What do you think of gay nudist group pool parties where sex becomes an orgy.

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    Jun 18, 2012 8:00 PM GMT
    I went to my first pool party with CMEN nudist group. Afterward I felt dirty about it all. The guys were not attractive and out of shape. From the very start of the party there were guys bouncing up and down having sex on the downstairs bed. Then there were about 40 guys throughout the house. Is this common with nudist groups and parties? I went with a guy I am dating.
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    Jun 18, 2012 8:03 PM GMT
    Sounds hot. icon_lol.gif
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    Jun 18, 2012 8:10 PM GMT
    braddomo said I went with a guy I am dating.

    I've never been to a pool party.. but yours sounds like a unusual date! icon_eek.gif
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    Jun 18, 2012 8:13 PM GMT
    Yes, young man, it IS the usual for sex to happen at CMEN and other gay male nude parties. Was it REALLY that big a surprise?
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    Jun 18, 2012 8:31 PM GMT
    Events held by legitimate gay naturist groups are NOT sex orgies. Here's one to which I belonged for a number of years:

    http://www.nakedmn.org/welcome.html

    http://www.nakedmn.org/links/links.html (Here are links to gay naturist groups you might consider trying, although CMEN is one)

    From the club web site: Sex is natural and healthy, but as they say, there's a right time and place for everything. Naked Minnesota events are NOT sex parties. Sexual activity at events is prohibited and can lead to expulsion from the group. No, we are not prudes and enjoy being friendly and physical, but we also know where to draw the line.

    It is rumored that all Naked Minnesota events are followed by sex parties. While we do not dictate what our event hosts and attendees do after events, we hope that you are interested in our events and not just the hope of a little action afterwards. Perhaps you will find a frisky date among the attendees but a sex party is unlikely.


    In practice this meant that when an event hosted at a member's home was officially over, he could choose to invite some or all of the club members to become his own private guests. Given the option, some usually stayed, but never all. Then the party was his, not the club's. Or he might choose not to have an after-party at all, and we all left at the same time.

    But if any sex or sex play was attempted during the official posted hours of the event, that member could be expelled from the group (and some were). I never saw that rule ignored.

    BTW, one of my favorite memories of Naked Minnesota was an "Orphan's Thanksgiving Dinner" for single members one year. I was the co-host, 12 of seated at an opulent formal table in another member's private home, all naked. Except I did wear a bow tie. And there was no sex during our gathering.
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    Jun 18, 2012 8:55 PM GMT
    ChoklitDaddy saidYes, young man, it IS the usual for sex to happen at CMEN and other gay male nude parties. Was it REALLY that big a surprise?


    I knew there would be sex. They stated a separate "discrete area" was available. But when we got there the whole house, in the pool, and out of the pool was a sex zone. After going to a CMG men's gathering event where sex is only allowed in one of the cabins, and not elsewhere or you get kicked out. PS. most of the orgy guys were from age 65 and up. Not saying that is bad.
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    Jun 18, 2012 9:29 PM GMT
    Despite what the description said, are you really surprised that 40 naked gay men in one place were fucking like jackrabbits? icon_smile.gif

    I agree with others that there's a difference between gay nudism and gay orgy.

    Personally, there's a place and time for both for me.

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    Jun 18, 2012 9:31 PM GMT
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    ChoklitDaddy saidYes, young man, it IS the usual for sex to happen at CMEN and other gay male nude parties. Was it REALLY that big a surprise?


    I knew there would be sex. They stated a separate "discrete area" was available. But when we got there the whole house, in the pool, and out of the pool was a sex zone. After going to a CMG men's gathering event where sex is only allowed in one of the cabins, and not elsewhere or you get kicked out. PS. most of the orgy guys were from age 65 and up. Not saying that is bad.

    As I wrote above, although CMEN is a recognized gay naturist group, there are rules of conduct that most of them follow. There's really no overall governing body, though GNI (Gay Naturists International) would be the closest at present. And what you experienced is, to my understanding, discouraged by GNI and other groups. Here is the official GNI statement on sexuality:

    Our goal is to promote healthy, legal, non-sexual nude recreation. While GNI knows sex is natural, sex is not equated with naturism. We respect our members for their individuality (whether or not they choose to express their sexuality), seek to respect individual sensibilities as may be appropriate, and encourage our members to do the same. We also encourage sexually active individuals to practice safer sex.
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    Jun 18, 2012 10:13 PM GMT
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    braddomo said
    ChoklitDaddy saidYes, young man, it IS the usual for sex to happen at CMEN and other gay male nude parties. Was it REALLY that big a surprise?


    I knew there would be sex. They stated a separate "discrete area" was available. But when we got there the whole house, in the pool, and out of the pool was a sex zone. After going to a CMG men's gathering event where sex is only allowed in one of the cabins, and not elsewhere or you get kicked out. PS. most of the orgy guys were from age 65 and up. Not saying that is bad.

    As I wrote above, although CMEN is a recognized gay naturist group, there are rules of conduct that most of them follow. There's really no overall governing body, though GNI (Gay Naturists International) would be the closest at present. And what you experienced is, to my understanding, discouraged by GNI and other groups. Here is the official GNI statement on sexuality:

    Our goal is to promote healthy, legal, non-sexual nude recreation. While GNI knows sex is natural, sex is not equated with naturism. We respect our members for their individuality (whether or not they choose to express their sexuality), seek to respect individual sensibilities as may be appropriate, and encourage our members to do the same. We also encourage sexually active individuals to practice safer sex.


    Thanks for your posts. No this party was based on sex and names did not really matter for most which was sad to see. Of course I got excited watching a few guys...but also at the same time, disgusted.
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    Jun 18, 2012 11:12 PM GMT
    braddomo said
    Art_Deco said
    braddomo said
    ChoklitDaddy saidYes, young man, it IS the usual for sex to happen at CMEN and other gay male nude parties. Was it REALLY that big a surprise?


    I knew there would be sex. They stated a separate "discrete area" was available. But when we got there the whole house, in the pool, and out of the pool was a sex zone. After going to a CMG men's gathering event where sex is only allowed in one of the cabins, and not elsewhere or you get kicked out. PS. most of the orgy guys were from age 65 and up. Not saying that is bad.

    As I wrote above, although CMEN is a recognized gay naturist group, there are rules of conduct that most of them follow. There's really no overall governing body, though GNI (Gay Naturists International) would be the closest at present. And what you experienced is, to my understanding, discouraged by GNI and other groups. Here is the official GNI statement on sexuality:

    Our goal is to promote healthy, legal, non-sexual nude recreation. While GNI knows sex is natural, sex is not equated with naturism. We respect our members for their individuality (whether or not they choose to express their sexuality), seek to respect individual sensibilities as may be appropriate, and encourage our members to do the same. We also encourage sexually active individuals to practice safer sex.


    Thanks for your posts. No this party was based on sex and names did not really matter for most which was sad to see. Of course I got excited watching a few guys...but also at the same time, disgusted.


    Have had some of the same things happen at CMEN. Not all Gay Naked events/parites turn into an orgy.
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    Jun 19, 2012 9:28 PM GMT
    icon_neutral.gif I would have to attend a few to form a fully informed opinion.
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    Jun 20, 2012 2:03 AM GMT
    I went to a nude pool-party in the Bay-area, CA and the crowd was mixed, plenty of people I knew and the sex was limited to 2 rooms. Plenty of sex happened in there, in other places it was more just cuddling or a lil' groping. So if you didn't want to participate, you could just hang out.