Discomfort while bottoming.

  • hard4men69

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    Jun 21, 2012 1:23 AM GMT
    It seemed that most times I've bottomed, no matter my partners size, it is pleasurable until he his fully in, then there is a slight pain/discomfort. When he pulls out slightly or doesn't fully penetrate, there is no discomfort. I've been with guys a different sizes and it doesn't matter if it 6 inches or 8; the discomfort doesn't set in until he's fully in. I'm just curious if anyone has any idea what causes the discomfort or if it's just something I have to keep dealing with until I have more experience. I plan of seeing a doctor if it continues but just thought I'd see if anyone had any preliminary ideas.
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    Aug 06, 2012 1:38 PM GMT
    Lots of guys have this - sometimes physiological due to anatomical variations, sometimes issues with disease like prostatitis. When was your last STI screen?
  • hard4men69

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    Aug 12, 2012 3:08 PM GMT
    Thanks for the reply. So if it is physiological due to anatomical variations, I'm guessing there isn't much I can do besides get use to it? Any chance of it going away with more experience? If it isn't prostatitis or anything like that is it dangerous or harmful to continue with anal.

    My last STI screening was about 9 months ago. What (if any) Sti would cause this?
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    Aug 19, 2012 12:02 PM GMT
    Or you could just be a good bottom and take the dick without complainingicon_biggrin.gif
  • FireDoor211

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    Aug 19, 2012 8:51 PM GMT
    It might be because most guys have a bit of extra girth towards the base. It could be just a little more stretch than u can handle
  • rnch

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    Aug 19, 2012 9:53 PM GMT
    (I'm going to get flamed for this......but.........since you "aksed"....)

    a snort from a "brown bottle" of poppers, about 10 seconds before your top tries to insert, will relax your anus and he will slide right in.