I think we broke up, but...

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    Jun 25, 2012 7:34 AM GMT
    So me and my boyfriend have been in a very dedicated relationship for about a year and a half, and he recently moved to Florida about 6 months ago because his grandpa passed away and he was the only one who could take care of his grandma. But a few weeks ago, he called me and told me that he needed to get his life sorted out, and get his debt paid off. He told me that he isn't looking to be with other people, and I'm willing to do the same. But I'm just not sure if we broke up or not! Help please?
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    Jun 25, 2012 8:27 AM GMT
    It's best to call him and ask him directly, I think.
    "Hey, are we broken up?"
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    Jun 25, 2012 10:41 AM GMT
    Answer: YES....No need to ask further...
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    Jun 25, 2012 2:08 PM GMT
    Yes you're broken up... but he's being a pussy and won't say so.
  • WhoDey

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    Jun 25, 2012 2:30 PM GMT
    I'm confused. Is he looking for help from you to pay off his debt?
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    Jun 25, 2012 3:51 PM GMT
    Sounds like a break up to me...
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    Jun 25, 2012 5:29 PM GMT
    Lol why are you asking people who don't know about your situation, I agree, ask him, maybe not directly, but ask him one way or another.
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    Jun 25, 2012 5:40 PM GMT
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    But seriously, you need to make him man-up and be clear with you. Is this temporary space he needs or are you through.
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    Jun 25, 2012 5:41 PM GMT
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    LOLL
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    Jun 25, 2012 9:35 PM GMT
    yup that sounds broke up to me but that doesn't mean the end of everything. you could be friends icon_smile.gif
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    Jun 25, 2012 9:40 PM GMT
    Its not official till its Facebook official!!!!
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    Jun 25, 2012 9:45 PM GMT
    You could ask him. The Realjock forums are only good for answering questions that relate to the guy above you or rating how hot someone is.
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    Jun 25, 2012 9:47 PM GMT
    msuNtx saidIts not official till its Facebook official!!!!


    Nice.

    I agree with most people here, if you are unsure ask him.
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    Jun 26, 2012 1:50 AM GMT
    Larkin saidYes you're broken up... but he's being a pussy and won't say so.

    This
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    Jun 26, 2012 1:56 AM GMT
    Maybe you are, maybe you aren't. You need to have a very direct conversation about expectations; and you really need to consider whether you are willing to put a relationship "on hold" in an open-ended/indefinite manner.

    If getting back together is far from certain, or with a nebulous timeline, are you really up for this?
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    Jun 26, 2012 2:13 AM GMT
    Sethayyy saidHe told me that he isn't looking to be with other people, and I'm willing to do the same. But I'm just not sure if we broke up or not! Help please?


    There's a gap here man I don't think your question is even answerable by the GP
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    Jun 26, 2012 2:17 AM GMT
    WhyWhySee saidThere's a Dallas in Oregon?


    yes - the Eastern highlands..
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    Jun 26, 2012 2:23 AM GMT
    I go with he's a pussy vote. He's been away from you for the last 1/3 of your relationship. Move on.
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    Jun 26, 2012 2:25 AM GMT
    WhyWhySee saidThere's a Dallas in Oregon?


    This!
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    Jun 26, 2012 3:08 AM GMT
    1.5 years is like 5 years in gay.