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I seriously need to tone down my social personality......and try to be a bit more like my bf , who is pretty much could pass as a ( cop ) with his bad ass vibes, " a little bit more he could be a typical football jock chasing boobs and vaginas...

Reason be... why i say this....... my over the top ( social personality )open to talk to anyone gives people wrong messages like " im into u " , "interested ". which is not the case, now a classmate of a friend is talking to me in a Perverted flirty way, that makes his lady friends think that me and him got something going on .......( BARF ....) .

Don't get me wrong im a nice guy, but when a gay guy creeps me out, then that gay guy is saying something really really disturbing. especially when he knows im with someone. much more disturbing is that he ends his conversation on the phone by saying things when u get here , ill give u ur reward ?

WTF ! im pretty sure there are tons of muscle boys, and bodybuilders he could try to molest or get in bed with, since he is going to " PARIS " cause he got a " FASHION SCHOLARSHIP " he is holding a good bye party, first he said at his house, then he said at ( END UP - GAY BAR at CASTRO ) oh boy.... i got a feeling he intends to get me drunk, i told him i might be able to attend his get together but then again i have my bf who hates seeing me go somewhere in Castro since he war raised by a " Conservative Parents" and acts like a typical ( STR*8 Jock he tends to be bisexual and from what i noticed really not used to the gay scene in sf... he got issues sometimes he likes girls still so ...eh )

anyway if im going just one beer, or two and effin leave before my that Fashion Student thinks im going to go all the way...........( AAAAhhhhhh Barf thanks but nope. )

Can't help the social side of me ... when somebody talks to me , i talk back, .......holy crap........??????????

only thing i know being social , people already concluded i must be either gay or bisexual cause appearantly to them , too friendly = gay or bisexual .

no clue what made them think that reasoning

im pretty sure there are hetero people that are social as me...

This really needed a "Dear Diary.." at the beginning and then it would have had everything.

Hold the phone Sally!

There's a lil gay boy barkin at your door sending you all the WRONG messages and despite having a boyfriend, you continue to let him casually flirt with you.

BUT WAIT, there's more! You plan to attend this wanton little firefly's going away party?

Ahem... let's face it you are basking in the attention of this "pervy gay guy". You like it. You want more of it.

Because it's not that hard to flap your gums and simply say: "Thanks.. but no thanks"

matt saidThis really needed a "Dear Diary.." at the beginning and then it would have had everything.

^^ I vote this "Best first post ever on RJ".

matt saidThis really needed a "Dear Diary.." at the beginning and then it would have had everything.

dear diary is taken, how about dear john..... no wait dear jane ????.. even bettet dear lorf wtf lol

TheBizMan saidHold the phone Sally!

There's a lil gay boy barkin at your door sending you all the WRONG messages and despite having a boyfriend, you continue to let him casually flirt with you.

BUT WAIT, there's more! You plan to attend this wanton little firefly's going away party?

Ahem... let's face it you are basking in the attention of this "pervy gay guy". You like it. You want more of it.

Because it's not that hard to flap your gums and simply say: "Thanks.. but no thanks"

i could say no thanks but it would send wrong message to a person who openly invited me to a farewell party, even though i barely know him he did made an effort to invite someone he barely knows that to me is a pretty cool thing he might invited me cause im friendly or very social towards him n his buds. if the party wasnt a farewell party... I would haved said no thanks.. but its his last stay in America.... chance to break the stereotype of Americans being rude n anti social

yourname2000 said

matt saidThis really needed a "Dear Diary.." at the beginning and then it would have had everything.

^^ I vote this "Best first post ever on RJ".

highly doubtful

Its like saying sucking cock is the same as licking a vagina

MarcBodybuilding said

TheBizMan saidHold the phone Sally!

There's a lil gay boy barkin at your door sending you all the WRONG messages and despite having a boyfriend, you continue to let him casually flirt with you.

BUT WAIT, there's more! You plan to attend this wanton little firefly's going away party?

Ahem... let's face it you are basking in the attention of this "pervy gay guy". You like it. You want more of it.

Because it's not that hard to flap your gums and simply say: "Thanks.. but no thanks"

i could say no thanks but it would send wrong message to a person who openly invited me to a farewell party, even though i barely know him he did made an effort to invite someone he barely knows that to me is a pretty cool thing he might invited me cause im friendly or very social towards him n his buds. if the party wasnt a farewell party... I would haved said no thanks.. but its his last stay in America.... chance to break the stereotype of Americans being rude n anti social

And yet you sit here online, blasting him behind his back about how pervy and intrusive he is.

Suree...

W/e you gotta tell yourself boo bear.

Have a nice time at the soiree. Hope you have lots of fun chit chats.

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MarcBodybuilding said

TheBizMan saidHold the phone Sally!

There's a lil gay boy barkin at your door sending you all the WRONG messages and despite having a boyfriend, you continue to let him casually flirt with you.

BUT WAIT, there's more! You plan to attend this wanton little firefly's going away party?

Ahem... let's face it you are basking in the attention of this "pervy gay guy". You like it. You want more of it.

Because it's not that hard to flap your gums and simply say: "Thanks.. but no thanks"

i could say no thanks but it would send wrong message to a person who openly invited me to a farewell party, even though i barely know him he did made an effort to invite someone he barely knows that to me is a pretty cool thing he might invited me cause im friendly or very social towards him n his buds. if the party wasnt a farewell party... I would haved said no thanks.. but its his last stay in America.... chance to break the stereotype of Americans being rude n anti social

And yet you sit here online, blasting him behind his back about how pervy and intrusive he is.

Suree...

W/e you gotta tell yourself boo bear.

Have a nice time at the soiree. Hope you have lots of fun chit


It might be behind his back...better here to let off steam than to vent it out in person. plus its open to critics, can be helpful to me. Critics can view it and react to it in anyway positive or negative. plus forums is useful tool to get something off ur mind may it be deep, silly ,wacky...