Dating your best friends ex?

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    Jun 22, 2012 10:31 PM GMT
    Would u cross this line, if u got your best friend blessing? Bad move in my opinion. Down the road... there's trouble lying aheadicon_exclaim.gif
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    Jun 22, 2012 11:00 PM GMT
    Lima3016 saidWould u cross this line, if u got your best friend blessing? Bad move in my opinion. Down the road... there's trouble lying aheadicon_exclaim.gif
    Umm, if your best friend says it's okay, then that kind of removes the illusion of having to "cross the line". Just saying.
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    Jun 22, 2012 11:05 PM GMT
    Yeahhhh I would agree with the OP and the Awesome frog guy, it is a catastrophe waiting to happen.
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    Jun 22, 2012 11:15 PM GMT
    even if ur best friend says it's OK, he'll prob still think and hope u two break up.

    besides, why would u want ur best friend's sloppy seconds? is he that desireable and irrestible? lol
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    Jun 22, 2012 11:20 PM GMT
    If I dated any of my best friend's ex's I wouldn't be gay... Plus, he's really into the sluts icon_neutral.gif So, no, not even if he insisted...
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    Jun 22, 2012 11:21 PM GMT
    Just_Tim saidIf I dated any of my best friend's ex's I wouldn't be gay...

    QFT

    However, if you're insinuating my best friend would be another gay guy... I don't think I would just because we'd probably be incompatible as fuck.
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    Jun 22, 2012 11:26 PM GMT
    Import saideven if ur best friend says it's OK, he'll prob still think and hope u two break up.

    besides, why would u want ur best friend's sloppy seconds? is he that desireable and irrestible? lol
    Excellent point, thats why i would never cross that line. Some rules u just dont mess with.
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    Jun 22, 2012 11:28 PM GMT
    Don't do it!

    It's asking for trouble
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    Jun 22, 2012 11:28 PM GMT
    MuchoMasQueMusculo saidSounds like drama waiting to happen, if you ask me.
    Yes...it will happen
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    Jun 22, 2012 11:30 PM GMT
    Hunahpu saidDon't do it!

    It's asking for trouble
    u bet i wonticon_lol.gif
  • tuffguyndc

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    Jun 23, 2012 3:54 AM GMT
    i guess i am different from most of the people i know and so are my friends. we have a rule and that rule is that you do not take your friends exes.
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    Jun 23, 2012 4:15 AM GMT
    tuffguyndc saidi guess i am different from most of the people i know and so are my friends. we have a rule and that rule is that you do not take your friends exes.
    I live by the same code, Its understood.
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    Jun 23, 2012 7:13 AM GMT
    Shit happened... not with my "best" friends ex but still... friends ex... It was a one time thing and I've felt guilty ever since. I knew it was a bad idea from the start but still I went through with it.

    don't recommend it, no matter how desperately lonesome you think you are.
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    Jun 23, 2012 8:15 AM GMT
    I've seen it multiple times turn to hell. Even when the best friend says its ok. Do you really think they're going to tell the truth and look like a selfish dick? They will say they're cool with it but many times it will kill them inside.
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    Jun 23, 2012 9:16 AM GMT
    Shouldn't break the guy code whether you're gay or straight.
    My brother and I had the same best friend for years...until last year. When the guy got dumped by his girlfriend and he fell apart. Seeing as how he was an egomaniac, he didnt take it well. So about two weeks after they decided they couldn't reconcile, he went after my brother's girlfriend. Less than a year later, they're now married. Guess the trash took itself to the curb for us. (What the ho bag girl doesnt know...is that he disclosed his "kinda bi-ness" to me about a month before all hell broke loose. She'll find out...the hardway)
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    Jun 23, 2012 9:43 AM GMT
    Lima3016 saidWould u cross this line, if u got your best friend blessing? Bad move in my opinion. Down the road... there's trouble lying aheadicon_exclaim.gif


    Depends...

    1. How long have they been separated?
    2. Did their relationship end amicably?
    3. Do the two get along well now?
    4. Have you asked your friend if it's ok?
    5. Is the person hot enough that it'd be worth risking your friendship?

    Ok...the last one was a joke. Seriously though, you have to ask your friend if it's cool. If it's not, that guy is off limits. In most cases, you're asking for trouble.
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    Jun 23, 2012 10:08 AM GMT
    bros b4 ho's
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    Jun 23, 2012 11:54 AM GMT
    redsoxfan791 said
    Lima3016 saidWould u cross this line, if u got your best friend blessing? Bad move in my opinion. Down the road... there's trouble lying aheadicon_exclaim.gif


    Depends...

    1. How long have they been separated?
    2. Did their relationship end amicably?
    3. Do the two get along well now?
    4. Have you asked your friend if it's ok?
    5. Is the person hot enough that it'd be worth risking your friendship?

    Ok...the last one was a joke. Seriously though, you have to ask your friend if it's cool. If it's not, that guy is off limits. In most cases, you're asking for trouble.


    I agree with pretty much all of those haha. Still the chances are slim. I'd definitely have to be hit by the 'thunderbolt' to consider risking a friendship. And even then.
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    Jun 23, 2012 11:56 AM GMT
    In nearly all situations, it's just wrong.
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    Jun 23, 2012 12:01 PM GMT
    notadumbjock saidbros b4 ho's
    Best way to put iticon_lol.gif
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    Jun 23, 2012 12:03 PM GMT
    redsoxfan791 said
    Lima3016 saidWould u cross this line, if u got your best friend blessing? Bad move in my opinion. Down the road... there's trouble lying aheadicon_exclaim.gif


    Depends...

    1. How long have they been separated?
    2. Did their relationship end amicably?
    3. Do the two get along well now?
    4. Have you asked your friend if it's ok?
    5. Is the person hot enough that it'd be worth risking your friendship?

    Ok...the last one was a joke. Seriously though, you have to ask your friend if it's cool. If it's not, that guy is off limits. In most cases, you're asking for trouble.
    I see what you are saying. But still some lines were never meant to be crossed.
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    Jun 23, 2012 12:30 PM GMT
    Import saideven if ur best friend says it's OK, he'll prob still think and hope u two break up.

    besides, why would u want ur best friend's sloppy seconds? is he that desireable and irrestible? lol


    everyone is going to be someone's ex at some point of time, does that mean we are all sloppy seconds/ thirds/ fourths? i just think sloppy seconds is just way too harsh to describe a person.

    just because he is your best friend's ex, does that make him less creditable? i think not. everyone deserves a chance, or lucky ones deserves many chances.

    and, best friends normally have similar personality or common traits, so i think it is only normal if the ex falls for people with the similar personality.

    peace icon_smile.gif