Thinking about going to a gay sauna - first time?

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    Jun 21, 2012 8:20 PM GMT
    Hey,

    There's a gay sauna about 30 minutes from where I live which I've wanted to visit for a while now, but I've always felt nervous about it. Do you think it would be better to go with someone I know or just take the plunge and go by myself? Do you guys have any experiences with gay saunas?

    Thanks! Any advice appreciated! icon_smile.gif
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    Jun 21, 2012 9:32 PM GMT
    Haven't experienced any up north, but have been to one in swindon (twice) and newport, south wales (once), each time with a mate. Swindon was great and we both had a great time with different guys there, newport was too cruisy with much older guys drifting in and out all the time. They are discreet places. No-one should find out thatbyou've gone and as everyone there is after the same thing, more or less, then no one will judge you. Be open minded, but dont get involved in anything you dont want to do, or feel comfortable doing. You will quickly pick up on the signs if someone is interested in getting it on with you, be it a subtle touch of your foot in the sauna, or a more obvious 'can i play with that?'. Go, enjoy, report back.