Apparently friendly is the new horny

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    Jun 22, 2012 11:27 PM GMT
    Im sure I can't be the only one to have this happen to them. Like many other gays out there, I have a grindr account. If you message, I'll respond. I'm not rude. But since when does me saying "hey" mean that I want a hook up.
    Guys, stop making assumptions, sometimes a hey, is just a hey
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    Jun 23, 2012 12:27 AM GMT
    Isn't grindr a hook-up thing?
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    Jun 23, 2012 12:28 AM GMT
    ConfederateGhost saidIsn't grindr a hook-up thing?

    Yes, and no. Most would say yes but I do not and have never used it as such. Though the thought has crossed my mind.
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    Jun 23, 2012 12:35 AM GMT
    I've tried Grindr here lately just to see if there were any other gay people in my area (around my age) I could just be friends with. Any of them that messaged me ended up saying "When do you wanna fuck?" or something along those lines.

    What happened to just being friends...
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    Jun 23, 2012 12:36 AM GMT
    What did I tell you guys! Just last night I was talking about guys posting "Heavens to Betsy I got sexually propositioned on Grindr!" threads and what do we have here???
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    Jun 23, 2012 12:38 AM GMT
    I don't know much about grindr. I'm a southern gentleman...we don't do that sort of thing.
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    Jun 23, 2012 12:38 AM GMT
    Ariodante saidWhat did I tell you guys! Just last night I was talking about guys posting "Heavens to Betsy I got sexually propositioned on Grindr!" threads and what do we have here???

    I know! I know! It's what I expect. But, I've actually made friends from there. Strange how the world works.
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    Jun 23, 2012 12:39 AM GMT
    ConfederateGhost saidI don't know much about grindr. I'm a southern gentleman...we don't do that sort of thing.


    What sorts of things do southern gentleman do =o?
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    Jun 23, 2012 12:41 AM GMT
    That's a loaded gun.


    Ariodante said
    ConfederateGhost saidI don't know much about grindr. I'm a southern gentleman...we don't do that sort of thing.


    What sorts of things do southern gentleman do =o?
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    Jun 23, 2012 12:41 AM GMT
    my friend has on his "hey is not a binding agreement"
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    Jun 23, 2012 12:42 AM GMT
    ConfederateGhost saidThat's a loaded gun.




    I bet it's a big loaded gun huh ;o
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    Jun 23, 2012 12:42 AM GMT
    That thing in their pants does their thinking for them.
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    Jun 23, 2012 12:42 AM GMT
    I see what you're trying to do here Ariotrickster.


    Ariodante said
    ConfederateGhost saidThat's a loaded gun.




    I bet it's a big loaded gun huh ;o
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    Jun 23, 2012 12:43 AM GMT
    ConfederateGhost saidI see what you're trying to do here Ariotrickster.




    Blast! And I would have gotten away with it if it hadn't been for those meddlesome kids icon_evil.gif
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    Jun 23, 2012 12:45 AM GMT
    You mean those kids I saw you just pull in your big white creeper van that says "PIED PIPER" on the side?


    Ariodante said
    ConfederateGhost saidI see what you're trying to do here Ariotrickster.




    Blast! And I would have gotten away with it if it hadn't been for those meddlesome kids icon_evil.gif
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    Jun 23, 2012 12:45 AM GMT
    Ariodante said
    ConfederateGhost saidI see what you're trying to do here Ariotrickster.




    Blast! And I would have gotten away with it if it hadn't been for those meddlesome kids icon_evil.gif

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    Jun 23, 2012 12:46 AM GMT
    oh great. The lesbians arrived.
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    Jun 23, 2012 12:46 AM GMT
    ConfederateGhost saidYou mean those kids I saw you just pull in your big white creeper van that says "PIED PIPER" on the side?




    LIES MINE SAYS FREE BACON icon_evil.gif

    I mean....what van..? >_>
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    Jun 23, 2012 12:47 AM GMT
    Is it regular bacon, or turkey bacon? This makes a huge difference in what direction our friendship goes.


    Ariodante said
    ConfederateGhost saidYou mean those kids I saw you just pull in your big white creeper van that says "PIED PIPER" on the side?




    LIES MINE SAYS FREE BACON icon_evil.gif

    I mean....what van..? >_>
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    Jun 23, 2012 12:48 AM GMT
    Last I ck'ed Grinder was a hookup site? i dunno?
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    Jun 23, 2012 12:49 AM GMT
    Those apps are basically worthless in my opinion.
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    Jun 23, 2012 12:51 AM GMT
    On Grindr, merely acknowledging someone's existence means "Gimme a handy-jay in the bathroom" or whatever. I don't have a lot of sympathy for these "HOLY SHIT you get HOOKUP requests on GRINDER!?" posts.

    That said, when you're on a site like this one - or any other generally not-cruisy type gay social sites - it's still a pretty common phenomenon to have people respond to basic human kindness as though it's an invitation to sex. Some gay guys are used to getting shot down so much that simply not being shot down seems like a green light.
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    Jun 23, 2012 12:51 AM GMT
    WhyWhySee said


    LOVE.


    IT.
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    Jun 23, 2012 12:51 AM GMT
    Vegan? This friendship is over.



    WhyWhySee said
    ConfederateGhost saidIs it regular bacon, or turkey bacon? This makes a huge difference in what direction our friendship goes.

    Vegan
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    Jun 23, 2012 12:54 AM GMT
    ConfederateGhost saidVegan? This friendship is over.




    But I'm completely anti-vegan =( I brush my teeth with flank steak.