! One instance occurred while watching Waiting to Exhale (yes, that movie, minus burning the clothes!) when John left Bernie after 11 years of marriage for a white woman.
    My situation was, after a few months of dating & treating him like an equal, the jack-ass I was being kind to decided to dump me for a heavily hairy-backed, nasty, used-up, dried-over, sour dishrag smellin' pre-op x-sexual. Admittedly, I was heated behind it but then, i realised, as he wanted to be free so bad, he could've traded me up for something a HELL of a lot better. His response was, "Would it matter if it were another man?", and my response was, "No, it would matter if YOU were a man." Out of it all, he tried to hurt my feelings with leaving me, instead his ego was crushed. What I found out really shocked me. He didn't wanna be with me because I'm not a drama-laden pushover. He was intimidated by the fact that I treated him like an equal, plus, I never knew he was the violent type. After he left me for that nasty thing, they were trying to rub in my face about they're being together; a few weeks passed, his new tranny lover was sitting in the hospital, due to getting hit upside the head quite a few times by the said jack-ass ex-lover. I had a MAJOR laugh at their relationship. I saw those bruises on the new item & I confronted them both on it & it hit me... He left me because he wanted someone weaker than he was & being with someone who kept themselves together really intimidated him because he's scared of the gym & he's considered "competition". The funny thing was, he pursued me, as I was trying to keep my icy side away from him simply because he convinced me into thinking he wasn't like any of the local garbage piles around here. But he found out in the end how icy I can really get...I had a party, those 2 darkened my doorstep like we were still friends & ppl who know me well, know I can turn the silent treatment into an art form. So now these days, I don't talk to them anymore & the feeling is more than mutual. The tranny underwent re-assignment surgery & still, to this day, can't look me in the face like a human being... Any ideas or thoughts?
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    Jun 18, 2012 4:39 PM GMT
    So you hate trannies. Glad to know that.
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    Jun 18, 2012 4:47 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidSo you hate trannies. Glad to know that.



    No I don't hate trannies, its just not my cup of tea, otherwise I would get a real woman(: Out of ALL that was described above, all you've got is that I hate trannies? C'mon, read some more...icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jun 18, 2012 5:22 PM GMT
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    paulflexes saidSo you hate trannies. Glad to know that.



    No I don't hate trannies, its just not my cup of tea, otherwise I would get a real woman(: Out of ALL that was described above, all you've got is that I hate trannies? C'mon, read some more...icon_rolleyes.gif
    No need to read more. You've established your disdain for people who are different.

    Although his violence is a different story, I don't blame him for leaving you.
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    Jun 18, 2012 5:38 PM GMT
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    paulflexes saidSo you hate trannies. Glad to know that.



    No I don't hate trannies, its just not my cup of tea, otherwise I would get a real woman(: Out of ALL that was described above, all you've got is that I hate trannies? C'mon, read some more...icon_rolleyes.gif
    No need to read more. You've established your disdain for people who are different.

    Although his violence is a different story, I don't blame him for leaving you.


    Why don't you move here to KC? I'm sure you would have better luck with the selection around here, since it seems it would be more to your tastes. He left because getting treated like an equal turned him off. The least he could've did was choose someone else better, someone who believes in hygiene but whatever helps you sleep at nighticon_smile.gif

    When it's said & done, he prefers trannies & I don't compete with that.icon_cool.gif
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    Jun 18, 2012 5:57 PM GMT
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    paulflexes said
    LetItFlow2012 said
    paulflexes saidSo you hate trannies. Glad to know that.



    No I don't hate trannies, its just not my cup of tea, otherwise I would get a real woman(: Out of ALL that was described above, all you've got is that I hate trannies? C'mon, read some more...icon_rolleyes.gif
    No need to read more. You've established your disdain for people who are different.

    Although his violence is a different story, I don't blame him for leaving you.


    Why don't you move here to KC? I'm sure you would have better luck with the selection around here, ...
    Of course I would. I was raised on a farm in the sticks of Arkansas, over 100 miles from any major city, came out at age 21 there, and had no trouble finding decent boyfriends.