How Do You "Flirt?"

  • turtleneckjoc...

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    Jun 23, 2012 11:42 PM GMT
    A friend of mine here on RJ e-mailed me a question about flirting. I answered him mentioning how I do it, but he had some really good questions about the "process."

    Who better than you guys to answer him!

    Here is a little of what he asked:

    1. Do you make eye contact with someone, and quickly glance down at their package and them back up to their face, does that mean you're a bottom?

    2. Or suppose you make eye contact, discretely touch yourself and wink, does that mean you're a top?

    3 Another idea: Let's say you are standing somewhere near a hot guy can see you. You notice him looking and you ever so discretely unbutton your shirt button and show a little stomach while staring at them.

    Help him out, guys. How do you flirt and what advice can you give?

    For me, I make eye contact, smile and maybe throw in a wink or two.
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    Jun 23, 2012 11:55 PM GMT
    I just say "you're hot."

    Ask anyone who's hung out with me in public a few times. I tell guys that fairly regularly...and NOT just in the gay areas. icon_wink.gif
  • JJ_Atoli

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    Jun 23, 2012 11:58 PM GMT
    I don't ever.
    If I'm genuinely interested in a guy I tend to do this thing where I'm either really mean and sarcastic towards him or I ignore him completely. It childish and completely fails to produce positive results but I can't help it.
    It's just what I do. icon_sad.gif
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    Jun 23, 2012 11:59 PM GMT
    A guy at my gym is doing the adult version of pulling my pigtails right now... Pushing my towel on to the floor, being insulting, adding more plates when I'm not looking etc...

    Some people are truly inept at flirting
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    Jun 23, 2012 11:59 PM GMT
    I ask if he wants to go back to my place and play video games.
  • JJ_Atoli

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    Jun 24, 2012 12:00 AM GMT
    MsclDrew saidA guy at my gym is doing the adult version of pulling my pigtails right now... Pushing my towel on to the floor, being insulting, adding more plates when I'm not looking etc...

    Some people are truly inept at flirting


    <----------- This guy.
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    Jun 24, 2012 12:01 AM GMT
    On the same level I think. Its kind of like this; If you don't think I'm flirting with you, or have it cross your mind, then I'm not flirting with you. icon_cool.gificon_cool.gificon_cool.gif
  • turtleneckjoc...

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    Jun 24, 2012 1:50 AM GMT
    Thanks for the input, guys. This info should be helpful.
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    Jun 24, 2012 1:55 AM GMT
    Take my pants off and grunt.
  • turtleneckjoc...

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    Jun 24, 2012 2:40 AM GMT
    Any answers to his questions though...??
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    Jun 24, 2012 2:43 AM GMT
    Is his goal to just have sex? All your suggestions point to that.
  • paramoore

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    Jun 24, 2012 2:49 AM GMT
    The dirty secret of conversation is that people like to talk about themselves. So be interested in what they have to say, and keep lobbing compliments in their direction.
  • Hotstuff12

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    Jun 24, 2012 2:51 AM GMT
    You flirt by being yourself and being cool,sexy and mysterious at the same time always works
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    Jun 24, 2012 2:51 AM GMT
    I add ";)" to my messages.

    In person I just look at them with the equivalent of ";)"
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    Jun 24, 2012 2:53 AM GMT
    its hard to flirt given our situation....
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    Jun 24, 2012 3:10 AM GMT
    True that. If anyone finds a good answer let me know asap lol
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    Jun 24, 2012 3:17 AM GMT
    This chick taught me everything I know.

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    Jun 24, 2012 4:11 AM GMT
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    Jun 24, 2012 4:15 AM GMT
    MsclDrew said...
    Pushing my towel on to the floor, being insulting, adding more plates when I'm not looking etc...


    Those could be some downright dangerous acts, sounds more like he wants a fight.
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    Jun 24, 2012 4:19 AM GMT
    ConfederateGhost saidI ask if he wants to go back to my place and play video games.


    wow, such a romantic. icon_lol.gif
  • mybud

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    Jun 24, 2012 4:31 AM GMT
    I use my eyes to connect...My smile to draw in...My lips to send the deal..
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    Jun 24, 2012 4:34 AM GMT
    Oh let's face it, I will still take it as a compliment no matter how annoying it is as long as he is cute...
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    Jun 24, 2012 5:06 AM GMT
    catch saidThis chick taught me everything I know.



    i didnt see anything in that video about playing the cello naked... where did you learn that? ;)
  • Pontifex

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    Jun 24, 2012 5:08 AM GMT
    I flirt without even trying. I flirt with everyone. I don't even realise I do it. It has caused problems and confusion in the past. Apparently I've flirted with women. I don't have any interest in them. lol.
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    Jun 24, 2012 5:23 AM GMT
    Phoenyx said
    i didnt see anything in that video about playing the cello naked... where did you learn that? ;)


    I guess you could call it improvisation. icon_smile.gif