THE COLLEGE GYM/class: I want to experiment. Help!?

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    Jun 24, 2012 6:07 AM GMT
    SO Yeah Can YOU GIVE THIS 18yr old SOME TIPS ON TALKING TO THESE TALL,BUILT, & Masculine STALLIONS
    I'd LIKE TO EXPERIMENT OR DATE or LOVE(in a sexual or nonsexual way) ,, I WOULDN'T MIND ALL THAT WEIGHT ON ME :),, sorry if i sound horny. WELL MY HORMONES ARE RAGING icon_biggrin.gif..

    There's like 4+ guys that stare at me & orbit around my work out space.. also there's mirrors everywhere in the gym, i know when they're looking at me ;).... Sometimes when the 4+ guys are at the gym at the same time & at the same side of my work out space there's this palpable gay tension. it's awkward at times since they Glance AT EACH OTHER at each other but only STARE/ FOLLOW ME which i find odd.... I never knew that there was a lot of gay guys at my gym icon_smile.gif

    **** Also, DOES HAVING EARPHONES ON STOP PEOPLE FROM APPROACHING SOMEONE?****...
    --- Because i wear my earphones every day inside the gym--

    Im going 18 going on 19-- I'm just a chill dude- icon_smile.gif ... Would you find younger guys intimidating, if your gym regulars are usually old(er).


    -I thought since they're older guys(20+) that they'd make the first move on me...
  • TheBizMan

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    Jun 24, 2012 6:27 AM GMT
    ADHDguy?

    Looks like it..
  • Pontifex

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    Jun 24, 2012 6:32 AM GMT
    Or they could be concentrating on their workouts.
    Yes, when someone is wearing headphones that usually indicates they aren't interested in conversation and are concentrating on what they are doing.
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    Jun 24, 2012 6:35 AM GMT
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    Jun 24, 2012 6:38 AM GMT
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    Jun 24, 2012 6:48 AM GMT
    Pontifex saidOr they could be concentrating on their workouts.
    Yes, when someone is wearing headphones that usually indicates they aren't interested in conversation and are concentrating on what they are doing.




    I dont theyre concentrating on their work out... Last time one of them stood behind me while I was getting my towel from my backpack.. Idk why I don't even know him.
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    Jun 24, 2012 6:54 AM GMT
    ADHDguy said
    Pontifex saidOr they could be concentrating on their workouts.
    Yes, when someone is wearing headphones that usually indicates they aren't interested in conversation and are concentrating on what they are doing.




    I dont theyre concentrating on their work out... Last time one of them stood behind me while I was getting my towel from my backpack.. Idk why I don't even know him.


    Maybe he was using the locker near yours? Or maybe he forgot his post workout shake and was trying to calculate how many grams of protein you're made of.
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    Jun 24, 2012 6:55 AM GMT
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    Jun 24, 2012 6:57 AM GMT
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    LMAO!!!! I seriously Laughed out loud. I love you for this post bro!
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    Jun 24, 2012 7:02 AM GMT
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    Haha.... Well, he just awkwardly stood there.. My friend that was standing right next to me when it happened !! She even thought it was weird
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    Jun 24, 2012 7:06 AM GMT
    I'm not very good at explaining stuff.. Sorry about that.. I'll take my adderall next time I post...
  • TheBizMan

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    Jun 24, 2012 7:08 AM GMT
    ADHDguy saidI'm not very good at explaining stuff.. Sorry about that.. I'll take my adderall next time I post...


    Throw some my way please

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    Jun 24, 2012 7:11 AM GMT
    Do you need it for school? Recreational use? Or to jerk off for 4hrs lol?
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    Jun 24, 2012 7:18 AM GMT
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  • chaotic1

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    Jun 24, 2012 12:30 PM GMT
    I use to harbor this same hope back when I was in college.

    In my experience, they're probably staring at you as a reaction to something that you're unconciously doing.

    If you stop everything that you're doing and start looking around like a spooked meercat everytime they walk into the room, they're going to notice you.

    This isn't to say that they're interested / not interested, they just can't help but notice you because you're drawing attention to yourself.
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    Jun 24, 2012 1:12 PM GMT
    ADHDguy said
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    Haha.... Well, he just awkwardly stood there.. My friend that was standing right next to me when it happened !! She even thought it was weird


    She? Why is your girl friend in the locker room?

    Next time they hover over you, strike up a conversation. Ask what's up or something.